Yeah, I agree. I had a friend who told me when she and her child arrive at home and its dark outside, she makes her daughter walk in the house first. She does this, just in case there is an intruder, so the intruder will grab her daughter and not her .
So, I know if shyt ever goes down and we are together, it will be all about my own survival.
That's a total d-bag move by her.
I don't know anything like that about people.
Usually it's me losing respect for someone based on their thoughts and behavior with others. Like, if you're friends with someone who is a total a-hole or if you took back a cheating BF after you talked trash about him.
That's when, I mean...I just can't look at you the same.