I don't think you can look at Sasha like most of the other females on the roster. Most of them were models or came up through being a professional dancer or fitness person etc. They grew up receiving all kinds of attention.
Sasha was a cute chick but one who bounced around state to state, brother has a disability, mother was poor, father wasn't around.
Wrestling is all she knows professionally. Mikaze is all she knows relationship wise.
Now you fast-forward a few years and she is fine as hell and getting all this attention she never got. But she's still got that awkwardness about her too.