MenOfTheColi: How long into the relationship do you begin to pay for your gf's things?

[Anerdyblackguy]

How many weeks, months, years until you're willing to or don't mind paying for stuff for her.

Ex. Replacing her phone if she broke it or if it was stolen.
Paying to get her car fixed (battery, oil, tire change)
Paying for a cd or something or going clothes shopping
Paying for hair
Food, dates, vacations
Putting money into her hobbies, activities, classes
Education
A puppy
A car
Apartment/house (for the both of you)

Each circumstance is different. Examples.

1)Food, Dates, and flowers can be paid for early on in a relationship ( I usually pay for the date anyway). So it's whatever ( weeks-early months in relationship)

2)Stuff like paying for hair, clothing, shopping can happen after two or three months.

3)Bigger things like car, education ( I may make an exception depending on the urgency), phones can be handled after I'm sure we are serious ( 5-6 months).

4) Apartment is when I'm confident we're getting married ( 10-12 months)

 

[Giselle]

Do you have any form of autism?

What made you ask that?
Bc I'm random?

Each circumstance is different. Examples.

1)Food, Dates, and flowers can be paid for early on in a relationship ( I usually pay for the date anyway). So it's whatever ( weeks-early months in relationship)

2)Stuff like paying for hair, clothing, shopping can happen after two or three months.

3)Bigger things like car, education ( I may make an exception depending on the urgency), phones can be handled after I'm sure we are serious ( 5-6 months).

4) Apartment is when I'm confident we're getting married ( 10-12 months)

 

[Abstract83]

When the vibe and chemistry is good and a relationship is established. And I see her doing shyt for me without me asking. Or she got me when I'm flat broke etc.

 

[RoGethoes]

Your asking when is it okay to trick?

 

[OfTheCross]

How many weeks, months, years until you're willing to or don't mind paying for stuff for her.

Ex. Replacing her phone if she broke it or if it was stolen.
Paying to get her car fixed (battery, oil, tire change)
Paying for a cd or something or going clothes shopping
Paying for hair
Food, dates, vacations
Putting money into her hobbies, activities, classes
Education
A puppy
A car
Apartment/house (for the both of you)

Never, brehette. She's not my child and I'm not that rich.

 

[Princess Coco]

Do you have any form of autism?

I luh @Giselle lol. She asks good questions

 

[Giselle]

When the vibe and chemistry is good and a relationship is established. And I see her doing shyt for me without me asking. Or she got me when I'm flat broke etc.

How long does that usually take for you?

Your asking when is it okay to trick?

If that's slang for what I described in the op, then I guess so. lol

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Gotta have some time invested, years and or at least living together.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Not buying shyt unless we are married.

 

[Pineal Gland]

Immediately, but she gotta be



smart:usmart:



loyal:usmart:



grateful:usmart:



I appreesheeate that:usmart:

 

[Mr.Plan B]

When you can buy whatever twice, and still be under budget.

I can tell cats never had real realationship with a down to earth girl, money not that big of a issue if whatever you buying will make you both happy.

far as dating tell her before hand that you stick to a budget, she like you anyway she will pay for herself.

Stop being scary of seeming broke , shyt half the time they see you on you're grind they gave you money, food, pay for ya bills.

Speaking from experience brothers.

 

[MikelArteta]

I buy my girl some stuff but she also does for me.

She bought me a ps4 for my birthday, I bought her a dress and a bluetooth stereo for hers.

If it's not a two way street then hell no

 

[ultraflexed]

How many weeks, months, years until you're willing to or don't mind paying for stuff for her.

Ex. Replacing her phone if she broke it or if it was stolen.
Paying to get her car fixed (battery, oil, tire change)
Paying for a cd or something or going clothes shopping
Paying for hair
Food, dates, vacations
Putting money into her hobbies, activities, classes
Education
A puppy
A car
Apartment/house (for the both of you)

She had to show the ability to pay for thing ls first.
After that 6month to a year.
Al

 

[Canon]

I'll pay for food,dates and any hobbies that I'm into that she's willing to do

Anything else. That bytch works

 

[The Fire]

Each circumstance is different. Examples.

1)Food, Dates, and flowers can be paid for early on in a relationship ( I usually pay for the date anyway). So it's whatever ( weeks-early months in relationship)

2)Stuff like paying for hair, clothing, shopping can happen after two or three months.

3)Bigger things like car, education ( I may make an exception depending on the urgency), phones can be handled after I'm sure we are serious ( 5-6 months).

4) Apartment is when I'm confident we're getting married ( 10-12 months)

car after 6 months?