This is so common in the black community
1. Women moving a ex con in within a month so not only she can have sex, but the nikka can watch her kid while she at work
2. Ex con loves it for awhile until a argument happens and she brings up u staying in my place, i paid for your clothes, i did this , i did that for your broke ass… that right there begin the ex con to find a new woman to latched up on
3. Usually the ex con had other women sending him letters but at the time being he goes with the chick he feels he could eat off of better until number 2 on my list pops up
4. Ex cons are good at telling these women about marrying them and having a family and when responsibility comes up in terms of a baby, then u see the change
I see it often too. I call it a fat chick's "pipe" dream (pun intended). Usually the only way they can get a decent looking in-shape man.
1. Starts writing/communicating with an inmate they know or a friend knows.
2. Develops a bond and starts to fall for him.
3. Promises him a place to stay and to take care of him when he gets out.
4. After getting out, he blows her back out a number of times because he ain't had sex in years. She gives him spending money, buys him all new gear, even gives him a car to drive. Of course she has him all up on her Facebook page, showing off her new boo.
5. He gets back on his feet, reconnects with his old flame or a new shorty.
6. He bounces with everything she brought him (maybe even the whip too), and moves in with the more attractive chick.
7. Big girl is left sad and crying, complaining that she can't find a good man.
Typically this happen in the span of 2-3 months tops.