Men Do Not Fall In Love Gradually.

[Giselle]

"Men do not fall in love gradually, and they do not find themselves suddenly falling for women in whom they weren't initially interested.Now, let me qualify a couple things before going any further. By "love" I mean deep romantic attraction, as opposed to lust or long-term attachment. Lust is primary, physical and fleeting for both sexes, and long-term attachment takes years of shared experience to develop in either sex. Male romantic love is something that either starts early and continues, or else doesn't start at all. If a man isn't falling for you from an early stage - say, the first month - it isn't going to happen."


Do you guys agree or disagree? Why/why not?

Explain please

I'll be back after class to read.

 

[Kitsch]

I'll get back to you after the annnual Men's Meeting.

 

[resurrection]

From my personal experience, that seems accurate

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

I dont know about all that, simps fall in love instantly tho. But I do know women fall out of love instantly

 

[Arithmetic]

Negged.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I agree, a man knows if he likes a women right away and if he doesn't that usually doesn't change with time. Even if she's bad... I wont say fall in love instantly but we know if its a option pretty quickly. Feelings can change once true colors really start to show but over all this is true.

If a dude tells you he really likes you early on its a good sign ladies. Sadly alot of women take this as buffer time to "shop around" or "get themselves together."

It doesn't really matter though women forget and drop men that they have no romantic ties really quickly. And there is always another dude out there just waiting for a shot, especially if the women is attractive

 

[Champagne Kudo]

It's true

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Male romantic love is something that either starts early and continues, or else doesn't start at all. If a man isn't falling for you from an early stage - say, the first month - it isn't going to happen."

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Can agree with this.

 

[Action Mike]

This was also included in that advice...

"While this doesn't necessarily mean that he should be ruled out as a potential boyfriend or husband, it does mean that he will never be the woozy, infatuated lover you've seen in the movies."

Movies huh?

That man running that site is just telling you what you want to hear. Just ask women who have 10 year plus marriages for advice.

A man with options falling deeply in love in 30 days? No brehette.

 

[Action Mike]

I agree, a man knows if he likes a women right away and if he doesn't that usually doesn't change with time. Even if she's bad... I wont say fall in love instantly but we know if its a option pretty quickly. Feelings can change once true colors really start to show but over all this is true.

If a dude tells you he really likes you early on its a good sign ladies. Sadly alot of women take this as buffer time to "shop around" or "get themselves together."

It doesn't really matter though women forget and drop men that they have no romantic ties really quickly. And there is always another dude out there just waiting for a shot, especially if the women is attractive

Agree with this. But.

Like early, yes.

Love early, no.

Big difference.

 

[Rawtid]

Men don't have emotions, don't let them tell you any differently.

 

[XII]

So this is the state of TLR

A bunch of lonely people discussing relationships

 

[karim]

what do you mean by deep romantic love and what differentiates it from lust and long-term attachement respectively. what are the benefits of a relationship where the man is deeply in love compared to a relationship where the man isn't (assuming that we are talking about a long term relationship where long-term attachement has formed.)?

 

[42 Monks]

Its true. Only two women I can think of in my life went from to

That's why I always laugh at women who think they can train a man by making him wait. His mind is already made up. Yal fukking around with these games because of relationship PTSD waiting to get one upped by the next girl who knows what the fukk she wants and ain't shook to go get it.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Agree with this. But.

Like early, yes.

Love early, no.

Big difference.

Yeah, super like would be a better description. Loving someone with in 30 days of getting to know them is ALOT. That's not love at that point...imo


I think you can love someone before your in love with them though. But that's a whole different thread