Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

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People like you wear your ignorance like a badge of honour. You lack the ability to observe and analyse what is going on around you, so find yourself laughing at others when their thoughts go beyond what you feeble mind can understand.

Understanding that dating applications is one of many means of meeting someone is the opening observation. Unfortunately this is where you stopped thinking.

What needs to be considered when discussing the topic is trends. As people become more reclusive, they become more reliant on dating applications.

Instead of people meeting organically, they're reliant on a tool of capitalism. This presents a problem because the goal of capitalism is to make money. They don't achieve this by observing their habits to set them up with someone they click with. They achieve a profit by hooking the person to a service.



This is another example of the type of stupidity I'm talking about. It is similar to a baby not being able to understand that something exists outside of the room they're in.

We're talking about an issue where one of the causes is people being more reclusive and this idiot really showed up with "Well how come I see plenty of couples when outside".

It is kind of disheartening to see some of the responses on a predominantly Black message board. White people are starting to open their eyes to the issue which will ensure they eventually get the support structure needed.

We have an opportunity to get ahead of these things but the desire to stunt has taken control.


What are lonely guys doing to be lonely? Are they swiping on dating apps for 3 hours or are they going out and socializing?

I don't get it. I see broke short guys with girlfriends and wives, so how is it some dudes are lonely?
 

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This is so sad yet so true

Known them types since middle school.....they giggle and try to 'spit game' to bytches while clowning most other dudes, even they right hand man. The type to take money from others and buy extra fly shyt for their birthday. I saw that when I was in college, and headed that brehs scheme on the spot, trying to make me look like a punchline to make some airhead thot laugh.
 

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I agree with you but accountability is a whole other conversation. Ideally men should know better and be able to navigate sex with morals and integrity for their own self respect but the game is so superficial now and humans respons to incentives. If you are young and impressionable in this environment and you see what women are choosing, how are you incentivized to be responsible. The extremely attractive cats or dudes with some status are running wild like never before and they can because women have high standards about the wrong things and only learn when it's too late.
I agree. However, we cant get away from accountability because it is one of the fundamental tenets of adulthood. And its on us that understand that to impress that on these young people. None of this will change without accountability and integrity. Because, like you said, a person thats lacking in that regard will just run wild and continue the cycle. Everybody wanna be grown but nobody really tryna be grown.
 
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What are lonely guys doing to be lonely? Are they swiping on dating apps for 3 hours or are they going out and socializing?

I don't get it. I see broke short guys with girlfriends and wives, so how is it some dudes are lonely?


You remind me of him. He too struggled with understanding trends.
 

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Is there not short broke men with a girlfriend or wife?
Is it being argued that being short and broke makes it impossible to get a girlfriend or a wife?

This is why it is so hard to move certain conversations forward. There idiots like you who stop considering the results conditions consistently cause because of cherrypicked outliers.

And the tragic thing about these outliers is that you're not even assessing the quality of these relationships. It's more or less what politicians do when talking about the unemployment rate dropping.

People like you are a cancer in society.
 

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Myself and my own.
who said that? You educated, wealthy and alone. Everybody needs somebody,
Alone? I'm married. I'm happily and comfortably married because I focused on my education and wealth and self. I'm not broken because I practiced self-reflection and realization. I stopped searching for p*ssy mindlessly and instead found myself and in doing so, found a wife, not some bird. In fact, she found me first. And that's the thing. When you are wealthy and healthy in all the things that matter, everything else will follow so easily you won't even have to chase it. But y'all don't understand that and think there is some value in chasing women the way a dog chases after cars. Frivolity in regards to your dikk is not the way. Stop thinking with it.
 
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What are lonely guys doing to be lonely? Are they swiping on dating apps for 3 hours or are they going out and socializing?

I don't get it. I see broke short guys with girlfriends and wives, so how is it some dudes are lonely?



Men with personalities get women. This woman is his level, and she is happy as hell to be with him. And she’s not bad for a plus sized woman.
 

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45% of gen z have never approached a woman in person for a date. So they go onto dating apps thinking it’ll be easier to interface with the opposite sex because their social awkwardness from lack of cold approaching won’t be apparent and obvious through text. Just for the result to be the same, no hoes.

You have to approach women in real life, take numerous L’s in order to know what methods you should use to attract women on dating apps. Your lack of tip-top hygiene, fashion sense, personality, conversation, and lack of overall palatabity are all obvious on your dating profile because you have no references on what women actually like.​
 
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Is it being argued that being short and broke makes it impossible to get a girlfriend or a wife?

This is why it is so hard to move certain conversations forward. There idiots like you who stop considering the results conditions consistently cause because of cherrypicked outliers.

And the tragic thing about these outliers is that you're not even assessing the quality of these relationships. It's more or less what politicians do when talking about the unemployment rate dropping.

People like you are a cancer in society.

Short men having women is not an outlier… where do you live where the majority of short cats gets no cheeks?
 

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People like you wear your ignorance like a badge of honour. You lack the ability to observe and analyse what is going on around you, so find yourself laughing at others when their thoughts go beyond what you feeble mind can understand.

Understanding that dating applications is one of many means of meeting someone is the opening observation. Unfortunately this is where you stopped thinking.

What needs to be considered when discussing the topic is trends. As people become more reclusive, they become more reliant on dating applications.

Instead of people meeting organically, they're reliant on a tool of capitalism. This presents a problem because the goal of capitalism is to make money. They don't achieve this by observing their habits to set them up with someone they click with. They achieve a profit by hooking the person to a service.



This is another example of the type of stupidity I'm talking about. It is similar to a baby not being able to understand that something exists outside of the room they're in.

We're talking about an issue where one of the causes is people being more reclusive and this idiot really showed up with "Well how come I see plenty of couples when outside".

It is kind of disheartening to see some of the responses on a predominantly Black message board. White people are starting to open their eyes to the issue which will ensure they eventually get the support structure needed.

We have an opportunity to get ahead of these things but the desire to stunt has taken control.
:mjlol:


You typing novels because you are mad no woman swipes right on you!

Tough luck you socially lame red pill fakkit. :umad:
 

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Short men having women is not an outlier… where do you live where the majority of short cats gets no cheeks?
Do you have shyt between your ears?

Even when disregarding the conversation that is taking place, the literal interpretation of my words would be the combination of being short and broke.

:mjlol:


You typing novels because you are mad no woman swipes right on you!

Tough luck you socially lame red pill fakkit. :umad:
A coherent thought expressed through words is a novel to you. The result of a feeble mind.
 
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