MenOfTheColi: How Many People Have You Had Sex With Without Using Condoms?

Mr. Negative

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That doesn't mean anything.

I read a thread on lsa last week about a girl dating (she didn't fck him yet) a guy who just found out he was hiv positive. He got it from his ex gf who he claims knew she had it.

I'll link the thread when i find it.

Here it is :queen:
The man Im dating just told me he's HIV positive

Nah, these weren't chicks I had just known for a few months. We had been together for years.

But judging from how many people I learned they cheated on me with, I dodged a hell of a bullet.
 

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Nah, these weren't chicks I had just known for a few months. We had been together for years.

But judging from how many people I learned they cheated on me with, I dodged a hell of a bullet.
The guy was with his ex gf for years. I don't think time matters.
 

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So you'd only have sex with your husband if he wears a condom?
No b/c I want kids. I'm getting him std tested every year though, more if he travels a lot for work. & if I think he's cheating, I'd divorce him or make him use condoms until I find proof that he did/didn't cheat, then divorce him if he cheated.

A wife and gf isn't the same thing btw :queen:
 

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No b/c I want kids. I'm getting him std tested every year though, more if he travels a lot for work. & if I think he's cheating, I'd divorce him or make him use condoms until I find proof that he did/didn't cheat, then divorce him if he cheated.

well, there you go. You live with a person for years, you think you know them, you do all kinds of reckless things.

A wife and gf isn't the same thing btw :queen:

Marriage isn't going to change who a person is. But this isn't the place for such a discussion.
 

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well, there you go. You live with a person for years, you think you know them, you do all kinds of reckless things.



Marriage isn't going to change who a person is. But this isn't the place for such a discussion.

It's not the same thing. & I would never live with someone who isn't my husband :queen:
 

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Why do y'all purposely not use condoms, then act surprised when you get someone pregnant? Doesn't make sense.

& those of you who don't use condoms, was it b/c you are uneducated or b/c you just didn't want to? I believe it's the second option, that's why I'm so tired of people saying "lack of education is why std and abortion rates or so high". That's obviously not true, people don't use them b/c they don't want to.
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Just another case of the elephant in the room, as pointed out by you. Some men will complain about child support this, single mothers that, among other things, but will scoff at the idea of using condoms. As always, blaming others is easier than personal accountability.
 

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