Meeting Your Girl’s Family Unappreciation

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I dont like meeting families but like clockwork , a girl I’m seeing always drags me to meet her family. I try to push it off as long as possible but always get blindsided or comply. It’s always awkward.

And it’s even worse for you PAWGSet fellas, I imagine.:mjpls:

What’s worse is when there not even my girlfriends:mindblown:

A white girl I literally told to her face that we’ll never get serious bc I dont date white women & I think we are just better off having no strings attached sex (I literally told her this) asked me to come meet up with her & her pops was there and she introduced me to him:wtf: that evil bytch blindsided me!!! shyt was dumb awkward and I made an excuse to leave. She confessed later that she had feelings for me

My boy was smashing this El Salvadorian girl RAW for 2 months (so in a latina’s mind there basically married) & she blindsided him the same way. Introduced her father to him when he was coming over for a dikk appointment.

My girl’s fam now is cool esp her dad (that’s my guy) but I try to limit my time with them. And the constant questions of “so when are u two getting married?” is annoying. And all her aint shyt cousins and uncles lowkey tryna make me “prove myself” to them like they dont be having a wife plus 2 side babies themselves:heh:

Unless I have kids with you, I dont wanna meet your raggedy ass parents. We’ll prolly break up in a year.
 

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I couldn't even imagine gettin' involved with a white woman at all, let alone, meeting her father:mjlol:

I bet these coli c00ns be like "yes, sir", "no, sir", "Colin Kaepernick is a douche bag"

:heh:
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Her pops was just as surprised as I was:weirdo:

I blocked her and thanked Black Jesus I never got hit with a false rape charge but she was stalking me for months
she was HURT:russ:
 

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Her pops was just as surprised as I was:weirdo:

I blocked her and thanked Black Jesus I never got hit with a false rape charge but she was stalking me for months
she was HURT:russ:
Shiiiiit, it's a chore in itself meeting a Black girl's father, but at least yall will eventually find a common interest.

With a white father, it would be a lot of :hhh::stopitslime::merchant::russell::smugdraper::wtb::leostare::martin::beli::jbhmm::leostare::wtb:
 

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I dont likemeeting parents either...too much pressure. I'll be furious if I was blindsided by it.

I've met many of the women that I date's parents but it's usually not a blindside move. Except this one Haitian girl I was fukking about 4 years ago who invited me to come over and eat Thanksgiving dinner with her and her cousins(whom i had met before) at her house.
I got there her mom and dad were there. :merchant:
She looked at me, smiled, and said and I quote "oh they just decided to drive from Orlando to Atlanta to surprise me late last night and they arrived this morning" with a big ass grin on her face.
A 6+hour last minute drive :what:
Thing is I had told her that I was eating Thanksgiving dinner at my cousin's place and she insisted that I at least come by and take a plate. So I did just that. And walk in to her mom and pops. We had been texting all day she could have told me her parents were there if it was really a last minute thing.

I told y'all I hate dealing with first generation Americanized Caribbeans women. That was one of the exceptions I made and see what kinda shyt she pulled???:stopitslime:

Her mom proceeded to make me sit right next to her so that she could interrogate me the whole time I was there. Asking me what part of Haiti my family was from, what school I went to there, and so on and so forth. Her mom really like me and her dad was like whatever.

I think I know why she did it. Her parents have always known her to be a bit of a lesbian because she rarely dated men. I guess she was using me as a prop to show off to her parents to show them she's into men now.

Overall they were cool peoples and they had money, especially the chick. She was very business-savvy and made very good money. But I was just not into her like that.
 
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She probably liked you even more after you said you don't date white women.

You should've pretended to be a c00n obsessed with white women. Then she would've left you alone :ufdup:

Females love to keep me a secret these days. They don't even be telling their friends about me anymore.

I don't know how to feel about it.
 

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When it comes to non-black women there were three that I dated that I met their parents / relatives.

The Costa Rican chick I dated in Costa Rica between 2010 and 2012, I've met her mom, her dad, and her grandmother. a few uncle is also. The whole family was very cool with me. To this day though we're not together I still talk to not just her but her Pops in her mom also even though she's seeing someone else.

This Dominican chick I went out on a few dates with I ended up meeting her parents one night when I was picking her up. It never really went anywhere so it doesn't matter.

The other dominican chick that I've been friends with for over 15+ years I met her parents once this was way back when we were still fukking.

On the other hand, the Cuban chick that I used to fukk with many many years ago in Miami oh, I meant her aunt. The thing is when I met her aunt I thought it was her mother. It was years later that and I was saying "oh yeah blah blah blah when I met your mom" and she said "you've never met my mom" and I was like "yes I did" and I reminded her when I met her and she told me that no that was not her mother and that she would never introduced me to her mother because her mother would "not approve of her dating a black man". Her Dad, sure. Her Mom, never.
 
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