Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

[Wild self]

No, all this does is create charlatans who learn how to pretend and fool women and run through them, often times leaving behind broken homes and broken hearts. They put women as their focus instead of self-growth and self-awareness. They also act as if getting women is a simple thing that requires one to do this or that when in fact, it is not a sure thing and a man with nothing may pull a woman while a man with everything may not so it is better for that man to be himself than put on a mask. This leading to men who then end up with a sense of entitlement because they did as they were told and still did not get women and now feel as if the women are to blame when really, that is just how life goes.

The very incels that you trash are created by you guys. They actually did what you guys tell them but for one reason or the other, maybe they aimed too high or went for someone they were not compatible with, they crashed and burned and now feel cheated and feel like the world lied to them since, in many ways, it did.

In short, as inflammatory as this may sound, y'all are the problem and incels are the symptom of that problem. A lot of dudes who think they got it because they run through bytches are actually the problem and are actually why women are seen less as people and more as currency for masculinity, wealth measured in how many panties you've bagged, how many pussies you've slain.

Very same people will be wondering why women are viewed as objects. They did it to themselves. Discount this shyt if you want but you're creating a situation where your future daughter will become currency as well. You've been warned. Fix it or suffer.

Grown dudes over 30 still bragging about smashing bytches like Pokémon cards and letting airhead thots determine the value of their existence.

 

[UnQuantized]

Thats all well and good until you bring lives into the world. You strap up or use whatever birth control and have all the fun you want. But that aint whats happening. We got too many bytch ass nikkas that happen to be extremely attractive and/or know their way around a p*ssy but aren't equipped and/or willing to raise the children that result. And we got too many women that buss it wide open raw for these cats and then cry when he does bytch nikka shyt...and then do it again.

All this manosphere, hypergamy, Tariq 25 years ago stuff does it perpetuate the BS because you (not you personally) are encouraging men to put on an act and pushing all these superficial changes rather than becoming actual men and you are allowing the wetness of a 16-25 yr old p*ssy to be the end all be all. Just because a girl fukk you dont mean you aint a bytch ass nikka or she aint stupid or that both of you arent a problem for the community at large.

I agree with you but accountability is a whole other conversation. Ideally men should know better and be able to navigate sex with morals and integrity for their own self respect but the game is so superficial now and humans respons to incentives. If you are young and impressionable in this environment and you see what women are choosing, how are you incentivized to be responsible. The extremely attractive cats or dudes with some status are running wild like never before and they can because women have high standards about the wrong things and only learn when it's too late.

 

[Wild self]

Thats all well and good until you bring lives into the world. You strap up or use whatever birth control and have all the fun you want. But that aint whats happening. We got too many bytch ass nikkas that happen to be extremely attractive and/or know their way around a p*ssy but aren't equipped and/or willing to raise the children that result. And we got too many women that buss it wide open raw for these cats and then cry when he does bytch nikka shyt...and then do it again.

All this manosphere, hypergamy, Tariq 25 years ago stuff does it perpetuate the BS because you (not you personally) are encouraging men to put on an act and pushing all these superficial changes rather than becoming actual men and you are allowing the wetness of a 16-25 yr old p*ssy to be the end all be all. Just because a girl fukk you dont mean you aint a bytch ass nikka or she aint stupid or that both of you arent a problem for the community at large.

A lot of them dudes are simps that cater and crumble to p*ssy that they still mentally stuck at age of 16 instead of being an actual grown up. How dudes pushing 40 with Grey facial hair, talk about the worth of a man is determined how these airhead broads like you?

 

[Wild self]

IT DOES NOT MATTER BECAUSE A WOMAN IS NOT THE CENTER OF YOUR EXISTENCE. How is that hard to understand? This is why the community is shambles. A bunch of dudes running around trying to get women no matter the cost instead of providing some worth to the community. A bunch of dudes who think if they follow this or that advice on the internet, it will make them get women , then we act surprised when these dudes get angry when that shyt doesn't work for them.

Motherfukkers obsess over bytches instead of education, work, money, and so on.

Even more pathetic are, when them dudes kids turn against them and they have no answer. Living a life of a human dildo sure gets more pathetic as you age.

 

[High Art]

Grown dudes over 30 still bragging about smashing bytches like Pokémon cards and letting airhead thots determine the value of their existence.

Seriously. I used to be one of these dudes and look back on those days and realize I wasted a lot of time and effort on useless shyt. I'm married now but even back then I knew something was off with me. It was a valueless, empty existence. One has to build value and self-worth before anything else instead of becoming deft at wearing masks for p*ssy.

 

[ViShawn]

I'm about 2/3 finished with this.

 

[Wild self]

fukk education, y'all, get bytches.

This board.

Simps who speak like that, have no personal integrity. They the first ones to backstab you just for female validation.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

fukk education, y'all, get bytches.

This board.

who said that? You educated, wealthy and alone. Everybody needs somebody,

 

[Braman]

Ugly gang exposure thread Dating apps has leveled the playing field. Brother we out here like a baddie turning down perfectly fine women

But I definitely realize something insanely important every time I mention this: If you aren’t using the paid version, it is giving you a WILDLY distorted view of the dating scene. Not only are they probably restricting your profile, it also caps you at like 10 swipes a day. It is giving dudes the impression that there are no bytches available

Gon head swallow your pride and pay that 20 bucks a month for unlimited swipes

 

[ThatTruth777]

man this gender war shyt is like... what is there left of that dead horse to beat..

 

[Guess Who]

IT DOES NOT MATTER BECAUSE A WOMAN IS NOT THE CENTER OF YOUR EXISTENCE. How is that hard to understand? This is why the community is shambles. A bunch of dudes running around trying to get women no matter the cost instead of providing some worth to the community. A bunch of dudes who think if they follow this or that advice on the internet, it will make them get women , then we act surprised when these dudes get angry when that shyt doesn't work for them.

Motherfukkers obsess over bytches instead of education, work, money, and so on.

The funny thing is you get way more women by levelling yourself up and focusing on building the environments around you. It’s so easy. Women LOVE an impressive, dedicated, forward thinking dude.

 

[Ohene]

Women today are easier to connect with than ever. Especially in real life. Just gotta open your mouth and be a decently interesting dude who isn’t off-putting.

Problem is young men nowadays lack social skills.

 

[Ohene]

IT DOES NOT MATTER BECAUSE A WOMAN IS NOT THE CENTER OF YOUR EXISTENCE. How is that hard to understand? This is why the community is shambles. A bunch of dudes running around trying to get women no matter the cost instead of providing some worth to the community. A bunch of dudes who think if they follow this or that advice on the internet, it will make them get women , then we act surprised when these dudes get angry when that shyt doesn't work for them.

Motherfukkers obsess over bytches instead of education, work, money, and so on.

Facts

Chasi ng women is a big part of why the blCk community is behind others

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Simps who speak like that, have no personal integrity. They the first ones to backstab you just for female validation.

This is so sad yet so true

 

[Umoja]

I don't get your point at all. Women have always had multiple options. Dating apps gives men an added option also.

What is the title of this thread?
You literally saying a bunch of nothing.
Dating apps are 1 damm option of meeting someone. It is not forced to use.

If you are socially awkward offline then you will be so online in social media and dating apps.
NO IT IS NOT THE APPS FAULT THAT YOU ARE AN INCEL. Your development is based off of how you were raised and what morals, education, discipline, etc. you received.

This sentence from you alone says moe about you than anything. Straight social media snap ya finger talk.

People like you wear your ignorance like a badge of honour. You lack the ability to observe and analyse what is going on around you, so find yourself laughing at others when their thoughts go beyond what you feeble mind can understand.

Understanding that dating applications is one of many means of meeting someone is the opening observation. Unfortunately this is where you stopped thinking.

What needs to be considered when discussing the topic is trends. As people become more reclusive, they become more reliant on dating applications.

Instead of people meeting organically, they're reliant on a tool of capitalism. This presents a problem because the goal of capitalism is to make money. They don't achieve this by observing their habits to set them up with someone they click with. They achieve a profit by hooking the person to a service.

Data proves one thing, but I'm seeing the other. Which one is it? Do you see couples in your day to day life

This is another example of the type of stupidity I'm talking about. It is similar to a baby not being able to understand that something exists outside of the room they're in.

We're talking about an issue where one of the causes is people being more reclusive and this idiot really showed up with "Well how come I see plenty of couples when outside".

It is kind of disheartening to see some of the responses on a predominantly Black message board. White people are starting to open their eyes to the issue which will ensure they eventually get the support structure needed.

We have an opportunity to get ahead of these things but the desire to stunt has taken control.