She doesn't want to deal with men's BS but she spent her whole "career" using her body to cater to those same men and their BS ideas about sex and the female body?
Let's stop with the "well maybe she doesn't want a man or want these scumbags" as if she didn't make her living/fame from catering to the base desires of men in the hip hop industry. As well as the viewing audience. This woman is not known for any talent or skill.
She is known for showing off her body in scantly clad settings in order to increase sex appeal and marketing...among those same scumbags.
I'm not clowning her for what she did either. But let's not be intellectually dishonest with our assessments. She did what she did and she made a name for herself doing it, however I don't buy any part of her simply being too above the shallow ideas of men since she spent her adult life making a living based off those shallow desires.
I have no doubt in my mind that this woman wanted/will want/wants to get wifed. Again, I have met NO WOMAN IN REAL LIFE who does not want to be married and in a serious committed relationship at some point her life...most want this before the age of 36. I would doubt that Ms. Ford is any exception.
Please lead me to the land of milk and honey where women who look like Melyssa Ford are fine with having ongoing, non-commital, serial, casual relationships without ever expecting a commitment for the rest of their voluptuous, coke-bottle-body lives? Please tell me where I can find this magical place where beautiful women with looks and money who are willing to continually hang out, not want to meet your family and have continuous sex without every bringing up the "so where are things going between us" conversation?
So, getting back to my point, when a woman like her, who has no trouble getting male attention and should have something tangible to bring to a relationship, has not been wifed, then most dudes are going to look at her suspiciously. No one knows the real reason for her still being single. However, based on her profession and rumors of her dealings within the industry, people will make assumptions as to why.
Adding to that, that she probably has certain standards that neglect almost any guy that does not fall into the entertainment industry, is probably another factor that will add to the discussion. Because does anyone really think she's going to date a construction worker or even Coli IT expert with certs, an Audi and 150k salary? I think not.
Peace