Think about how trying to be pro-black while being in a relationship with someone outside your race complicates things, especially, if you have kids.
You would have to become "color- blind" to prevent some type of insecurity within your new family.
Black is beautiful... Oh but white is nice too honey.
Praise melanin and black features while your progeny becomes whiter and lighter.
Fight against white supremacy... while your children benefit from white privilege.
I'm light skinned already. It's pretty much guaranteed for me to have kids with a darker skinned black woman for my genetic code to stand a chance.