Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

[folasade]

“incel” is now a shaming word woman like you use to avoid being called out by men.

It’ used to be “misogynist”

But that word wasn’t working anymore so y’all used a word that is related to male MURDERERS to shut down opposition

Actual incels get ZERO play not even dates not even numbers or social media they get NOTHING

They straddle the line between unaliving themselves everyday.

Thats why this whole conversation is bullshyt because it’s not about actual incels in the first place. And the men who they now call “incels” aren’t crashing out and murdering women because they got ghosted.

Huh? Called out for what?

 

[RickyDiBiase]

You are fukking dense. No where did I say it was the only options or the preferable option. I hate fukking dating apps. Repeatedly I said it was a socialization problem. You are just picking out what you want to address. I said it multiple times it's one cog in a larger problem.

I agree

but the men facing these issues, have to WANT to do/be better. Can't force em.

and the problem is, these influencers and similar content placates to their grievances on why they shouldn't have to do anything. Sure they tell them to hit the gym, wash they ass and the like, but that's pretty much it, there's no actual emotional maturity to it.

Like damn, these mfers have no sense of charm or joy, and the only time they seem to enjoy anything is the shortcomings of others, which to some people is a turnoff.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Sounds like the red flag theory

 

[Jazzy B.]

Huh? Called out for what?

Y’all’s BULLshyt

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Repeatedly I said it was a socialization problem.

Exactly bytch you autistic mafukka!


YOU the 1 who quoted me in the 1st place when all I said was, You can't blame dating apps for mafukkas being incels.

You literally just had to engage with me for no fukking reason.

I didn't quote anyone with my post. I just made a comment with ya weirdo socially awkward ass.


I see why you would have issues with dating apps.

 

[folasade]

Y’all’s BULLshyt

oh, ok. So, that ain't got nothing to with me. Sorry to whatever happened to you.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Nah...​

 

[Vandelay]

I agree

but the men facing these issues, have to WANT to do/be better. Can't force em.

and the problem is, these influencers and similar content placates to their grievances on why they shouldn't have to do anything. Sure they tell them to hit the gym, wash they ass and the like, but that's pretty much it, there's no actual emotional maturity to it.

Like damn, these mfers have no sense of charm or joy, and the only time they seem to enjoy anything is the shortcomings of others, which to some people is a turnoff.

It's the atmosphere now. Gainful entry level employment is hard to get without a college degree or a trade. Electronics are pushed to us as kids when we used to socialize in person. Some of my best memories as a kid was just playing sports and running the fukk around with 10-12 of my friends as a kid. Hanging at the mall. shyt, I actually liked going to school even though I myself am an awkward introvert ambivert. As an adult, you really don't have to go outside if you don't want to.

Yeah, you have to step out of your shell... but a lot of dudes are feeling hopeless because the atmosphere isn't the easiest to navigate so they just give up.

I personally have been on both sides of this coin, and you can find me talking to people trying to build them up to do more. There's dudes on here that just flat out gave up.

 

[cheek100]

a dating app ain’t shyt if u can’t pull her out her comfort zone.
one thing im sure of, there’s going to be a lot more lonely women than men in the near future.

 

[Vandelay]

Exactly bytch you autistic mafukka!


YOU the 1 who quoted me in the 1st place when all I said was, You can't blame dating apps for mafukkas being incels.

You literally just had to engage with me for no fukking reason.

I didn't quote anyone with my post. I just made a comment with ya weirdo socially awkward ass.


I see why you would have issues with dating apps.

You must not be talking to me, because I don't have those problems and I've showed receipts to prove otherwise.

I quoted you because we're on a message board to talk about shyt. I addressed you fairly without name calling. You don't want to talk about this issue, so be it. That's some bytchass shyt, but so be it.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

It's the atmosphere now. Gainful entry level employment is hard to get without a college degree or a trade. Electronics are pushed to us as kids when we used to socialize in person. Some of my best memories as a kid was just playing sports and running the fukk around with 10-12 of my friends as a kid. Hanging at the mall. shyt, I actually liked going to school even though I myself am an awkward introvert ambivert. As an adult, you really don't have to go outside if you don't want to.

Yeah, you have to step out of your shell... but a lot of dudes are feeling hopeless because the atmosphere isn't the easiest to navigate so they just give up.

I personally have been on both sides of this coin, and you can find me talking to people trying to build them up to do more. There's dudes on here that just flat out gave up.

then they're SOL. World ain't got stop spinning for em. Nor should it.

You only get one shot at this shyt, and if you (not literally) not even gonna try, then I don't blame people for not bothering.

 

[Vandelay]

then they're SOL. World ain't got stop spinning for em. Nor should it.

You only get one shot at this shyt, and if you (not literally) not even gonna try, then I don't blame people for not bothering.

Fair enough. I'm just not wired like that. I try to help where I can if someone either asks or I see they genuinely need help or advice.

 

[folasade]

then they're SOL. World ain't got stop spinning for em. Nor should it.

You only get one shot at this shyt, and if you (not literally) not even gonna try, then I don't blame people for not bothering.

Exactly. I also dislike the thinking that they're the only ones that have it hard out here in life. We all do in different ways, but we learn life isn't fair when we're young. Maybe we're too spoiled.

 

[Fanservice]

There's no women on these apps anymore. That bubble burst in the late 10s.

There are women but it’s college-aged girls looking for a sugar daddy, mid-20s promoting their instagram/tiktok and 30+ year old divorcess directing you to Snapchat so they can sell you spicy content

Only obese late bloomers and single mothers with no social life are genuinely looking for a relationship on these apps

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I addressed you fairly without name calling.

Kill yoself with ya lying bytch ass. You had the nerve to call someone dense.

Talking bout you shared receipts to prove some shyt on here.

You sound like an autistic child.


You a attention seeking weirdo gah damm.