When she was in 1st grade he was pushing 40.
You've failed as a father if your daughter would ever end up in a situation where a man your age or older is courting her.
You've failed as a man if you can't have a relationship with someone who is close to your age and would have had similar life experiences. This is actually worse than the college sophomore hanging around the parking lot trying to get 11th and 12th graders while his friends are linking up with college girls on their way out but looking for some fun before they graduate. This is the equivalent of a parent doing the birdman handrub and saying "I'll be back in a few years when you start looking like your fine-ass mama
" to his child's peer when he see them and their parent at an elementary school event.
Zero respect for this, but people who want to live vicariously through him will see this as a win and get mad as if you're criticizing them personally in this thread(predictably)