Girl, that is not red pill, he’s literally repeating what many black women do and post online.1. I am a woman
Went on a date with 6’5 Nigerian who works in finance. 28. He was born in the states but his parents are from Nigeria. Moderately facially attractive but his height/body definitely make up for it. I already planned on sleeping with him cuz a girl has needs too and his arms are great, I’m shallow idc.
So we went out to eat at a popular Mexican spot. He’s clearly well put together, smart and comes from a stable family. This is good and I am very excited. He said his friend is having a get together the following week and wants to bring me, I said sure I’ll go. I like meeting people. I went, his friends are normal which means he must be normal right? We went to his place and we didn’t fukk unfortunately (bloody reasons) but we messed around. I did tell him I wanted to but next time.
So he wanted to go on another date a few days later, we went to a restaurant in an outlet and we spent most of the day walking around/talking after eating.
This is where I learned he is deep into the incel-like internet world. He started ranting about “women these days” and how the internet has made women feel special and entitled. We are disloyal. We only sleep with men with lots of money. Only the best men can get women. He said he’s lucky he’s tall because women are particularly evil to short men. I mean the man was going OFFFFFFFF.
I’m genuinely confused at this point because this man is definitely above the curve in terms of everything, he can clearly get women (I am assuming), so what’s the beef about? It only hit me later, is he mad I didn’t fukk him that night? Like, was that the trigger?
Anyway, he scared this hoe. I made an excuse to not see him again cuz I thought that rant was scary and unsettling. He sounded like he HATES women. And once he got started he couldn’t stop. It was pretty wild to see because the first couple dates were perfectly normal. I was shocked.
This isn’t the first time I dated someone who mentioned “women these days” and it’s so weird to me that guys do this to women who are ACTIVELY ON DATES WITH THEM. Like are y’all aware how weird and disturbing you sound complaining about women to a woman who has chosen to date you? Please tell me you’re aware of how this looks?
Has any other women experienced this?
I have noticed it and so have a few other women and many men. My grandma even had a few of the doctors at her job asking her if she had a daughter or someone for them bc “good women are hard to find” and this was nearly a decade ago. Many women been calling men ain’t shyt, bashing them for decades and saying good men are hard to find but I’m sure you didn’t see a problem with it.
Many men believe that and it started about a decade ago before red pill was even a thing, and honestly it’s partially true. It started when this social media version of feminism became a thing and they promoted gender wars man hate and casual sex/hyper sexuality as the ultimate form of feminism . Red pill is men’s response to this fraudulent version of feminism this millennial/older gen z created/participates in. Many women are only just now noticing bc they’ve been doing it for over a decade and now 30+ and single with no relationship experience, only casual sex. But when pple told them it’d lead to that they called us male identified pick me’s
The only thing I agree with in your post is that he should have been smart enough to keep that to himself while vetting.