Men, stop scaring the h0es with your Redpill drivel

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1. I am a woman

Went on a date with 6’5 Nigerian who works in finance. 28. He was born in the states but his parents are from Nigeria. Moderately facially attractive but his height/body definitely make up for it. I already planned on sleeping with him cuz a girl has needs too and his arms are great, I’m shallow idc.

So we went out to eat at a popular Mexican spot. He’s clearly well put together, smart and comes from a stable family. This is good and I am very excited. He said his friend is having a get together the following week and wants to bring me, I said sure I’ll go. I like meeting people. I went, his friends are normal which means he must be normal right? We went to his place and we didn’t fukk unfortunately (bloody reasons) but we messed around. I did tell him I wanted to but next time.

So he wanted to go on another date a few days later, we went to a restaurant in an outlet and we spent most of the day walking around/talking after eating.

This is where I learned he is deep into the incel-like internet world. He started ranting about “women these days” and how the internet has made women feel special and entitled. We are disloyal. We only sleep with men with lots of money. Only the best men can get women. He said he’s lucky he’s tall because women are particularly evil to short men. I mean the man was going OFFFFFFFF.

I’m genuinely confused at this point because this man is definitely above the curve in terms of everything, he can clearly get women (I am assuming), so what’s the beef about? It only hit me later, is he mad I didn’t fukk him that night? Like, was that the trigger?

Anyway, he scared this hoe. I made an excuse to not see him again cuz I thought that rant was scary and unsettling. He sounded like he HATES women. And once he got started he couldn’t stop. It was pretty wild to see because the first couple dates were perfectly normal. I was shocked.

This isn’t the first time I dated someone who mentioned “women these days” and it’s so weird to me that guys do this to women who are ACTIVELY ON DATES WITH THEM. Like are y’all aware how weird and disturbing you sound complaining about women to a woman who has chosen to date you? Please tell me you’re aware of how this looks?

Has any other women experienced this?
Girl, that is not red pill, he’s literally repeating what many black women do and post online.

I have noticed it and so have a few other women and many men. My grandma even had a few of the doctors at her job asking her if she had a daughter or someone for them bc “good women are hard to find” and this was nearly a decade ago. Many women been calling men ain’t shyt, bashing them for decades and saying good men are hard to find but I’m sure you didn’t see a problem with it.

Many men believe that and it started about a decade ago before red pill was even a thing, and honestly it’s partially true. It started when this social media version of feminism became a thing and they promoted gender wars man hate and casual sex/hyper sexuality as the ultimate form of feminism . Red pill is men’s response to this fraudulent version of feminism this millennial/older gen z created/participates in. Many women are only just now noticing bc they’ve been doing it for over a decade and now 30+ and single with no relationship experience, only casual sex. But when pple told them it’d lead to that they called us male identified pick me’s


The only thing I agree with in your post is that he should have been smart enough to keep that to himself while vetting.
 

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Girl, that is not red pill, he’s literally repeating what many black women do and post online.

I have noticed it and so have a few other women and many men. My grandma even had a few of the doctors at her job asking her if she had a daughter or someone for them bc “good women are hard to find” and this was nearly a decade ago. Many women been calling men ain’t shyt, bashing them for decades and saying good men are hard to find but I’m sure you didn’t see a problem with it.

Many men believe that and it started about a decade ago before red pill was even a thing, and honestly it’s partially true. It started when this social media version of feminism became a thing and they promoted gender wars man hate and casual sex/hyper sexuality as the ultimate form of feminism . Red pill is men’s response to this fraudulent version of feminism this millennial/older gen z created/participates in. Many women are only just now noticing bc they’ve been doing it for over a decade and now 30+ and single with no relationship experience, only casual sex. But when pple told them it’d lead to that they called us male identified pick me’s


The only thing I agree with in your post is that he should have been smart enough to keep that to himself while vetting.
Preach Rev!
 

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I went down the rabbit hole. This channel is ridiculous.


But I guess my ultimate thing is…why TF would looks not matter to women? Lol All animals are drawn to attractive members of their species. Humans just have to have a few experiences to realize that looks aren’t everything. 🤷🏾‍♀️
 
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Don’t worry about these men that call themselves the N word all day everyday. I knew exactly the meme you were referring to and quote it all the time. It should be clear you aren’t seriously calling yourself a hoe but :yeshrug: nuance is lost on a lot of these men. Probably because they don’t realize that they themselves have been guilty of “scaring the hoes” in the past and were oblivious to it.

Anyway, men tend to be very comfortable talking to me (too comfortable) sometimes and as soon as they try to dip that toe in the KS pond I just nod and smile and know not to take them serious. I don’t even argue anymore or try to counter because it’s a no win battle. I even had one guy make up some bullshyt facts but when I came with actual data and numbers he said mine “had been manipulated”:bryan:




Not @OliviaTwist making a play for the easy p*ssy....


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@Lemons the brehs are roasting you for referring to yourself as a hoe, but I will admit that this was a refreshing read as you don't see too many women taking accountability for their actions these days (as ole boy said). The fact that you can call yourself a hoe even in jest is actually a good sign to me.

With that being said, he's right. A lot of men feel the same as he does. I hate red pill and Kevin Samuel's and all of that foolery. But I do acknowledge that there were a lot of things that they were right about.

Where ole boy messed up was saying it to you.

He out here having coli conversations with hoes. :dead:

I feel that most young women (35 and under) are disloyal, trifling, selfish, spoiled, hypocritical hoes.

However I would never say that to one of the hoes. :skip:

This is a conversation that us men have among ourselves constantly as you see on the coli.

Why he felt the need to say that to you, I do not know.

As you said, he's a regular guy except for that. In fact, you rated him above regular.

Women probably feel the same about me, but if I started going on one of my rants that I have with the fellas, I'm sure that would be off-putting to them.

Dude literally talked himself out the pu55y. :wow:


We need to add this story to the Oblivious to Women thread.


With that being said, he doesn't hate women. He just has (legitimate) issues with the way women move.

I go off about women all the time and I've been more successful with the ladies than probably 75% of this board. It doesn't mean that I hate women though.

See yall think that yall are God's gift to man and you act like you can't see why men would ever complain about yall.

But here's the thing. If you look past the tittiies and the ass, most women are just flat out terrible human beings.

That's just the truth. Does that mean that I like yall any less? No, I'm always talking to women cause I love women.

But two things can be true at the same time. Yall can be trifling individuals and I can love yall evil asses at the same time. :wow:
I feel this exact same way. Everything you pointed out, I agree with. Great post.
 
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It is timing and tone.

You don't strike me as the sort who would just bring it up out of left field. There's nothing wrong with standing on your square and you will get people to reflect if you learn how to present your views as questions that gets them thinking of their own conduct over the years.




There's no benefit to having this conversation with women period though :what:


I'm the type of person who talks for a purpose. When I talk on the coli, it's for entertainment. When I have conversations with the fellas about women, it's to compare notes and share warnings.

What do you get out of having this conversation with a woman?

Do you think telling her this is going to make her go :ohhh: and provide her with enlightenment? Cause I promise it won't.
 
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