“Men Over 30 With No Kids Are Red Flags!”

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"I'm around people who are in their 30s with kids. If I encounter someone who isn't, that's abnormal because of what is normal in my circle is the opposite"

It's insecurity and selection bias masquerading as an objective claim. It's a defense mechanism to protect one's hurt ego. Deep down she knows men without kids in their 30s aren't bad people. She needs to believe that they are because of what it says about her and her people if those men are in fact, perfectly normal people who took precautions because they were not ready for how parenthood would affect their finances, lifestyle, and mental health.
 

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Not as bad as I thought but still misguided. She basically saying baggage ie divorce and/or kids, is proof you are able to commit to something. Plenty of irresponsible, unserious dudes have gotten married and most certainly had kids with 0 regard for the commitment that is required. If a nikka make it to 30 unmarried with no kids that is a commitment itself and a greater indicator of his discipline and selectiveness.
 

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Not as bad as I thought but still misguided. She basically saying baggage ie divorce and/or kids, is proof you are able to commit to something. Plenty of irresponsible, unserious dudes have gotten married and most certainly had kids with 0 regard for the commitment that is required. If a nikka make it to 30 unmarried with no kids that is a commitment itself and a greater indicator of his discipline and selectiveness.

Bro it is as bad as u may have thought...cause that sht doesn't make sense and is the opposite of being able to commit to something
 
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