melyssa ford at the age of 36 still not married

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So you agree that most men are scumbags, right? So I just want to know why yall judge women for staying away? It's like yall don't want us to have any type of happiness :wow:

Either get with and stay with a dude that shyts on you constantly or be called crazy and have people saying there's something wrong with you. Again, it's saddening. :wow:

women are wired differently than males, y'all are more emotional, yearn for marriage/kids/family from the dawn of day.
 

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i can only imagine the good dikk she has gotten i bet the sex was so good and so kinky damn
 

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she dating flo rida not sure wwhy it hasnt been updated

your young though juicy, you just say that now but when you meet a man who makes your heart beat fast and gives you tingles you going to want to marry.

If a woman is near 40 and has never been married, doesn't have a child, or a steady long term relationship then something is up to me :lupe: women are emotional creatures longing for love

My ex did that to me but I still turned down his proposal. :ld: As I said before, I don't want to get married. No man can ever make me want that. I already saw my mom go through that and decided it isn't for me. There's a reason why 70% of divorces are initiated by women. That lets me know I should stay away.

women are wired differently than males, y'all are more emotional, yearn for marriage/kids/family from the dawn of day.

I don't have these feelings. :manny: The only reason why I considered having kids or getting married is because people told me I should want that.
 

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But are we gonna act like women dont do the same thing though

I tried to put a chick with my friend not long ago and the first thing out her mouth was,
"So he's an engineer, got his own house, you say he's a good dude, but been single for 5 years? Whats wrong with him :usure:"

This type of thinking aint gender related and you know it :ufdup:


men aren't measured by marriage or kids never have been never will.
My ex did that to me but I still turned down his proposal. :ld: As I said before, I don't want to get married. No man can ever make me want that. I already saw my mom go through that and decided it isn't for me. There's a reason why 70% of divorces are initiated by women. That lets me know I should stay away.



I don't have these feelings. :manny: The only reason why I considered having kids or getting married is because people told me I should want that.

70% of divorces are initiated by women, because women have nothing to lose once the sparks fade etc., majority of women follow hypergamy marrying a partner that is above them.

so just become a nun then juicy :manny:


I don't want to get married either, average fifrst marriage is only 7 years
 

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But are we gonna act like women dont do the same thing though

I tried to put a chick with my friend not long ago and the first thing out her mouth was,
"So he's an engineer, got his own house, you say he's a good dude, but been single for 5 years? Whats wrong with him :usure:"

This type of thinking aint gender related and you know it :ufdup:

I don't judge anyone that doesn't want to get married. The only time I say something is if they try to say something about marriage specifically, like alimony. But if you don't want to get married or be in a relationship, don't. If you don't want kids, don't have them. I won't judge you. :yeshrug:
 

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Or maybe she just doesn't want to deal with men's bs anymore? Even you admit that most men are cheaters/liars/abusers. Why can't she just want to stay away from that? :ld:



Ya'll just want women to miserable for life. It's saddening. :wow:

She doesn't want to deal with men's BS but she spent her whole "career" using her body to cater to those same men and their BS ideas about sex and the female body? :comeon:

Let's stop with the "well maybe she doesn't want a man or want these scumbags" as if she didn't make her living/fame from catering to the base desires of men in the hip hop industry. As well as the viewing audience. This woman is not known for any talent or skill. She is known for showing off her body in scantly clad settings in order to increase sex appeal and marketing...among those same scumbags.

I'm not clowning her for what she did either. But let's not be intellectually dishonest with our assessments. She did what she did and she made a name for herself doing it, however I don't buy any part of her simply being too above the shallow ideas of men since she spent her adult life making a living based off those shallow desires.

I have no doubt in my mind that this woman wanted/will want/wants to get wifed. Again, I have met NO WOMAN IN REAL LIFE who does not want to be married and in a serious committed relationship at some point her life...most want this before the age of 36. I would doubt that Ms. Ford is any exception.

Please lead me to the land of milk and honey where women who look like Melyssa Ford are fine with having ongoing, non-commital, serial, casual relationships without ever expecting a commitment for the rest of their voluptuous, coke-bottle-body lives? Please tell me where I can find this magical place where beautiful women with looks and money who are willing to continually hang out, not want to meet your family and have continuous sex without every bringing up the "so where are things going between us" conversation?

So, getting back to my point, when a woman like her, who has no trouble getting male attention and should have something tangible to bring to a relationship, has not been wifed, then most dudes are going to look at her suspiciously. No one knows the real reason for her still being single. However, based on her profession and rumors of her dealings within the industry, people will make assumptions as to why.

Adding to that, that she probably has certain standards that neglect almost any guy that does not fall into the entertainment industry, is probably another factor that will add to the discussion. Because does anyone really think she's going to date a construction worker or even Coli IT expert with certs, an Audi and 150k salary? I think not.

Peace
 

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I don't judge anyone that doesn't want to get married. The only time I say something is if they try to say something about marriage specifically, like alimony. But if you don't want to get married or be in a relationship, don't. If you don't want kids, don't have them. I won't judge you. :yeshrug:

Is there a easy way to spot these women that dont want kids or marriage :lupe:

I tried through conversation but ppl be lying and shyt
 

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men aren't measured by marriage or kids never have been never will.


70% of divorces are initiated by women, because women have nothing to lose once the sparks fade etc., majority of women follow hypergamy marrying a partner that is above them.

so just become a nun then juicy :manny:


I don't want to get married either, average fifrst marriage is only 7 years

Seeing how my mom was after she divorced my dad, I can honestly say that's not true. :ld: Divorces are emotionally draining. My dad lost nothing in the divorce. My mom didn't even put him child support.

I don't want to be a nun. I just want to live my life. Without getting cheated on or emotionally abused. :ahh: Is that too much to ask for?
 

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So you agree that most men are scumbags, right? So I just want to know why yall judge women for staying away? It's like yall don't want us to have any type of happiness :wow:

Either get with and stay with a dude that shyts on you constantly or be called crazy and have people saying there's something wrong with you. Again, it's saddening. :wow:
There are some good men out there.


Also, most women are a lil crazy.

Plus, I don't judge women, that's y i date both rat bytches and professional women - don't matter to me...

And most women I know are enemies to their own happiness and don't realize that decisions they make lead to how the world reacts to them.
 

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She doesn't want to deal with men's BS but she spent her whole "career" using her body to cater to those same men and their BS ideas about sex and the female body? :comeon:

Let's stop with the "well maybe she doesn't want a man or want these scumbags" as if she didn't make her living/fame from catering to the base desires of men in the hip hop industry. As well as the viewing audience. This woman is not known for any talent or skill. She is known for showing off her body in scantly clad settings in order to increase sex appeal and marketing...among those same scumbags.

I'm not clowning her for what she did either. But let's not be intellectually dishonest with our assessments. She did what she did and she made a name for herself doing it, however I don't buy any part of her simply being too above the shallow ideas of men since she spent her adult life making a living based off those shallow desires.

I have no doubt in my mind that this woman wanted/will want/wants to get wifed. Again, I have met NO WOMAN IN REAL LIFE who does not want to be married and in a serious committed relationship at some point her life...most want this before the age of 36. I would doubt that Ms. Ford is any exception.

Please lead me to the land of milk and honey where women who look like Melyssa Ford are fine with having ongoing, non-commital, serial, casual relationships without ever expecting a commitment for the rest of their voluptuous, coke-bottle-body lives? Please tell me where I can find this magical place where beautiful women with looks and money who are willing to continually hang out, not want to meet your family and have continuous sex without every bringing up the "so where are things going between us" conversation?

So, getting back to my point, when a woman like her, who has no trouble getting male attention and should have something tangible to bring to a relationship, has not been wifed, then most dudes are going to look at her suspiciously. No one knows the real reason for her still being single. However, based on her profession and rumors of her dealings within the industry, people will make assumptions as to why.

Adding to that, that she probably has certain standards that neglect almost any guy that does not fall into the entertainment industry, is probably another factor that will add to the discussion. Because does anyone really think she's going to date a construction worker or even Coli IT expert with certs, an Audi and 150k salary? I think not.

Peace


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time is the greatest equalizer, the type of man meylssa ford is after, is canoodling and cavorting with 21 and 22 year olds :banderas:
 

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Seeing how my mom was after she divorced my dad, I can honestly say that's not true. :ld: Divorces are emotionally draining. My dad lost nothing in the divorce. My mom didn't even put him child support.

I don't want to be a nun. I just want to live my life. Without getting cheated on or emotionally abused. :ahh: Is that too much to ask for?

exception to every rule.

lol i'm not saying i disagree, i have the same mindset as you as in to me relationships/;marriage is pointless, i'd rather just casual date and travel by my lonesome, born alone die alone.
 

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She doesn't want to deal with men's BS but she spent her whole "career" using her body to cater to those same men and their BS ideas about sex and the female body? :comeon:

Let's stop with the "well maybe she doesn't want a man or want these scumbags" as if she didn't make her living/fame from catering to the base desires of men in the hip hop industry. As well as the viewing audience. This woman is not known for any talent or skill. She is known for showing off her body in scantly clad settings in order to increase sex appeal and marketing...among those same scumbags.

I'm not clowning her for what she did either. But let's not be intellectually dishonest with our assessments. She did what she did and she made a name for herself doing it, however I don't buy any part of her simply being too above the shallow ideas of men since she spent her adult life making a living based off those shallow desires.

I have no doubt in my mind that this woman wanted/will want/wants to get wifed. Again, I have met NO WOMAN IN REAL LIFE who does not want to be married and in a serious committed relationship at some point her life...most want this before the age of 36. I would doubt that Ms. Ford is any exception.

Please lead me to the land of milk and honey where women who look like Melyssa Ford are fine with having ongoing, non-commital, serial, casual relationships without ever expecting a commitment for the rest of their voluptuous, coke-bottle-body lives? Please tell me where I can find this magical place where beautiful women with looks and money who are willing to continually hang out, not want to meet your family and have continuous sex without every bringing up the "so where are things going between us" conversation?

So, getting back to my point, when a woman like her, who has no trouble getting male attention and should have something tangible to bring to a relationship, has not been wifed, then most dudes are going to look at her suspiciously. No one knows the real reason for her still being single. However, based on her profession and rumors of her dealings within the industry, people will make assumptions as to why.

Adding to that, that she probably has certain standards that neglect almost any guy that does not fall into the entertainment industry, is probably another factor that will add to the discussion. Because does anyone really think she's going to date a construction worker or even Coli IT expert with certs, an Audi and 150k salary? I think not.

Peace
Her absurdly high standards is probably the main culprit.
 

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Or maybe she just doesn't want to deal with men's bs anymore? Even you admit that most men are cheaters/liars/abusers. Why can't she just want to stay away from that? :ld:



Ya'll just want women to miserable for life. It's saddening. :wow:
And most women are misunderstood innocent flowers thats have made a few mistakes waiting on the right man to take them to his castle?
 
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