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If these dealing with women niqqas could ever see past their own bitterness and insecurities, they would realize that they are operating in the same way as the women they whine about incessantly.

Our attraction level, or who we find attractive, especially while younger, almost completely orients around primitive desires and feelings, i.e how much we find the other sexually attractive. Shes putting up with his "alpha male" behavior, and not attracted to your "beta male" behavior, not because she likes being treated like sht, but because she is more physically attracted to him, and wants to fck him, and not you. Just like we put up with bytches that barely respond to us, not because of their "alpha bytch" behavior, its because we wanna fck them again and again because of physical stimulation. Sht aint that hard.

People are generally only as "nice" as their options determine. If niqqas like they OP wanna meet a nice, respectable girl they can. The problem is that these girls are generally going to be physically average to below average in looks. They'll cook, clean, dote on you, act attentive, etc but the problem is you "nice" niqqas think you deserve the supermodel looking chick, and think the aforementioned girl is beneath you. Just like attractive broads think of you, generally speaking.

If you were the kid that lil girls would buy candy for in elementary, the kid that lil girls would make out with in junior high, the kid that girls would sneak into they parents house to dome you up in high school, and the same niqqa that had racked up 100 bodies by 20, then you prolly aint gunna be a sending flowers to the job, romantic cat. Same works in reverse. Ive got girls that have been chasing me for years, and are super sweet, but Im just not feeling them like that. Its not that I can cant appreciate nice people, or good treatment.

You personally just dont got it like that, and it frustrates you:

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I've seen this cat make this happen in real life. I remember it as clear as day because we were on drugs at the time.

On another note, I used to be the hypothetical gentleman in the OP more often until my financial prospects got better and I lost fat/gained muscle again.

Lastly, a huge part of the problem is the way we were taught growing up. We all remember (at least I do) the after school specials of the nerdy "nice guy" getting the head cheerleader or something equally corny in the end. We've all also seen young women cry and complain over the years about some dude being an a$$hole to her and we thought to ourselves (you know you did) at some point, "Man, I don't wanna be the guy that makes her so upset! I'll be sure to be the guy that works to keep her happy 24/7!"

I think that being nice in hopes of getting a relationship or sex is really stupid and some of these younger guys should be taught better sooner rather than later, but I also think that they get shat on a little too hard for my liking. They're just naive and a need a little help.
 

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prolly i am the alpha male. heeh

Women walk all over men. That gentlemen shyt wont get you no where. U need to show this bytches whose boss. You need to slap that ass in public make her feel incomfortable
Then she wont get outta line caus she scared u will embarass her
 
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If these dealing with women niqqas could ever see past their own bitterness and insecurities, they would realize that they are operating in the same way as the women they whine about incessantly.

Our attraction level, or who we find attractive, especially while younger, almost completely orients around primitive desires and feelings, i.e how much we find the other sexually attractive. Shes putting up with his "alpha male" behavior, and not attracted to your "beta male" behavior, not because she likes being treated like sht, but because she is more physically attracted to him, and wants to fck him, and not you. Just like we put up with bytches that barely respond to us, not because of their "alpha bytch" behavior, its because we wanna fck them again and again because of physical stimulation. Sht aint that hard.

People are generally only as "nice" as their options determine. If niqqas like they OP wanna meet a nice, respectable girl they can. The problem is that these girls are generally going to be physically average to below average in looks. They'll cook, clean, dote on you, act attentive, etc but the problem is you "nice" niqqas think you deserve the supermodel looking chick, and think the aforementioned girl is beneath you. Just like attractive broads think of you, generally speaking.

If you were the kid that lil girls would buy candy for in elementary, the kid that lil girls would make out with in junior high, the kid that girls would sneak into they parents house to dome you up in high school, and the same niqqa that had racked up 100 bodies by 20, then you prolly aint gunna be a sending flowers to the job, romantic cat. Same works in reverse. Ive got girls that have been chasing me for years, and are super sweet, but Im just not feeling them like that. Its not that I can cant appreciate nice people, or good treatment.

You personally just dont got it like that, and it frustrates you:

p4TYXpQ.gif
you and the rest of these nerds on here make a million attempts to marginalize the "gems dealing with women" thread into being a bunch of frustrated virgins who can't get the hot girl and y'all continue to be completely off every single time...if i didn't see the picture in your avi i would believe that you were a air headed 21 year old girl
 

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I've been both those guys.


Been eating good for the past few years though :shaq:

anyways its not that hard to deal with women, just find a friend who has game and do the things he does. If all your friends are lames then step your social status game up.
 

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prolly i am the alpha male. heeh

Women walk all over men. That gentlemen shyt wont get you no where. U need to show this bytches whose boss. You need to slap that ass in public make her feel incomfortable
Then she wont get outta line caus she scared u will embarass her

:ufdup: :leon:
 

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I've seen this cat make this happen in real life. I remember it as clear as day because we were on drugs at the time.

On another note, I used to be the hypothetical gentleman in the OP more often until my financial prospects got better and I lost fat/gained muscle again.

Lastly, a huge part of the problem is the way we were taught growing up. We all remember (at least I do) the after school specials of the nerdy "nice guy" getting the head cheerleader or something equally corny in the end. We've all also seen young women cry and complain over the years about some dude being an a$$hole to her and we thought to ourselves (you know you did) at some point, "Man, I don't wanna be the guy that makes her so upset! I'll be sure to be the guy that works to keep her happy 24/7!"

I think that being nice in hopes of getting a relationship or sex is really stupid and some of these younger guys should be taught better sooner rather than later, but I also think that they get shat on a litTurtle too hard for my liking. They're just naive and a need a little help.

True. At the same token, women should be called out whenever they complain about dudes who supposedly treat them poorly when they love every bit of it. As for me, at least in the past, I was not necessarily the gentleman/nice guy (which is basically a pushover), but I was the guy who was respectful towards people in general. But now, I have learned in dealing with women that you absolutely cannot treat them with respect since they have a tendency to come at generally respectful dudes who have done nothing wrong to them with bullshyt and they do not do the same with dudes who are hella foul towards them. So therefore, in my opinion, any female who pops that shyt about wanting a dude to treat her with respect/decency should really shut the fukk because she is on bullshyt.
 
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:deadmanny: at that gif. Two innocent dudes getting the shyt slapped out of them. My man on the railing might of died. His body language was that serious.

And hi, im the alpha wolf. Do I play games and never simp on broads? Correct. Simping is :mindblown:

You hardly acknowledge the woman you want. You dont buy her clothes. You gotta make them yearn for your attention and approval. No hate on the birds, but its kinda like training a dog. Same principles apply anyway. You dont give the dog attention when it paws at you, that's a sign of dominance, you decide when you want to be touched, not the dog.

Shoutout to Cesar Milan.

But yea, you treat birds the same. Hit Em up wen u wanna. Just bc they ask to chill doesnt mean you have too. Let Em work a bit. No h0mo. This aint no play hard to get shyt. Its just the wat its got to be. Bc fucc being the gentleman. Id rather be the homie that died from head trauma in that gif(t).
 

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:deadmanny: at that gif. Two innocent dudes getting the shyt slapped out of them. My man on the railing might of died. His body language was that serious.

And hi, im the alpha wolf. Do I play games and never simp on broads? Correct. Simping is :mindblown:

You hardly acknowledge the woman you want. You dont buy her clothes. You gotta make them yearn for your attention and approval. No hate on the birds, but its kinda like training a dog. Same principles apply anyway. You dont give the dog attention when it paws at you, that's a sign of dominance, you decide when you want to be touched, not the dog.

Shoutout to Cesar Milan.

But yea, you treat birds the same. Hit Em up wen u wanna. Just bc they ask to chill doesnt mean you have too. Let Em work a bit. No h0mo. This aint no play hard to get shyt. Its just the wat its got to be. Bc fucc being the gentleman. Id rather be the homie that died from head trauma in that gif(t).

Co-sign. And you forgot the most important rule: treat women like total shyt in order to be respected by them. For example, a dude should call a female out of her name even when she is acting right. It makes her want him even more. Real talk.
 

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This has nothing to do with alpha males though. Girls do dumb shyt for guys they like, same with dudes.
 

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Good post.

I used to be the " late night dude" but I'm more of the "gentleman" now. The thing is I am still confident, coincided and all that, but I try not to be " the man" anymore. I'm looking for quality not quantity anymore. Besides, my numbers been up. I'm looking for love now.

To illustrate, when I refer to gentleman I mean more reserve. I've never been a trick, but I do believe in being chivalrous when appropriate. I tell females this all the time " I don't mind playing my role, however you have to SHOW me your worth my time." When I say show me I mean, take the initiative once in a while, do something that I might not expect, a good morning, would you like to meet for lunch I got you? , I cooked dinner why don't you join? instead of feeling entitled to everything. I swear I'm the type that will not sweat you by any means. I won't constantly call you, I won't text, e-mail nothing if I don't feel it's reciprocal... I dont have time for that. I'm busy every day, but i'm never too busy to say hello so thats how I feel about it in a abstract, unorganized way lol
 

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:heh: reincar, don't tell me that women got you so shook that you spend most of your time reading shyt like that?
 

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you and the rest of these nerds on here make a million attempts to marginalize the "gems dealing with women" thread into being a bunch of frustrated virgins who can't get the hot girl and y'all continue to be completely off every single time...if i didn't see the picture in your avi i would believe that you were a air headed 21 year old girl

Not virgins breh just beta-males (yall slang btw).

Tell me the whole purpose of that thread breh?


Only reason why its a sticky is cause of reincar, its a fukking embarrassment to the coli. I read the pages and it seems yall take 2 steps forward and 5 steps back. I won't front yall would say something useful here and there but then it seems like yall forget it and end right back where you started :mindblown:

Most of them dudes want good women and blah blah blah but was willing to fly out to Brazil and pay for companionship and love? I mean literally go down there and pay to be treated like a man :heh:

I just cant with yall
 
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