I know- my family never held it against me. My great aunt is to this day, one of my most loving and supportive family members. I think it was more dramatic at the time for my Grandparents, but I never felt any of that from anyone.That's not a reflection of you though. You're not responsible for what your parents did. Not that you would feel any shame or anything about it, really. Just that I know that kind of information can be fuel for trolls and @ssholes to use.