Zapp Brannigan
Captain of the Nimbus
If these dealing with women niqqas could ever see past their own bitterness and insecurities, they would realize that they are operating in the same way as the women they whine about incessantly.
Our attraction level, or who we find attractive, especially while younger, almost completely orients around primitive desires and feelings, i.e how much we find the other sexually attractive. Shes putting up with his "alpha male" behavior, and not attracted to your "beta male" behavior, not because she likes being treated like sht, but because she is more physically attracted to him, and wants to fck him, and not you. Just like we put up with bytches that barely respond to us, not because of their "alpha bytch" behavior, its because we wanna fck them again and again because of physical stimulation. Sht aint that hard.
People are generally only as "nice" as their options determine. If niqqas like they OP wanna meet a nice, respectable girl they can. The problem is that these girls are generally going to be physically average to below average in looks. They'll cook, clean, dote on you, act attentive, etc but the problem is you "nice" niqqas think you deserve the supermodel looking chick, and think the aforementioned girl is beneath you. Just like attractive broads think of you, generally speaking.
If you were the kid that lil girls would buy candy for in elementary, the kid that lil girls would make out with in junior high, the kid that girls would sneak into they parents house to dome you up in high school, and the same niqqa that had racked up 100 bodies by 20, then you prolly aint gunna be a sending flowers to the job, romantic cat. Same works in reverse. Ive got girls that have been chasing me for years, and are super sweet, but Im just not feeling them like that. Its not that I can cant appreciate nice people, or good treatment.
You personally just dont got it like that, and it frustrates you:
I've seen this cat make this happen in real life. I remember it as clear as day because we were on drugs at the time.
On another note, I used to be the hypothetical gentleman in the OP more often until my financial prospects got better and I lost fat/gained muscle again.
Lastly, a huge part of the problem is the way we were taught growing up. We all remember (at least I do) the after school specials of the nerdy "nice guy" getting the head cheerleader or something equally corny in the end. We've all also seen young women cry and complain over the years about some dude being an a$$hole to her and we thought to ourselves (you know you did) at some point, "Man, I don't wanna be the guy that makes her so upset! I'll be sure to be the guy that works to keep her happy 24/7!"
I think that being nice in hopes of getting a relationship or sex is really stupid and some of these younger guys should be taught better sooner rather than later, but I also think that they get shat on a little too hard for my liking. They're just naive and a need a little help.