Mixed Girl: "I Only Date BM, But Black Men That Only Dated White & LightSkin Girls Are Red Flags"

Eddy Gordo

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Based off the title (since I didn't watch the video)...I'm not mad. I always found black guys who put light skin women on a pedestal to be a problem. It breeds resentment and kills self esteem in brown or dark skinned black women. If you're dating a light skin black chick...more power to you, no problem. I'm just saying that when you do it because you only fukk with lightskin black women, talk shyt about darker women, etc etc...then I gotta problem.
Do you also expect light skin women to turn down dark skin brehs since they hurting dark skin women self esteem?:troll:
 

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Do you also expect light skin women to turn down dark skin brehs since they hurting dark skin women self esteem?:troll:

No, for the same reason. Date who you want. But I wouldn't cosign a light skin woman dating dark skin men and talking shyt about light skin men, perpetuating stereotypes, etc. What we don't need is a continuation of the abuse and nonsense darker black people - specifically black women - go through.
 

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No, for the same reason. Date who you want. But I wouldn't cosign a light skin woman dating dark skin men and talking shyt about light skin men, perpetuating stereotypes, etc. What we don't need is a continuation of the abuse and nonsense darker black people - specifically black women - go through.
I don't necessarily agree but I respect your view.
 
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You say the most :mjpls:sht

No. I just say the truth. You guys can keep walking on egg shells around the truth. But we all know there are more attractive light skin black women than any other group. And yes that includes white women for you cacs in here pretending to be black.

Whether its Halle Berry or Keri Hilson, they are the prototype.
 

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No. I just say the truth. You guys can keep walking on egg shells around the truth. But we all know there are more attractive light skin black women than any other group. And yes that includes white women for you cacs in here pretending to be black.

Whether its Halle Berry or Keri Hilson, they are the prototype.
No
 

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Manipulative cac selling self-esteem to black women.

This also is becoming a trend of using black women vulnerability from "woc" has a political stance/moral ground while not really caring for them one bit. :wow:

These are the types that are mute when we ask for more darker complexion women in films, shows, etc - where the stem of the problem formulates

the women she's riling up only gonna resent black men more, swirl and make more of her :mjlol: "b b but please diversify your dikk black men :mjcry:"

and she'll probably date nikkas for a few years, get a todd and then you'll see a bunch of: "b b but my 27% black queen. Why? :mjcry:"
 

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She's saying that it may be a sign that he is deep in colorism and she doesn't play when it comes to men being prejudiced. She's not wrong for that. Nothing more irritating than finding out the person you are with is just as prejudiced as the racists they like to complain about. With that said I don't think she is genuine.
 

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It’s a huge cognitive dissonance to get on a black man for liking lightskin women as a “fetish” when you’re overwhelmingly white and only date black men.

If it’s that serious why would he even want someone thats genetically and looks white.

Her reasoning is just ridiculous “well you only like lightskin women cuz colorism” And how did you like black men so much as a white woman if not as a fetish then:gucci:

She siad it was a preference(and she lives in Atlanta I think she said so who's she gonna date the most) but at least you took a crack at her logic.

What if she's 50% black and wants black children. Should all black men reject her because she's not 100%. I'm just trying to understand YOUR logic at this point not coming at you or anything.
 

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:hubie: my younger sister looks like like her.
My sis' mother is barely black and my pops is 100% black, but light brown skin...
(I remember getting pissed @ my wife cuz she said my lil sis wasnt a "real black woman")

The girl in this video may just be mixed..
Her opinion is valid.... nikkas who Only pawg or gor faith in the light skins are suspect af:comeon:

:manny:And she is allowed to prefer black men cuz her father is black and she lives around black people

makes sense
 
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if i try to make sense of it it, it seems like she is saying she dates black men period...meaning anywhere in the color spectrum... as opposed to someone who only dates fair skin women. so it seems like a cultural preference v a skin color preference. i guess one is the lesser evil :yeshrug:

but either way, its not something anyone has control over. this is just shyt you are born with (unless you on that bleach/tan/transracial wave)
 
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