this is an example of how not to be as a human being. someone gives this woman valid constructive criticism, deep down we know this woman doesn't want to be the size she is, instead of reflecting on herself and finding it in her to change she instantly shifts to victim.
the only reason she found his criticism hurtful is because she doesn't like her reality and for a moment she was forced to confront it. that didn't last long because she found a way out by becoming the victim and other people got behind her and validated it allowing her back into the bubble.
i'm saying this as a person in the process of losing weight again after losing a shyt ton of it and gaining some of it back. when i was at my largest people constantly reminded me of what i was. i never got offended or mad at them or found what they said hurtful. when people coddle this woman and enable her she can shift behind that i am not my weight crap many people (especially women) fall back on.
being fat is a physical manifestation of your failure to control yourself at a basic level in life. eating is something you do to supply your body subsistence and that's it there is no joy in eating. its only when you abuse eating that you even get fat because your body has to pack on all that extra weight to compensate for your abuse to it.
the entitlement fat people feel about their weight is disgusting. they shouldn't be treated like regular people because being fat is being a failure at life. its like not taking a shower and walking around stinking every day. people who fail at life management shouldn't be coddled and enabled.
the only reason she found his criticism hurtful is because she doesn't like her reality and for a moment she was forced to confront it. that didn't last long because she found a way out by becoming the victim and other people got behind her and validated it allowing her back into the bubble.
i'm saying this as a person in the process of losing weight again after losing a shyt ton of it and gaining some of it back. when i was at my largest people constantly reminded me of what i was. i never got offended or mad at them or found what they said hurtful. when people coddle this woman and enable her she can shift behind that i am not my weight crap many people (especially women) fall back on.
being fat is a physical manifestation of your failure to control yourself at a basic level in life. eating is something you do to supply your body subsistence and that's it there is no joy in eating. its only when you abuse eating that you even get fat because your body has to pack on all that extra weight to compensate for your abuse to it.
the entitlement fat people feel about their weight is disgusting. they shouldn't be treated like regular people because being fat is being a failure at life. its like not taking a shower and walking around stinking every day. people who fail at life management shouldn't be coddled and enabled.