Men: Do you practice chivalry (open door, give up seats)?

[Rocket Scientist]

If you doing something to expect a Thank You,then your doing it for the wrong reason.

 

[Hades]

I don't even remember when I learned to open doors for people but I do it when I can. There are certain doors that cause a stop in the flow when each person has to open it so I hold those if someone is in walkshot (earshot). I wait for them to grab the door and go about my business. I used to get tight when people didn't say thanks or toss a head nob but have since let that go. You don't do nice things for thanks, you do them because they're nice I suppose. I don't mind giving up my seat to elderly or mothers with small children, however the situation rarely ever presents itself.

 

[Cat piss martini]

Carry yourself like a woman and i'll treat you
as such.

 

[Brandon M.]

Yep, I do have two hands...two hands that I use to cater to him when he could get up and do many things himself too. In case you didn't know, people in relationships do things for each other. You probably can't fathom that though.

get the fukk outta here....lol.....thats ur problem if u wanna play the part of some nikka's maid.

 

[YaBoy]

i'll open a door/hold open a door everytime

giving up a seat on the train or bus. nah unless they're eldery or prego
pull back chair, nah.
open a car door for them, nah.


is it me or do you HATE when dudes open a door for you, i don't care if they're holding it open because they're in front of me, but if a nikka is front of me and holds the door open for me to go first, that shyt pisses me off. i'm just like go bruh, i can open a fkn door

Yea that always bothers me. I always stop & look at them like "nikka go ahead. I aint a female"

 

[Flay Mayweather]

nope, fukk that.
Bishes don't be offering me no seat on NJ transit.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Carry yourself like a woman and i'll treat you
as such.

Exactly, if its a chick who is very feminine and what not I'll probably put forth a little effort to do shyt like opening doors (NOT vacating seats). But if its one of those girls trying to be one of the boys, then she's gonna get treated like one of the boys

 

[Miggs]

I give up seats for old folks not women,i open doors sometimes...

 

[SouthernBelle]

get the fukk outta here....lol.....thats ur problem if u wanna play the part of some nikka's maid.

Who's complaining sweetie? What exactly are you upset about?


eta: you're probably upset that you can't get one of your multiple babymamas to do anything for you.

 

[Dwolf]

 

[MikelArteta]

im serious, every time you hold open a door for a women you are viewing her as less than human. You are viewing her as an object that is not capable of having strength or the ability to thrive on her own.

The origins of Chivalry is knee deep in sexism and is classist

 

[philmonroe]

Yea that always bothers me. I always stop & look at them like "nikka go ahead. I aint a female"

Sound like some low level hood nikka philosophy shyt. I never think about it more than somebody holding the door being nice but maybe cause I hold the door for everybody.

 

[Ziggiy]

im serious, every time you hold open a door for a women you are viewing her as less than human. You are viewing her as an object that is not capable of having strength or the ability to thrive on her own.

The origins of Chivalry is knee deep in sexism and is classist

You know that's an interesting viewpoint. How much has modern day feminism killed the act of gentlemanly behavior?

 

[Mr. Negative]

im serious, every time you hold open a door for a women you are viewing her as less than human. You are viewing her as an object that is not capable of having strength or the ability to thrive on her own.

The origins of Chivalry is knee deep in sexism and is classist

 

[YaBoy]

Sound like some low level hood nikka philosophy shyt. I never think about it more than somebody holding the door being nice but maybe cause I hold the door for everybody.

I'm far from a low level hood nikka. I don't have a problem with it when they walk through ahead of me then keep the door open so I can grab it & they keep it pushin. Its only weird when they're already in front of me, but then they'll open the door & move to the side so I can go first