Married women who have affairs are happy in their relationships but are just 'bored' in the bedroom

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The problem is that women DONT like being 2nd or the lesser creature or having to submit to a man that ...they may fell they are better than. God has made men the top of the food chain weither women like it or not . @BonitaChelz fails to realize that MEN have there responsibilities as well ...you can talk all this about what women HAVE to do but its nothing like being a man. Society has given yall power over men which is why women and gays along with feminism runs society cause they dont want a man in the house anyway and if a man is in the home they still want a women runing it. Women cant even see the same government that gives you your power is destroying the community.
Believe me, I fail to understand very little. Your assuming all men operate the same and they don't. It may be about power to you but it's not to me. This whole "lesser " creature shyt is silly but if you believe it then that's fine :heh:
 

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If that's the case, same way I say brehs need a higher standard of women, you need a higher standard of man. Y'all need to be that for each other, not one sided. No offense, and not speaking to you specifically, speaking in general.
We need to get back to basics. Love each other, care for each other and be real genuine with each other.
I agree. We do need to get back to the basics. The foundation ain't worth shyt now a days :wow:
 

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Women are not EASY to please men ARE easy to please ... and just for kicks what ARE you really sacrificing ?
Your right@ men are easier to please than women. I would be sacrificing my peace of damn mind :yeshrug: that's all I can come up with as of yet lol
 

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This might be an unpopular idea but I plan on having a multi-peer marriage. Where, in addition to having a wife, I will have a girlfriend (or two) on the side. My wife will have a boyfriend (non-white guy) on the side as well. We must both know each other's mistresses and have everyone involved take an STD test. I would only introduce such an idea when the marriage matures (10+ years into the marriage).

People have to understand that monogamy doesn't work. You will be bored with your wife and she with you. I see a marriage more like an economic union or a business relationship. Both husband and wife are obligated to co-run the household and handle family affairs. You're morally, socially, and legally obligated to care for your children (education, healthcare, etc.).
 

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Its a crap shoot when u exchange those vows.

I come down, like this, on this issue;

Men and women have the same exact problem, here. It is hard, after years and sexual miscellany, to up and decide to sleep with one person for the rest of your life.

I don't regret it, but, being a virgin makes me fear this.

Not that my future wife won't be a virgin and cheating, but, I won't be able to deal with it and divorce her and get railroaded.

I don't say that as a "simp." No, I'm not about to let someone disrespect me, at that level. But, I'm smart often to understand sexual desire isn't something you just ignore. That's especially after a variety of partners.

Again, the double standard exist, because this is an issue of both men and women.
 

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I come down, like this, on this issue;

Men and women have the same exact problem, here. It is hard, after years and sexual miscellany, to up and decide to sleep with one person for the rest of your life.

I don't regret it, but, being a virgin makes me fear this.

Not that my future wife won't be a virgin and cheating, but, I won't be able to deal with it and divorce her and get railroaded.

I don't say that as a "simp." No, I'm not about to let someone disrespect me, at that level. But, I'm smart often to understand sexual desire isn't something you just ignore. That's especially after a variety of partners.

Again, the double standard exist, because this is an issue of both men and women.

so you'll stay with a cheater?
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Your right@ men are easier to please than women. I would be sacrificing my peace of damn mind :yeshrug: that's all I can come up with as of yet lol

all you have to do is suck dikk open your legs every night cook food , don't nag and your husband will be by your side till death :manny:
 

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This might be an unpopular idea but I plan on having a multi-peer marriage. Where, in addition to having a wife, I will have a girlfriend (or two) on the side. My wife will have a boyfriend (non-white guy) on the side as well. We must both know each other's mistresses and have everyone involved take an STD test. I would only introduce such an idea when the marriage matures (10+ years into the marriage).

People have to understand that monogamy doesn't work. You will be bored with your wife and she with you. I see a marriage more like an economic union or a business relationship. Both husband and wife are obligated to co-run the household and handle family affairs. You're morally, socially, and legally obligated to care for your children (education, healthcare, etc.).

:ehh:

my longest relationship was 3 years and i was getting bored near the end of it , even though she was gorgeous, that ish don't matter
 
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I agree. We do need to get back to the basics. The foundation ain't worth shyt now a days :wow:



At the end if the day we all have a role to play. I have role to play and if i abuse my power GOD will find a way to make me pay in this life. Women have a role as well and right now in our society women are going threw a renaissance period were they have a lot of power and say so and they make more money
than a lot of men. But there is a cause and effect to everything with men since society has mad us the inferior creature now ...its like marriage dosent hold the same weight as when my grandmother was around or your grandmother because it was a structure. So now more men will end up like derek jeter or geroge clonney( i know he just recently got engaeged) were they wait forever to get married or they just dont and enjoy life and get better as men. Women gotta stop weighing there existence threw thier viginas. And men gotta stop weighing thier existence with how many women they smashed and how many possessions they own .
 
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At the end if the day we all have a role to play. I have role to play and if i abuse my power GOD will find a way to make me pay in this life. Women have a role as well and right now in our society women are going threw a renaissance period were they have a lot of power and say so and they make more money
than a lot of men. But there is a cause and effect to everything with men since society has mad us the inferior creature now ...its like marriage dosent hold the same weight as when my grandmother was around or your grandmother because it was a structure. So now more men will end up like derek jeter or geroge clonney( i know he just recently got engaeged) were they wait forever to get married or they just dont and enjoy life and get better as men. Women gotta stop weighing there existence threw thier viginas. And men gotta stop weighing thier existence with how many women they smashed and how many possessions they own . If not women gon be asking ....were did all the good men go ?
 

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At the end if the day we all have a role to play. I have role to play and if i abuse my power GOD will find a way to make me pay in this life. Women have a role as well and right now in our society women are going threw a renaissance period were they have a lot of power and say so and they make more money
than a lot of men. But there is a cause and effect to everything with men since society has mad us the inferior creature now ...its like marriage dosent hold the same weight as when my grandmother was around or your grandmother because it was a structure. So now more men will end up like derek jeter or geroge clonney( i know he just recently got engaeged) were they wait forever to get married or they just dont and enjoy life and get better as men. Women gotta stop weighing there existence threw thier viginas. And men gotta stop weighing thier existence with how many women they smashed and how many possessions they own .

I stopped reading there.
 
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my longest relationship was 3 years and i was getting bored near the end of it , even though she was gorgeous, that ish don't matter


I gotta find the post were patrice says the samething its easy to please a man ...ill find and in some off time I hope you listen to it.
 

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I imagine it's the kids that wear people out after marriage. Hard enough finding time to be intimate with both people working full time jobs, especially if they're on different schedules. Having to do the kid thing means taking care of them, getting them to appointments, school, and doing a ton of other shyt. In a lot of couples the man runs himself ragged taking on extra work and the woman is stressed the hell out dealing with the kids. Society isn't built to support families worth a good god damn and then it wonders why the divorce rate is at 50/50. Stressed out motherfukkers don't communicate well.
 
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