MBJ just doesn’t have any edge to him…

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Nah Mr.
For old women maybe, but young people are reliant on social media. I didn't really use tiktok until fairly recently and I remember getting hit with the :what: by my friends whenever I didn't understand some trend.

I'm not saying "think of every black woman you see IRL as some LSA divestor", but I see far too many black women my age online picking up those kind of talking points even more dapping it up. And it's gotten to the point where other races join in on the fun.

Like a decade ago you could get away with saying that it's just a subsection of bitter old ladies or white men in digital blackface, but right now when it's uncommon for young people not to be on the internet all day, it's getting harder and harder to defend.

And it's not like every internet thing is something that doesn't happen in real life. I see WMAF couples all the time online, and the few asian women that live around here date nothing but white men. The same goes for asian women everywhere around the country. I should make a thread about that.
Its not a reputable source never will be
Yall can fight for it but it ain’t
When you see a post like hers you just need to :unimpressed: and keep it moving
Again billion of women not everyone gon be like that single mother bird brain that got no issue putting her kids face online like that. :manny:
 

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This exchange is really interesting since it shows the dangers of chasing clout without consideration. Let's be honest, the bird chirping is doing so for clout and/or for attention. What she does not realize is she is strengthening stereotypes about black women and in many ways, making those stereotypes seem true, especially to those outside of our community but even to some within.

Then black men will get blamed for that as well. :sas2:
We speak in abundance about the image of BM globally, but for some reason we haven’t even blown off the dust of the chest containing false stereotypes and stigmas attached to BW — some that are, like your post said, as enforced and supported by BW.

they do this with colorism too. They will call a lightskin man a bytch/feminine then become puzzled as to why darkskin women are seen as masculine

there are BW that very intelligent and keen, so to see them in aggregate play dumb about certain topics or simply ignore them is disheartening — especially when the world sees them transform into Superwoman to every other religion, race, political or ethnic group’s problems.
 

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Eh, Will still had the cool/funny/can dress lanes though at an earlier age. He just wasn't a roughneck. He didn't need to get his Ali/I Robotic body to appeal to women.

But the scope of what a black man can be has constricted since 25-30 years ago so I guess it's close enough.
Will is from my homestead. I didn't say that to diss him. I'm saying that's how MBJ is regarded. One of the most popular black folk, generally a stand-up guy all-around, "safe" but rather than say he's not my type, you get backwards ass comments like "he looks too responsible". Which i know it's tongue-in-cheek, but its funny because there's unusually high segment of women that actually have that same thought process...at least 112k of them.
 

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Only black Women breh
To be fair, I’ve heard of phrases as “well kept” or “sophisticated man”. I’ve personally even been referred to as a man “serious about his business”

Is it an insult or are we overblowing it something that isn’t there? After his red carpet moment, I want to lean into the former.
 

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Nikka I'm 27 years old and got more sense than you, I'm not a corny nerdy loser like you tryna live through some actor and his image.

Y'all are a bunch of corny, lame, loser, nerdy, socially misfit, simpleton's bums, among other things. Y'all don't even know how to be a man without having to emulate and take notes from gurus and shyt. Definition of a socially decline loser.

I hope nikkas like you stay in your lane and continue to socially struggle and suffer with women while continuing to doubt yourself. You don't deserve any woman's attention, too fukin weird and lame.

My guy, stop the 🧢

A few weeks ago you made a thread asking us how to approach a woman.


And months before that you made a thread asking us how to flirt with a broad that finally gave you a chance after a year.


I got nothing personal against you breh, but quit with the :duck:

Too many of y’all come on here and lie for no reason.

:dead: :dead: :dead:

This nikka started talking that “pull yourself up by your mouthpiece” babble and got exposed in record time :laff: :deadrose::mjlol:


My fukking ribs hurt :russ:

Nah @Mr. Goodbar got put in pack so fast :deadrose:

Ion wanna see you in a thread if the topic is about bytches nikka get your ass the hell on :russ:
 

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First of all, nothing in those threads screams a socially misfit loser like a segment of you. I asked decent questions to my situations but I never lacked confidence or doubted myself in any scenario involving my dealings with women.

This is that classic twist game y'all play when someone like me is telling the truth about the state and reality some of you are in.

Secondly, I don't portray to be some “casanova”, me being confident in myself makes you think I'm playing a character because you're the opposite and because this site manifests in hopelessness venting and such, a guy like me doesn't fit because I'm too positive and optimistic.

All I ever do is be myself and women I've encountered have always liked and respected me for that, I'm one of the few posters in TLR that emphasizes how nikkas should try to be themselves but instead y'all bytch and cry about how “oh that doesn't work, woman don't like that, they like this and that, don't pay that nikka no attention” .

Bytching and crying, everyday about not being respected by women. You never see me bytching and crying, you know why? I don't have these problems in my life cause women I've delt with respect me, I'm happy and I never doubt myself but you guys do, I see it everyday.

As I already stated, y'all are nothing but socially misfit losers and lames that women don't like. Y'all know this and it eats you up everyday 🤷🏾‍♂️.
Yes, yes it does.

You claim to be 27, but ask questions about women that my 17 year old brother comes to me about.

I’m 25, two years younger than you. When I was 23-24, I was knocking down 30-year olds like it wasn’t shyt.

I didn’t need to come on here and ask anyone for advice because it came natural. If we’re so socially awkward and lame why would you ask us for advice in the first place.

You’re talking about respect from women, but men who are respected by women don’t have the problems you have.

No woman has ever told me “let’s be friend” because I’m a real nikka who gives off real nikka energy.

fukk I look like texting back and forth with a bytch I ain’t fukking like a homo?

I could go further but it ain’t worth all that. You ain’t that dude and that’s OK, but quit coming into these threads cappin’.

And quit using all those God damn emojis like a teenage girl.
 

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This is female nature when unchecked by masculinity. Problem is black men are unable to check aka balance our womens energy. Why? Because we live in the heart of white supremacy. Where we are currently in a polygamous relationship with us,black women and the European. And the European gets the big piece of chicken. Try to check your woman and police will be called to straighten you out. Chastize your woman,you can be outed as toxic. Jobs,careers and connections can be lost.


But this thread is mostly nikkas crying because they cant smash the thots/hellhounds they feel they deserve. And even below average to average women have raised their bar. And are tightening the circle of men they make themselves available to,even if it means sharing. They envy the fact their balding fathers who resemebled Don Amos was smashing 8's and 9's back in simpler times.



But thats the breaks. Most of thecoli had their chance at righteous attachments. But wanted to "sew their oats:mjgrin:".


Well you know what they say,you reap what you sew#Biblical. Tried to tell you to wife up any woman of poential or actualized Proverbs 31 women 3 years ago. Now you will just have to rummage through the dross,for a needle in the haystack:respect:
This actually isn’t discussed enough, in general.


That being said, this chick is a bird and thought she was cracking a joke. Problem is social media is open to everyone and others can either get in on the joke or not understand the nuance and highlight the negative aspects of our culture.

Eg- joking about “CP time” back in the day. Everyone knows it isn’t ok to be late, but some ppl would use that excuse. Well, you shouldn’t crack that joke in front of other races because they’ll certainly talk about whatever Black ppl they know who are/were late, right?

She shouldn’t have said the joke because she made herself and Black women look bad and opened us up to more criticism.

Sometimes it’s ok to leave it in the drafts.
 

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Yes, yes it does.

You claim to be 27, but ask questions about women that my 17 year old brother comes to me about.

I’m 25, two years younger than you. When I was 23-24, I was knocking down 30-year olds like it wasn’t shyt.

I didn’t need to come on here and ask anyone for advice because it came natural. If we’re so socially awkward and lame why would you ask us for advice in the first place.

You’re talking about respect from women, but men who are respected by women don’t have the problems you have.

No woman has ever told me “let’s be friend” because I’m a real nikka who gives off real nikka energy.

fukk I look like texting back and forth with a bytch I ain’t fukking like a homo?

I could go further but it ain’t worth all that. You ain’t that dude and that’s OK, but quit coming into these threads cappin’.

And quit using all those God damn emojis like a teenage girl.
Can someone put that wade gif :deadrose: :dead:


When Kobe is going off in the finals and wade is watching on the sidelines in awe :scust::blessed:


Awe fukk here’s the clip :mjlol:

 

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I remember when Will Smith was cooking on all cylinders and Coko from SWV fronted on him and didnt want to be in the Men in Black music video because of his safe image. 3 years earlier though she was all up in the video with Wu Tang who just stepped on the scene

Same type of folks now acting like mans is a militant political prisoner cause the Academy felt some type of way about him backhanding someone in front of millions on live TV

nikkas dont love you unless you self destructive
All I know is Peppa was an idiot to pass Will up for “Treach” however he spells it 🤣
 

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114k likes in less than 48 hours.

But we got flabby old head Coli nikkas stuck in a Simp genjutsu telling us not to believe our lying eyes.


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