Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

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these chicks don't want to settle down, they'd rather have 50 male friends, travel with their girls, go on random dates etc. the tiktok generation get bored fast scroll to next video, netflix thousands of things to watch at your disposal spending more time looking for something to watch than actually watching a show.

Everyday I'm thankful I'm married so I don't have to deal with that ish again

Marriage, as you know, is about hard work, sacrifice, compromise, and good communication. As well as enduring love.

Lots of young people just want BBLs, bisexuality, Miami trips, social media followers, and Ozempic
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Is it a contributing factor years. There are many factors. There isn't just one cause. A lot of young men don't have fathers, male role models or friends. Alot also grew up in an age where asking a woman out in the street will get you put in a video about harassment on TikTok. There are a number of reasons that need to be addressed and no one cares until they start hurting people.
 

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They are not. They spend their time at home watching porn and spending their money on only fans and subscribing to all of those different streamers. They're complaining that they're broke but have hundreds of dollars that they burn through giving it to other people just to watch them lol

Go out with bunch of 24 years old and watch how not one of them will try to approach a women

Grown men with crippling anxiety and approach anxiety :dead:

Sometimes I can’t even blame the women
 

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Guys need to learn 1 thing other then getting over fear and anxiety. The sloppiest, ugliest guy, from another man's perspective, can pull dime pieces with one thing in his arsenal. Humor. Humor goes farther then most will ever imagine. It shows you have personality. If you can make her laugh, you can smash. I've witnessed it 100x over. Also, be yourself. You'd be surprised how many beautiful women are into wrestling, Hip Hop, video games, and other things that would have made people call others a nerd. Be your fukking self. Have a sense of humor. Cut your fukking finger nails. It's not rocket science. It's pheromones.
I gotta short funny story about this:russ:.

Throughout high school, I was known as one of the ugliest níggas in the school. Like, women OD ignoring when I speak to them type shít and roasting me in public.

Anyway, dudes would be stunned. They thought I had women on lock because I had clear, light brown skin and I was skinny and had swag.

There was this one kat who myself AND EVERYONE else was cool with. Buddy was fat, had a lazy eye, and was dark-skinned. Buddy OD looked like a 5'8 version of Biggie:mjlol:.

Cuz used to stay in some pússy, and even got head in the school bathroom from this ugly, down syndrome-looking girl who had no swag. That same girl used to clown me and say I was ugly as hell.

That dude was one of the funniest kats I've ever met or seen. Impeccable timing for jokes and all that. Shít just came natural for him.

I said all that just to say that you're speaking facts.
 

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Go out with bunch of 24 years old and watch how not one of them will try to approach a women

Grown men with crippling anxiety and approach anxiety :dead:

Sometimes I can’t even blame the women
I've seen it first hand too many times. All you have to do is strike up a conversation and go from there to see what happens . But they're afraid of that. That fear of rejection got them in a chokehold. I've seen chicks openly hit on them and I would tell them to go step and they freeze up or make excuses. I can't go and break the ice and say my guy is just nervous anymore we're in our 30s that isn't cute or cool. You gotta but up out here and go get what you want lol
 

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I've seen it first hand too many times. All you have to do is strike up a conversation and go from there to see what happens . But they're afraid of that. That fear of rejection got them in a chokehold. I've seen chicks openly hit on them and I would tell them to go step and they freeze up or make excuses. I can't go and break the ice and say my guy is just nervous anymore we're in our 30s that isn't cute or cool. You gotta but up out here and go get what you want lol
Their so busy trying to looks max and money max.
They Forgot the most important quality
How to have normal conversation with a women
 

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Their so busy trying to looks max and money max.
They Forgot the most important quality
How to have normal conversation with a women
They're not even maxing their money. They're too busy spending it on parlays, Only Fans, meme coins, Twitch, and buying these online courses from scammers. They could just get a trade or a typical 9to5 but they look down on those jusg as much as the females the criticize. They're out here chasing that fast money dopamanie high as well and getting finessed just like the women. The difference is that nobody wants to hear a man cry about how life isn't shaking for them. Go do something about it and a lot of them don't because they don't have the confidence or conviction in themselves to even talk to a woman.
 

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yea

all in all the title is misguided. to be honest i havent watched Diary of a CEO in months because its a lot of the same shyt over and over + he be click baiting in the titles and the thumbnails.

scott galloway's message from what i remember goes for beyond "dating apps are creating incels".

at the end of the day you have a bunch of average men who if they have not been fortunate enough to find and sustain a job/woman are finding it very difficult to do so. Jobs are putting you through 5 rounds of interviews for even entry level positions and giving you lowball offers or ghosting you. Woman are volatile with their emotions and constantly scolding you - and thats if they havent already rejected you or sized you up against the other 10 dudes trying to talk to them. To compound the issue, you complain to any body about they above matters (financial, professional, romantic) and all they will tell you is to stop crying and to improve yourself...only thing is you can do that and still run into the same brick wall. Meanwhile, women are surrounded by people willing to help them emotionally, financially and even professionally. As a result, you have men feeling helpless and insecure while woman are feeling empowered and egotistical. Put the two in an interaction with each other and it only reinforces the issue in a constant loop.

A lot of the people in this thread are simply not in the field and it shows. It's that or they live in smaller/rural towns and cities where the dynamic is different culturally. Any single man who lives in a large/metro area will tell you how bad it is...dudes who have absolutely no issue getting women. I even have plenty of married friends who even say that if they were single today they couldnt do it because they see how tiktok, hinge, IG, bumble etc have turned women into delusional people. Finding a woman to fukk is not the issue. You shoot enough shots youll hit one eventually. The problem is finding an attractive woman who is reliable, worth taking seriously and who feels the same way about you.
When you put it like that, it's really easy to understand why a lot of GEN Z are turning into right-wingers and red pillers.

There's only so much bullshít that a dude can take before he disillusions himself and pretty much quits.
 

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yea

all in all the title is misguided. to be honest i havent watched Diary of a CEO in months because its a lot of the same shyt over and over + he be click baiting in the titles and the thumbnails.

scott galloway's message from what i remember goes for beyond "dating apps are creating incels".

at the end of the day you have a bunch of average men who if they have not been fortunate enough to find and sustain a job/woman are finding it very difficult to do so. Jobs are putting you through 5 rounds of interviews for even entry level positions and giving you lowball offers or ghosting you. Woman are volatile with their emotions and constantly scolding you - and thats if they havent already rejected you or sized you up against the other 10 dudes trying to talk to them. To compound the issue, you complain to any body about they above matters (financial, professional, romantic) and all they will tell you is to stop crying and to improve yourself...only thing is you can do that and still run into the same brick wall. Meanwhile, women are surrounded by people willing to help them emotionally, financially and even professionally. As a result, you have men feeling helpless and insecure while woman are feeling empowered and egotistical. Put the two in an interaction with each other and it only reinforces the issue in a constant loop.

A lot of the people in this thread are simply not in the field and it shows. It's that or they live in smaller/rural towns and cities where the dynamic is different culturally. Any single man who lives in a large/metro area will tell you how bad it is...dudes who have absolutely no issue getting women. I even have plenty of married friends who even say that if they were single today they couldnt do it because they see how tiktok, hinge, IG, bumble etc have turned women into delusional people. Finding a woman to fukk is not the issue. You shoot enough shots youll hit one eventually. The problem is finding an attractive woman who is reliable, worth taking seriously and who feels the same way about you.
You say that but that still dodges accountability on the men. A lot of these so called brehs subscribe to the whole passport movement and you see that they're not wifing these chics. They're just using the exchange rate to leverage power over them and get sex. It isn't as bad as social media potrays it. A lot of these dudes are just as entitled as the women out here. They think they're entitled to a certain income and woman just because they are a male. They think they're a leader but have not shown any leadership skills. Not have they even put together a stable situation for themselves but want a woman to come under their wing. That's crazy talk. But like I've always said there is usually a chic around these miserable brehs that's really feeling them but they ignore her or don't give her the energy because she doesn't fit the profile of the woman he thinks he deserves or that will get him respect from other men.
 

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When you put it like that, it's really easy to understand why a lot of GEN Z are turning into right-wingers and red pillers.

There's only so much bullshít that a dude can take before he disillusions himself and pretty much quits.
And that’s exactly what worries Scott Galloway

If it persists it will destroy society lol
 

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Social media got young boys comparing themselves to men with means they'll probably never have, and grifters using that loneliness for financial gain
 
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No my incel friend it's because we grew up wanting to impress women.

By making women our focus we learned to socialize and entertain women. Through this experience we learned what women find interesting and developed personalities that women are attracted too.

Incels on the other hand would rather spend time socializing and trying to impress other incels so you lack the social skills needed to be successful with women. Instead of recognizing this your ilk grows sullen and blame women for your own inadequacies. Like you did in your first post that I quoted. :sas2:

Seriously!

Men nowadays act like flowers cost $500, or if you buy them for a woman, you’re a simp. Back in the day, we wanted to stay fly. Now, I see young brehs walking around looking dusty all the time.

The bus driver and the school teacher make the same salary. But which one has better things to talk about? Brehs have no hobbies, don’t travel, aren’t funny, and want a woman to sit around the house, and watch movies. And you know how they expect to get those women? Send a compelling message on an app:

“Hi”

What makes them stand out more than all the other average looking men sending the same exact message? If they meet the women in real life, what’s better about them than all the other average men? Women don’t need to be grateful for attention from every man.
 

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That sounds like a personal problem. Isn't that something we all control?

The 5'2 guy would still be far better off approaching in person instead of complaining. If dudes still think a 5'2 breh can find a woman, then maybe passportbros shouldn't have ever been clowned.

Alot of the people creating these think pieces, statistics, and complainers are in most cases having a YOU problem.

Guaranteed alot of them both male and female aren't putting in NO work, have issues themselves they refuse to change and are the common demenomonator on all their issues.
 

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Alot of the people creating these think pieces, statistics, and complainers are in most cases having a YOU problem.

Guaranteed alot of them both male and female aren't putting in NO work, have issues themselves they refuse to change and are the common demenomonator on all their issues.

Yeah I want to see what these lonely dudes doing in their spare time. Are they swiping for 3 hours or are they going out and socializing?
 
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