ajnapoleon
Veteran
Would this make them more careful or make them not want to get married

Sort of why I've just distanced myself from certain aspects of our community because of the elements of dysfunction. I don't see why this is a problem.@ some of the comments calling her controlling on twitter. Guarantee if the stipulation was only that they couldn’t date non-BM women, they’d be calling her mother of the year.
Such an unserious “community.” Smh.
You just did thoughI also don't care much more than leaving this random comment on a server somewhere for perpetuity
yep, gotta give the kids plenty of things to love about themselves.... cuz a lot of these grown people relationship threads give "what's love got to do with it when you don't love yourself"
all this "as long as my kids are happy and healthy" letting them do whatever and be mid at the same time aint cuttin it.