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Na. Best advice is from married ppl irl but I digress.

This chick legit. I fukks with her.




I believe you just have to vet the personality individually.
Whether married or divorcee or committal to non-commital to single.

A married person could suffer disconnect from complacency. Just like a non-committal.person could suffer from not having amy virtue to speak. To a number of variables. Such as a divorcee could still be bitter to combative and injured with no reflection from divorce. To a single person not having any wherewithal.
to speak soundly on the topic.

Example: i like love dorsey. Yet dorsey fits into a demographic for that viewer. Who is so bull headed. They have to be spoken to in a certain manner. Where as melanie has a softer sesame street approach.
from her background formerly as a family channel.

Vet'n the individual channel creators is needed.
They are all not a monolith.
Yet i feel if you need this type of material.

You have to be experienced and in a place to take the information. Not in a place of bitterness or place of negativity from past situations. You have not moved past.

Imo you can get sent off. If you are still not settled in this. If you take in the content of someone combative and bitter. Who has not accepted accountability for why they are in a certain place.


Art Barr

I watch this user you posted.
They come across my feed.
 

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Based on the personality she presents on youtube she seems like the perfect girl (agrees with male perspective ideas, actually has a personality, humorous, etc.)

So her ex-husband initiating the divorce, like string theory, has most certainly bewildered the greatest minds of our time. An astute observer and experienced creampier can certainly see that there's more to the story.

Possible scenarios:

1) Husband is gay.
2) Husband is bored with marriage and wants to fukk other women.
3) She may have a psychological ailment that progressively gets worse with age (she does mention having anxiety/panic attacks)

For one to initiate a divorce with a dime like this makes no fukking sense.
 
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She may have a psychological ailment that progressively gets worst with age (she does mention having anxiety/panic attacks)

It may be this. Having lived with someone with this issue, the good times are wonderful, the bad times are damn near impossible. At times, you will contemplate committing the person because they can get so bad. Even worse, things like social media can make it worse, so the husband might have been at his rope's end. I'm sure she is a nice person but that makes the psych issues all the more jarring at times.
 
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I watched it but it’s not the whole story. I dunno why we can’t be honest with men and stop sugarcoating shyt for them. A lot of the red-pill content that people are picking up on “claim” to tell the truth about women but fail to acknowledge the failures of men.

A lot of men aren’t approaching women because they aren’t interacting with anybody. They have crippling social anxieties. Point blank period. And overconsumption of toxic online medications only makes it worse. They have a negative idea of what women are like with rejection from the shyt they see online and random stories they hear about brutal rejections and posts on Twitter. But a lot of that shyt doesn’t correlate to reality.

One of the reasons I like what @Pdiddy was doing in his videos (sans putting personal info of the chicks he approached online) was because he demonstrated just how low key most women are when you approach the average female. Out of all the chicks he approached, not one was overly rude or nasty. And most women aren’t. But unfortunately this is what happens when you replace genuine human interaction with the opposite sex, with online shyt.

A lot of men cultivate anxiety in themselves by believing the worst about women from dumb shyt they hear in echo chambers and others venting online. Meanwhile, shyt tons of women are nice, open and receptive. And if she’s not feeling you, many will do anything to avoid escalating the situation. Some will make up imaginary boyfriends, lie, try to brush it off.

On the other hand, where I fault women is for their unwillingness to meet men half way in the age of equality. I know we still haven’t gotten to complete equality in our society, but we’ve made great strides towards it. Men AND women. However, a lot of women are still stuck in passive victim mode when it comes to dating. I don’t think men need to carry the burden always having to approach anymore. I think women need to put themselves out there in the right ways to men or feel more comfortable initiating or indicating interest in the opposite sex. A lot of women already do this believe it or not. But a lot more are still locked in archaic ideas about how this shyt should go. It needs to stop, especially if we are going to potentially put undue stress on how men approach women. And we should b/c some male behavior in approaching women is just ridiculous. But at the same time, if we wanna complain about how men approach then don’t just be a backseat driver. Be active in getting shyt popping too. I have high hopes for humanity but I just feel like people keep missing the mark.
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I watched it but it’s not the whole story. I dunno why we can’t be honest with men and stop sugarcoating shyt for them. A lot of the red-pill content that people are picking up on “claim” to tell the truth about women but fail to acknowledge the failures of men.

A lot of men aren’t approaching women because they aren’t interacting with anybody. They have crippling social anxieties. Point blank period. And overconsumption of toxic online medications only makes it worse. They have a negative idea of what women are like with rejection from the shyt they see online and random stories they hear about brutal rejections and posts on Twitter. But a lot of that shyt doesn’t correlate to reality.

One of the reasons I like what @Pdiddy was doing in his videos (sans putting personal info of the chicks he approached online) was because he demonstrated just how low key most women are when you approach the average female. Out of all the chicks he approached, not one was overly rude or nasty. And most women aren’t. But unfortunately this is what happens when you replace genuine human interaction with the opposite sex, with online shyt.

A lot of men cultivate anxiety in themselves by believing the worst about women from dumb shyt they hear in echo chambers and others venting online. Meanwhile, shyt tons of women are nice, open and receptive. And if she’s not feeling you, many will do anything to avoid escalating the situation. Some will make up imaginary boyfriends, lie, try to brush it off.

On the other hand, where I fault women is for their unwillingness to meet men half way in the age of equality. I know we still haven’t gotten to complete equality in our society, but we’ve made great strides towards it. Men AND women. However, a lot of women are still stuck in passive victim mode when it comes to dating. I don’t think men need to carry the burden always having to approach anymore. I think women need to put themselves out there in the right ways to men or feel more comfortable initiating or indicating interest in the opposite sex. A lot of women already do this believe it or not. But a lot more are still locked in archaic ideas about how this shyt should go. It needs to stop, especially if we are going to potentially put undue stress on how men approach women. And we should b/c some male behavior in approaching women is just ridiculous. But at the same time, if we wanna complain about how men approach then don’t just be a backseat driver. Be active in getting shyt popping too. I have high hopes for humanity but I just feel like people keep missing the mark.
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To be fair I do think it plays a part in a decent number of men but is it social anxiety though? That's a lot of people then. It seems like those men would then not be talking to anybody if true or at the very least, more tell a tale signs would be obvious. This is the issue I have with the story in the OP. I believe it but it is missing a lot of information. Women may be approaching those dudes instead. I've seen a lot of this. Some men have never had to approach so the whole concept seems foreign to them. I do think fear of rejection plays a large part but part of that comes less from an echo chamber and more from social media itself and this tendency to put men on blast when they wipe out in these scenarios. What is an embarrassing situation becomes a viral moment that, in the minds of many men, be a ruining moment. I do agree about some of the other stuff though.
 
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To be fair I do think it plays a part in a decent number of men but is it social anxiety though? That's a lot of people then. It seems like those men would then not be talking to anybody if true or at the very least, more tell a tale signs would be obvious. This is the issue I have with the story in the OP. I believe it but it is missing a lot of information. Women may be approaching those dudes instead. I've seen a lot of this. Some men have never had to approach so the whole concept seems foreign to them. I do think fear of rejection plays a large part but part of that comes less from an echo chamber and more from social media itself and this tendency to put men on blast when they wipe out in these scenarios. What is an embarrassing situation becomes a viral moment that, in the minds of many men, be a ruining moment. I do agree about some of the other stuff though.
To be honest, I think a lot of the posts on social media aren’t even real…which makes this even worse. A lotta people make up scenarios as conversation starters online.

I’m not saying there aren’t some nasty bytches out there waiting on an unsuspecting dude to approach so she can have a story to tell…but most people aren’t like that especially offline. Online platforms heighten fukkery for whatever reason. Which is another reason people can’t supplant genuine human interaction with online shyt. People come off better in person than they do online. A lot of people use online anonymity to be the worse versions of themselves.
 

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To be honest, I think a lot of the posts on social media aren’t even real…which makes this even worse. A lotta people make up scenarios as conversation starters online.

I’m not saying there aren’t some nasty bytches out there waiting on an unsuspecting dude to approach so she can have a story to tell…but most people aren’t like that especially offline. Online platforms heighten fukkery for whatever reason. Which is another reason people can’t supplant genuine human interaction with online shyt. People come off better in person than they do online. A lot of people use online anonymity to be the worse versions of themselves.
All very true. :ehh:
 

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The only woman who I listen to with intent and absorb her words is Shahrazad Ali.







I don’t listen to randoms with no credentials who I never heard before until a coli post. But I won’t knock her hustle if she’s saying real shyt.
 
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I watched it but it’s not the whole story. I dunno why we can’t be honest with men and stop sugarcoating shyt for them. A lot of the red-pill content that people are picking up on “claim” to tell the truth about women but fail to acknowledge the failures of men.

A lot of men aren’t approaching women because they aren’t interacting with anybody. They have crippling social anxieties. Point blank period. And overconsumption of toxic online medications only makes it worse. They have a negative idea of what women are like with rejection from the shyt they see online and random stories they hear about brutal rejections and posts on Twitter. But a lot of that shyt doesn’t correlate to reality.

One of the reasons I like what @Pdiddy was doing in his videos (sans putting personal info of the chicks he approached online) was because he demonstrated just how low key most women are when you approach the average female. Out of all the chicks he approached, not one was overly rude or nasty. And most women aren’t. But unfortunately this is what happens when you replace genuine human interaction with the opposite sex, with online shyt.

A lot of men cultivate anxiety in themselves by believing the worst about women from dumb shyt they hear in echo chambers and others venting online. Meanwhile, shyt tons of women are nice, open and receptive. And if she’s not feeling you, many will do anything to avoid escalating the situation. Some will make up imaginary boyfriends, lie, try to brush it off.

On the other hand, where I fault women is for their unwillingness to meet men half way in the age of equality. I know we still haven’t gotten to complete equality in our society, but we’ve made great strides towards it. Men AND women. However, a lot of women are still stuck in passive victim mode when it comes to dating. I don’t think men need to carry the burden always having to approach anymore. I think women need to put themselves out there in the right ways to men or feel more comfortable initiating or indicating interest in the opposite sex. A lot of women already do this believe it or not. But a lot more are still locked in archaic ideas about how this shyt should go. It needs to stop, especially if we are going to potentially put undue stress on how men approach women. And we should b/c some male behavior in approaching women is just ridiculous. But at the same time, if we wanna complain about how men approach then don’t just be a backseat driver. Be active in getting shyt popping too. I have high hopes for humanity but I just feel like people keep missing the mark.
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Books dropping ether

Confidence is why hood dudes get more women than nice guys

I never seen a hood dude cry after being rejected from women

He continues to go till he gets a woman

Alot of the nice guy dudes feel entitled cause they good people or got a great job.

They feel like they dont have to play the game and dont

Alot of times hood dudes are the only men approaching these women so alot of them date them based on that

My whole point is approach and dont be scared of rejection

Every dude with a gf been rejected that part of life.


@Pdiddy

Videos did expose most black women like 90 percent are extremely nice if u approach them

The coli been lying saying they got bad attitudes and are snotty

U also been preaching this 7 years books

I think @Lady.Libra. too


But confidence and fear of rejection why so many men dry
 
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