Married/committed brehs.. when you stopped wanting to fuc other women

[Buckeye Fever]

Confirmed.

@KnickstapeCity has never been in love. He's always fakkiting us guys that have tender hearts.

 

[etrofllenrod504]

Title. I been with the same girl for 6/7 years now. I cheated early on but been solid since for the most part. I love her, but this faithful shyt hard. Does the urge to fukk other women ever go away? How do y’all deal with it? This bytch a 5’2 cute porto rican brehs

the urge never goes away.

 

[SNG]

This.

And that is where you find out how treacherous some women can be because the will pursue you even more when they find out you are married. There are a few good ones that will show true disappointment and fall back when the find out the dude is married, which oddly enough, makes many married dudes pursue even more

Yea because they look at it as ok she’s comfortable with the situation that I’m married so she knows what it is.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

When you met somebody that actually has all their shyt together and treats you like a human being
Ain’t a bytch out here going to do shyt for me like my wife
Most these hoes are fair weather
I’ve seen it all *Jeezy* voice
fukked all different types of p*ssy
Been in situations I know my black ass shouldn’t have survived because of trying to get laid
To make it to 44 and know most these bytches can’t carry water and have nothing to offer but some mid, stretched out p*ssy
That’s what makes you stop wanting to fukk random bytches

 

[mag357]

shyt me and the boys just finished yard work...they getting ready to go hit the park I'm chilling.....



but this aint about me





now where were we

thats cool u got fam at least in your lyfe; they ever give you static for your cowboy lifestyle?

Nope... All they see is me happy. Enjoying life

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Some of us just ain't build for that life. I've accepted that i'm a rolling stone at heart; not meant to be domesticated

 

[Mike Ock]

- I've lived a lot before getting married.
- I've been working from home for 4 years, so waaay less temptation compared to commuting and walkiing around manhattan.
- My dad mentioned before passing away that him cheating on my mother was his biggest regret in life.
- I realize 5 -10 mins of smashing someone else isn't worth losing a family.
- Always kept in mind "T-N-A ain't worth a brotha's dna"- Ice Cube
- If another chik was really on my mind, Id just go home and yank one out and let go of that desire/temptation.

The urge never leaves, but understanding the consequences of acting on it may destroy my life, helps keep things in perspective.

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

- I've lived a lot before getting married.
- I've been working from home for 4 years, so waaay less temptation compared to commuting and walkiing around manhattan.
- My dad mentioned before passing away that him cheating on my mother was his biggest regret in life.
- I realize 5 -10 mins of smashing someone else isn't worth losing a family.
- Always kept in mind "T-N-A ain't worth a brotha's dna"- Ice Cube
- If another chik was really on my mind, Id just go home and yank one out and let go of that desire/temptation.

The urge never leaves, but understanding the consequences of acting on it may destroy my life, helps keep things in perspective.

This.

The juice is never worth the squeeze.

At best, you get a nut and the temporary thrill of sneaking around, but have to lie to cover it up and deal with the guilt that comes with that.

At worst you hurt the woman you love, lose her trust, make her question herself and lose years of invested time it took to build something you thought was worth all that time.

 

[maxamusa]

Nope... All they see is me happy. Enjoying life

thats cool.....how come you got so much smoke for anyone in a relationship to.....is that rooted in whatever happened in 03?

permenatly scarred type shyt?

 

[Ahmen]

You are supposed to have urges for other women, men are built that way.
Mature men control the urge to act on flights of fancy. DO NOT LISTEN TO THE NEGATIVE COMMENTS they will only pave the way to excusing bad behavior that you will regret later. Try new activities with her, or at least, viewing her differently. 16 years in and I'm dating my wife all over again.

 

[mag357]

thats cool.....how come you got so much smoke for anyone in a relationship to.....is that rooted in whatever happened in 03?

permenatly scarred type shyt?

Oh no... In the few relationships Ive had. I've probably been the problem the most.
My shorty from that time is cool peoples. That's my dog. Someone I respect highly.
But I learn alot from everything I do, and by watching other people.
I realize the sht is dumb...it's like we are programmed to do these things but when u stop to think about it. It really makes no sense.
Once I wasn't afraid to shake off the programming my life has been going up. And I smile everyday, grateful I don't have to put up with the sht everybody else does, and they try to find silver linings in it.

U come in this world by yourself and u don't ever continue to focus solely on urself. U start adding complex layers and doing things that keeps u occupied from spending time on finding ur true purpose.
Before u know it, ur only living your life for other people and other things.
Praying for alil bit of joy and good times between the constant sacrifices

Specifically concerning the relationship sht. There isn't a win in it for a smart man. U just taking on another responsibility for people who really aren't built to love unconditionally.
It's not in their nature.

But I don't even preach to nikkaz any more. I just laugh at them on the internet and live my good life in real life. Not a care in the world lol

 

[Don Snow]

If your girl won’t give you a threesome or a hall pass she don’t love you

 

[HarlemHottie]

I told that man I would kick the bytch down some stairs and then murder him in his sleep. Yall be with bytches yalll can play with and I'm not for play.
I appreciate his discipline, though. A++

 

[maxamusa]

Oh no... In the few relationships Ive had. I've probably been the problem the most.
My shorty from that time is cool peoples. That's my dog. Someone I respect highly.
But I learn alot from everything I do, and by watching other people.
I realize the sht is dumb...it's like we are programmed to do these things but when u stop to think about it. It really makes no sense.
Once I wasn't afraid to shake off the programming my life has been going up. And I smile everyday, grateful I don't have to put up with the sht everybody else does, and they try to find silver linings in it.

U come in this world by yourself and u don't ever continue to focus solely on urself. U start adding complex layers and doing things that keeps u occupied from spending time on finding ur true purpose.
Before u know it, ur only living your life for other people and other things.
Praying for alil bit of joy and good times between the constant sacrifices

Specifically concerning the relationship sht. There isn't a win in it for a smart man. U just taking on another responsibility for people who really aren't built to love unconditionally.
It's not in their nature.

But I don't even preach to nikkaz any more. I just laugh at them on the internet and live my good life in real life. Not a care in the world lol

smell you; does this apply to the homies too? or specifically just women?

 

[Don Snow]

Beyoncé got cheated by Hov and by the nikka she was with before Hov

If you want some side p*ssy go get it your girl not gonna leave