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Does it bother you if your baby mom is bringing dudes around your child, or if they are staying the night?
 

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i work wit dudes like that and these nikkas be super paranoid about that.. nikkas be like " that nikka better not touch my kid or this nikka taking my kids out and thw whole nine "

i'm so :blessed: i don't have no kids
 
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Does it bother you if your baby mom is bringing dudes around your child, or if they are staying the night?


im divorced...and naw...i trust that my ex has my kids' best interests in mind when she does whatever she does...

plus its wasted energy to worry over things you have no control over
 

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Me and my son mother arent together( thank god ). She has a BF and they live together. He's a Bus driver( aka he aint messing with my cert life ) and seems to be a good dude. Before that i tried to lock her in a basement, somehow she escaped. But anyway when my son becomes a teenager he's coming to live with me. we both agreed that he should be with me during those years. I use to trip about it. but life is to short for all of that. I was def reminded of this when my father was diagnoised with cancer. Dont trip off the small things in life.
 

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Seeing as my daughter already lived the worst situation that could occur.
I am not feeling the lack of power in the situation.
Although, it is just part of the situation.


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Me and my son mother arent together( thank god ). She has a BF and they live together. He's a Bus driver( aka he aint messing with my cert life ) and seems to be a good dude. Before that i tried to lock her in a basement, somehow she escaped. But anyway when my son becomes a teenager he's coming to live with me. we both agreed that he should be with me during those years. I use to trip about it. but life is to short for all of that. I was def reminded of this when my father was diagnoised with cancer. Dont trip off the small things in life.

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You cant control what happens even if they do live with you cuz no parent is with the kids 24/7. My ex has a live in BF, baby mamas get shacked up quick it's hard for a single mother to be alone, long as he pay his half the rent, keep her company so she doesn't harass me or my ladies and keep his hands to himself it wont be a problem. All a father can do is maintain open dialogue and have a good relationship with the kids. All I need is a reason, and it dont even have to be a good one:demonic:
 

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I used to worry about it when I was younger and my son was young, but not so much anymore

My son's mother is older than me, more mature and very protective of him so its not too much to be worried about plus she has no interest in thugs or street dudes like that.

Also, I'm married and my son is around my wife all the time and even if I'm not around so I can't really expect her not have ANY dudes around him. Unlike most baby mama situtations I want to find someone and be happy

Also now that my son is a lil older whenever she brings dudes around he is like :birdman:
 
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