Hard Times Nakamura
Banned
This is what happens when Black Men try to follow Hollywood standards...
Most Men don't have their shyt together optimally enough to have children comfortably until age 40. Marry a 21 year old foreign chick that has the energy to raise your children and credentials in STEM. She can have the baby once she has tenure somewhere around age 25 and can get maternity leave and WFH for a year or so. That way she ain't just getting into the habit of sitting on her ass all day once the kids can be put in daycare or with relatives.
As long as you bringing in 100k+ and she bring at least 50k yall good.
Most Men don't have their shyt together optimally enough to have children comfortably until age 40. Marry a 21 year old foreign chick that has the energy to raise your children and credentials in STEM. She can have the baby once she has tenure somewhere around age 25 and can get maternity leave and WFH for a year or so. That way she ain't just getting into the habit of sitting on her ass all day once the kids can be put in daycare or with relatives.
As long as you bringing in 100k+ and she bring at least 50k yall good.