Masculinity Debate: Are Dating Apps Creating A Generation Of Incels?! Lonely Men Are More Dangerous Than Ever!

[O.T.I.S.]

All I know is everywhere I go I see plenty of couples around pushing strollers and/or with kids in tow. The park, the zoo, the grocery store, Disneyland.

The numbers ain't adding up. Somebody lying.

Kids and strollers have nothing to do with dating

 

[Vandelay]

That's life off the net also.

Men holla at women all damm day regardless of if they even find the chick remotely attractive. Just cause they wanna fukk.
Ain’t shyt new.

Ain’t no way you can blame a dating app for creating incels.
That's some white boy ass red pill mad at the world shyt.

If you have issues getting women on a dating app then you are the issue.

There's plenty of studies and anecdotal evidence showing that this isn't true...

I'm not saying it's dating apps alone. You need a baseline of shyt contributing to a societal mismatch.

• Women are outperforming men up until the median income significantly. But still want to date up.
• A generation of social media has retarded in-person interaction. Talking here or social media is not the same as real life. Dudes legit aren't learning body expression when socializing.
• Then throw in an app that's deciding a bunch of factors:
• Are you attractive
• Your height
• What you like to do which subsequently. says what you can do and ultimately. what you are able to provide.
• Have you swiped on too many people
• Have you completely filled out the app

And a bunch more irrelevant shyt as to whether or not you're even going to have chemistry with the person.

 

[Vandelay]

All I know is everywhere I go I see plenty of couples around pushing strollers and/or with kids in tow. The park, the zoo, the grocery store, Disneyland.

The numbers ain't adding up. Somebody lying.

Use your own eyes to judge societal trends, brehs...

No one is having kids anymore or later and Gen Alpha is the smallest generation we've had in over 100 years. But your eyes are telling you otherwise.

I'm taking a mental note to never ask you for stats.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Kids and strollers have nothing to do with dating

Young couples with a stroller has nothing to do with dating? What about the couples I see with no kids?

Women's standards are high, Mens' loniness is high;

Yet where ever I go, I see couples of all shapes and sizes.

 

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

Dogg, you keep talking about the ideal and not what's actually happening. People gravitate towards whatever atmosphere is provided.

It is a personal choice, but the atmosphere makes that the most accessible option. Add in that a lot of men are broke and don't have a strong social circle, it only compounds the problem.

And when there's less viable men available a lot of women are choosing to hold out, date someone who they know who is actively pursuing other options, freeze their eggs, become lesbian, whatever lol.

To chalk shyt up to "niccas is broke" is ridiculous broskie...believe it or not there's women out here cool with dating dudes that aren't in the best position financially.



What you niccas fail to realize is as much as we talk about how a lot of women are trash...which is true...a lot of men are trash too.



It's so many lil boy, stunted growth ass 30+ and 40+ year old niccas that post ON THIS SITE. Broke and successful.



It's dudes I used to see posting on SOHH or AHH damn near 20 years ago and you can tell there's no growth.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Use your own eyes to judge societal trends, brehs...

No one is having kids anymore or later and Gen Alpha is the smallest generation we've had in over 100 years. But your eyes are telling you otherwise.

I'm taking a mental note to never ask you for stats.

I see couples with kids and without kids. If dating is so bad, why do I observe the opposite around me?

Is that not an observation to take into account on this subject?

Usually with a social trend, you'll see it in your everyday life. Like when Air Forces was a trend, I seen people wearing them. Or with Allen Iverson, dudes starting wearing braids.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Young couples with a stroller has nothing to do with dating? What about the couples I see with no kids?

Women's standards are high, Mens' loniness is high;

Yet where ever I go, I see couples of all shapes and sizes.

You didn’t specify age range you specified couples.



Are you saying because there are couples out here pushing strollers then everything about dating in the US is fine, when data consistently proves otherwise


I guarantee you that there are more single moms pushing strollers in certain demographics.

You are trying to blame incels and I’m blaming the entire social media system.

I also think you throw that incel word around too freely

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ya'll have a million excuses for what's so simple. The system that encouraged male female relationships, particularly traditional family, is breaking down.

The way people relationship is completely out of alignment with our natural instincts. As the system falls, people start aligning themselves with nature again.

In nature, weak men do not get to breed.

Why do you think these republicans are doing all this to try to stop women from having abortions and trying to target programs that help women? It's the system trying to maintain itself.

 

[Umoja]

How would you blame dating apps when in this age, that is 1 of the better ways people are connecting and dating.

Mafukkas always want to blame everything but parenting.

Inserting capitalism into the opening stage of romantic relationships. Let me put my thinking cap on for this one.

 

[Vandelay]

To chalk shyt up to "niccas is broke" is ridiculous broskie...believe it or not there's women out here cool with dating dudes that aren't in the best position financially.



What you niccas fail to realize is as much as we talk about how a lot of women are trash...which is true...a lot of men are trash too.



It's so many lil boy, stunted growth ass 30+ and 40+ year old niccas that post ON THIS SITE. Broke and successful.



It's dudes I used to see posting on SOHH or AHH damn near 20 years ago and you can tell there's no growth.

I'm not saying it's dating apps alone. You need a baseline of shyt contributing to a societal mismatch.

• Women are outperforming men up until the median income significantly. But still want to date up.
• A generation of social media has retarded in-person interaction. Talking here or social media is not the same as real life. Dudes legit aren't learning body expression when socializing.
• Then throw in an app that's deciding a bunch of factors:
• Are you attractive
• Your height
• What you like to do which subsequently. says what you can do and ultimately. what you are able to provide.
• Have you swiped on too many people
• Have you completely filled out the app

And a bunch more irrelevant shyt as to whether or not you're even going to have chemistry with the person.

I see y'all just want to pick the points out that y'all have personal experience with. This post was literally 3 posts right above yours...

For the record, I have no issue on dating apps or real life and I'm shorter than average. I'm speaking from both sides of the coin and I'm using actual data out there to support my argument.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

You didn’t specify age range you specified couples.



Are you saying because there are couples out here pushing strollers then everything about dating in the US is fine, when data consistently proves otherwise


I guarantee you that there are more single moms pushing strollers in certain demographics.

You are trying to blame incels and I’m blaming the entire social media system.

I also think you throw that incel word around too freely

Personally, the fact dating is considering a pressing issue speaks volumes about this country

Cause that shyt is laughable for a multitude of reasons

not to say it's not an issue...but compared to say education, that's comparing a paper cut to stage 2 cancer.

 

[WaveGang]

Old s stop acting brand new, like lames didn’t exist back then too

Disclaimer I wouldn’t say it’s worst, just more publicised.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Personally, the fact dating is considering a pressing issue speaks volumes about this country

Cause that shyt is laughable for a multitude of reasons

not to say it's not an issue...but compared to say education, that's comparing a paper cut to stage 2 cancer.

I agree

There are fundamental issues that have got dating to where it is now but this shyt is just an end result to me.

 

[Vandelay]

I see couples with kids and without kids. If dating is so bad, why do I observe the opposite around me?

Is that not an observation to take into account on this subject?

Usually with a social trend, you'll see it in your everyday life. Like when Air Forces was a trend, I seen people wearing them. Or with Allen Iverson, dudes starting wearing braids.

Data can lie, so personal observations are needed to verify.

BUT... I have no idea where you're from, who you're around, what the dating culture is like there, what the demographics are, whether or not you're lying or skewing shyt to prove a point or whether you're even interpreting what you're seeing is even valid.

All I'm saying is, dating apps/social media is one cog that's breaking down traditional dating norms. And it's a very big cog.

 

[Givethanks]

Just go outside and say "hey"


Girls that wanna talk are usually friendly are show some signs in a weird way. It's not rocket science