Meet Richard Cooper, A Single Dad Who Refuses To Date Single Moms

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:lupe: what happened
Well, to keep it short - And yes, I'm mindful that it doesn't apply to all fathers. And also, yes. I'm aware my choices back then was not the best when I was younger.

  • Baby mama drama. (Wasn't towards me luckily, but still)
  • Was jaded
  • Wasn't over his relationship with his baby mama.
  • Emotional baggage.
  • Wanted to have more kids.. although he already had 3 - that and I don't want to have kids.
I could go on, but then I would be getting off topic.

So adding on to that last bullet point, I realized myself and people with kids aren't compatible. Needless to say.
 

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:yeshrug: oh well. You can call him a hypocrite, but we all have known fat women who didn't want to date fat dudes or short women who refuse to date short men.

^Thread should've ended here...



















...but since it didn't:
Yes, we all know people like this. Some of us also know:

- Sexually promiscuous people that want to settle down with a virgin
- Virgins that want somebody "seasoned" so they can "teach" them


and most of y'alls favorite:
- Darkskinned folks who want light-brights



The thing that makes this (and really all these) situation funny is: you can absolutely have it like that
if that's what you really want. Dude here can absolutely get him a broad with no child if he doesn't want to settle
for a single mom. So there really ain't no reason to be actling like he saying some hellafied chit...
 

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Except the most women without kids want the dudes with kids.

You dudes got to stop thinking because you have no kids that’s just it. If shorty ain’t sexually attracted to you it don’t matter.

As a woman, I’m telling you for a fact that that is not true. IDK who told you that lie.
 

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As a woman, I’m telling you for a fact that that is not true. IDK who told you that lie.
I'm going to assume he means the traits they're attracted to tend to be attached to baby fathers. I could be wrong tho.
 

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I'm going to assume he means the traits they're attracted to tend to be attached to baby fathers. I could be wrong tho.

Childless women that constantly choose single fathers only choose them for one of three reasons:
  1. she really loves kids but cannot have them
  2. she doesn't want to birth kids herself, so she figures if the relationship matures, you won't bother her about expanding the family; this person would still prefer a childless man though
  3. something is wrong with her & she's trying to obtain some leverage that she could never achieve with a childless man
The same is true for childless men that prey on single mothers who desire a husband & active father for their child. The top two reasons are abnormalities btw.
 

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Childless women that constantly choose single fathers only choose them for one of three reasons:
  1. she really loves kids but cannot have them
  2. she doesn't want to birth kids herself, so she figures if the relationship matures, you won't bother her about expanding the family; this person would still prefer a childless man though
  3. something is wrong with her & she's trying to obtain some leverage that she could never achieve with a childless man
The same is true for childless men that prey on single mothers who desire a husband & active father for their child. The top two reasons are abnormalities btw.
Don't think it's anything that elaborate. The handsome, tall, flashy, charming guys tends to have baby mothers after a certain age.
 

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Women don’t want men with kids, broke, ugly etc... all the time even tho they’re in those situations themselves

What’s the problem :yeshrug:
 

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^Thread should've ended here...



















...but since it didn't:
Yes, we all know people like this. Some of us also know:

- Sexually promiscuous people that want to settle down with a virgin
- Virgins that want somebody "seasoned" so they can "teach" them


and most of y'alls favorite:
- Darkskinned folks who want light-brights



The thing that makes this (and really all these) situation funny is: you can absolutely have it like that
if that's what you really want. Dude here can absolutely get him a broad with no child if he doesn't want to settle
for a single mom. So there really ain't no reason to be actling like he saying some hellafied chit...

Right? This guy is out here running his personal preference that he's entitled to as gospel, and managed to amass a large audience consisting of jaded and inexperienced men struggling with how to parse the modern dating scene. Especially since he's not asking himself the most important question any man smartened up with a half dose of game would ask themselves: if I have a gang of the type of woman I don't like in my space, how the hell am I attracting them?
 
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