What difference does it make where the "man of the family" is?
it doesn't.
Cant believe you typed that shyt, probably with pride too. A father's presence doesn't matter? This mentality is a big problem among American black men. It does matter. If he lives with his family but was at work when this happened, then I understand. But if he's a "pop up/weekend dad" type who doesn't live there and only comes around randomly, that does matter, it matters a lot. That's yet another black man who isn't even present in his kids household, community and isn't around enough. But as I said, if he is present but was at work then I understand.
If the father had been there(I'll be fair and just assume he lives with them but was at work at the time) then she wouldn't have had to call the police. He could (should) have handled the guy himself if he had been there without needing the policeman's help. It's bad that it even need to be stated and explained but black men need to start protecting our own communities from racists (and foreigners
) who want to come in and do whatever they want
Even if the dad was at work, there were some other men in the neighborhood who weren't during the incident.
some were there but did nothing, as usual.
The incident would not have been handled well by him prior to the cops showing up. pops would've probably physically handled the problem.
So according to y'all, when should black men physically handle a problem? Never? Anytime a black child, woman or man gets roughed up by police or killed you say black men shouldn't resort to getting physical. Anytme a cac treats us lower than a dog you say we shouldn't get physical. When then? If somebody's fukking with your kids that's not the time to talk about taking the high road and that moral superiority bs. You touch my kids, you get fukked up, don't care if you're wearing a badge or not. I protect my family.