Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

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I had 250,000 miles on my dikk by the time I was 24. I have since transitioned into being a family man with a beautiful family….A man should never, ever, Ever, take advice from a woman when it comes to identifying masculinity, unless she a cold blooded chick… Only a handful of real nikkas gonna even understand what I mean by that…..
Again, please go tell Havard and MIT how mating and dating works. I'm sure they would love to hear your thesis on "real nikkas" and how it applies to sociology and global romantic practices.

Why do we need science and research when we can use "dikk miles"?

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I’ve only read a few posts but there’s a lot of ignorance and falsehoods in this thread. A lot of obtuseness/naivety too.

Dating apps are not the whole problem but they are certainly a big contributor to it and it isn’t that difficult to see or understand why. They and social media create the illusion of unlimited options and inflate the egos of women . This causes women to have crazy standards even when they’re average. As a really only a small subset of men (including myself) get all the woman while average men scavenge and starve.

Yall in here acting like you haven’t seen ppl being dumb and picky as hell on that pop the balloon show…like yall haven’t heard the dumbest demands from women regarding a man’s appearance or affluence.

It’s disingenuous
 

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It's the atmosphere now. Gainful entry level employment is hard to get without a college degree or a trade. Electronics are pushed to us as kids when we used to socialize in person. Some of my best memories as a kid was just playing sports and running the fukk around with 10-12 of my friends as a kid. Hanging at the mall. shyt, I actually liked going to school even though I myself am an awkward introvert ambivert. As an adult, you really don't have to go outside if you don't want to.

Yeah, you have to step out of your shell... but a lot of dudes are feeling hopeless because the atmosphere isn't the easiest to navigate so they just give up.

I personally have been on both sides of this coin, and you can find me talking to people trying to build them up to do more. There's dudes on here that just flat out gave up.
Lol i remember learning how to talk to women just but going to the mall with my friends, walking around and forcing ourselves to cold approach. It wasn’t easy at first but you have to desensitize yourself to the rejection

Are young dudes doing that these days?
 

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Lol i remember learning how to talk to women just but going to the mall with my friends, walking around and forcing ourselves to cold approach. It wasn’t easy at first but you have to desensitize yourself to the rejection

Are young dudes doing that these days?
I'm 40 years old Dogg I barely know lol

But nah, but my ex had an 11 y/o son and he wanted to play video games, be on his cell (playing games), and sit on the couch all day. Got love for the young bul, but I grew up on snes... I wasn't really breaking that out until street lights came on and I had to be in the crib. And that's my favorite gaming system to this day.
 

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I'm 40 years old Dogg I barely know lol

But nah, but my ex had an 11 y/o son and he wanted to play video games, be on his cell (playing games), and sit on the couch all day. Got love for the young bul, but I grew up on snes... I wasn't really breaking that out until street lights came on and I had to be in the crib. And that's my favorite gaming system to this day.
yea

all in all the title is misguided. to be honest i havent watched Diary of a CEO in months because its a lot of the same shyt over and over + he be click baiting in the titles and the thumbnails.

scott galloway's message from what i remember goes for beyond "dating apps are creating incels".

at the end of the day you have a bunch of average men who if they have not been fortunate enough to find and sustain a job/woman are finding it very difficult to do so. Jobs are putting you through 5 rounds of interviews for even entry level positions and giving you lowball offers or ghosting you. Woman are volatile with their emotions and constantly scolding you - and thats if they havent already rejected you or sized you up against the other 10 dudes trying to talk to them. To compound the issue, you complain to any body about they above matters (financial, professional, romantic) and all they will tell you is to stop crying and to improve yourself...only thing is you can do that and still run into the same brick wall. Meanwhile, women are surrounded by people willing to help them emotionally, financially and even professionally. As a result, you have men feeling helpless and insecure while woman are feeling empowered and egotistical. Put the two in an interaction with each other and it only reinforces the issue in a constant loop.

A lot of the people in this thread are simply not in the field and it shows. It's that or they live in smaller/rural towns and cities where the dynamic is different culturally. Any single man who lives in a large/metro area will tell you how bad it is...dudes who have absolutely no issue getting women. I even have plenty of married friends who even say that if they were single today they couldnt do it because they see how tiktok, hinge, IG, bumble etc have turned women into delusional people. Finding a woman to fukk is not the issue. You shoot enough shots youll hit one eventually. The problem is finding an attractive woman who is reliable, worth taking seriously and who feels the same way about you.
 
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yea

all in all the title is misguided. to be honest i havent watched Diary of a CEO in months because its a lot of the same shyt over and over + he be click baiting in the titles and the thumbnails.

scott galloway's message from what i remember goes for beyond "dating apps are creating incels".
Yeah, he basically says younger generations were robbed by his generation. Everything they told you to do, they did (a lot of) and starting with millennials on down, have been held back comparatively. And his gen is still fuxking everyone over.
 

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I think it's the economy more than anything. Ninjas are mad cause they still gotta live with their parents or struggling to afford their own apartments.
 

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Yeah, he basically says younger generations were robbed by his generation. Everything they told you to do, they did (a lot of) and starting with millennials on down, have been held back comparatively. And his gen is still fuxking everyone over.
Exactly.

Dudes who are really in the field know nowadays. You can go to school, get an education, be attractive, be fit, be tall, be charismatic, be hardworking and it wont make much of a difference. The sheer numbers just arent in your favor anymore. You get the dream job only to be laid off alongside your peers because the company wants to improve profits by half a percent. Now you gotta compete against 100s of applicants for a job you dont even want. You find and nab the girl you want, and treat her good only to get tossed to the curb because you said a random thing that upset her.

Now dont get me wrong...these are things that have always happened in life...but it has never been this bad and this difficult. Capitalism and feminism have never been this pervasive. Back then you could get a new job relatively quickly. My dad was unemployed at one point as a kid and landed a new job in a month if not less - he told me it took one interview. I had been unemployed for ten months til today and I am taking a 35% pay cut lol despite having grade A qualifications. Back then a shorty got mad at you, yall could stick it out because the options were relatively limited. Now, a shorty just gotta hop on an app and find a new dude.

The game is very different now and anyone acting like its 1998 is out of touch...
 

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yea

all in all the title is misguided. to be honest i havent watched Diary of a CEO in months because its a lot of the same shyt over and over + he be click baiting in the titles and the thumbnails.

scott galloway's message from what i remember goes for beyond "dating apps are creating incels".

at the end of the day you have a bunch of average men who if they have not been fortunate enough to find and sustain a job/woman are finding it very difficult to do so. Jobs are putting you through 5 rounds of interviews for even entry level positions and giving you lowball offers or ghosting you. Woman are volatile with their emotions and constantly scolding you - and thats if they havent already rejected you or sized you up against the other 10 dudes trying to talk to them. To compound the issue, you complain to any body about they above matters (financial, professional, romantic) and all they will tell you is to stop crying and to improve yourself...only thing is you can do that and still run into the same brick wall. Meanwhile, women are surrounded by people willing to help them emotionally, financially and even professionally. As a result, you have men feeling helpless and insecure while woman are feeling empowered and egotistical. Put the two in an interaction with each other and it only reinforces the issue in a constant loop.

A lot of the people in this thread are simply not in the field and it shows. It's that or they live in smaller/rural towns and cities where the dynamic is different culturally. Any single man who lives in a large/metro area will tell you how bad it is...dudes who have absolutely no issue getting women. I even have plenty of married friends who even say that if they were single today they couldnt do it because they see how tiktok, hinge, IG, bumble etc have turned women into delusional people. Finding a woman to fukk is not the issue. You shoot enough shots youll hit one eventually. The problem is finding an attractive woman who is reliable, worth taking seriously and who feels the same way about you.

On the bolded.....so many professional women who happen to be physically attractive have men that PAY THEIR BILLS nowadays, it's insane.
 
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Bunch of bytch ass nikkas with no game.
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