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This Dominican dude kinda sensitive :patrice:
I dont know how shyt went left so quick after popping champagne.

Nah them comments she was making was the tip of the iceberg on her personality

Only a soft ass man let anyone get off with them jabs

She was talking like she known dude for years and he is a known clumsy dude and she been dealing with his fuxkups all that time


Dude handle that shyt exactly right

Let that bytch know u don't play that shyt

And respect is the only option

I'll check my own gawt damm parents for shyt like that


That's why my parents and my girl and any one in my life know I don't play that shyt


I be seeing some parents literally embarrass the fukk out they adult kids talking down on them like it's jokws


And I seen wives constantly make jokes talking down on they husbands


Can't be me tho

I'll push a bytch teeth to her feet

I feel what you saying but I think dude went about it the wrong way. If they stay together she'll be walking on egg shells with him forever. She said she's willing to compromise. He just gotta put his foot down that's all.
I mean she barely met dude and is already bossing him around and implying that he’s clumsy. He’s done nothing but be stand up for her and she equates spilling champagne with his character...and she does this on national TV with the cameras rolling. Nah, you gotta regulate that early...especially these days where women think they can clown you and pigeon-hole you as the bumbling idiot male because the broader culture suggests you can do that now...treat every dude like Homer Simpson or Peter from Family Guy.

He’s from a more masculine culture too so in all honesty he’s probably been giving her a decent amount of rope culturally just off how she’s been dictating to him here and there. I worry about dudes temper flaring up, but so far he’s 100% right IMO.

The show also has this meta aspect where the contestants family and friends are being introduced to the significant other based on what they see on TV. Not checking her actually would be a miss for dude in terms of integrating her with family and friends. Culturally I know that shyt rubbed a lot of them wrong watching too and not squashing it upfront would have it lingering with friends and family post-show.
 

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I wouldn't push a woman's teeth in, but other than that I 100% agree

You have to catch shyt like that QUICK. Women test you to see if she can make slick comments on the regular. That won't be me

If that was a sibling, cousin, or best friend I could kinda understand saying it as a joke. But for someone you just met 2 weeks ago getting THAT comfortable to talk slick to you? Hell nah
My only things is that he wouldn’t address it and then he just left. Put your foot down and ride it out but he may have left because he thought he might get super heated. I don’t think she realized what she did so he should have just handled it right then.
 

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My only things is that he wouldn’t address it and then he just left. Put your foot down and ride it out but he may have left because he thought he might get super heated. I don’t think she realized what she did so he should have just handled it right then.
I agree. I think he handled it all wrong. He was right to feel that way and he was right to check her but he started out all passive aggressive. Energy shifted and he got all quiet. She ask him what’s wrong:

Him: nothing :beli:

Her: did I do something wrong?

Him: I shouldn’t have to tell you what you did wrong
:beli:

These are the things a woman would say
:heh:

He shoulda just been direct with it and nipped it in the bud and got on with the rest of the evening. Prolly woulda got some head as a result
 

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My only things is that he wouldn’t address it and then he just left. Put your foot down and ride it out but he may have left because he thought he might get super heated. I don’t think she realized what she did so he should have just handled it right then.

I agree. I think he handled it all wrong. He was right to feel that way and he was right to check her but he started out all passive aggressive. Energy shifted and he got all quiet. She ask him what’s wrong:

Him: nothing :beli:

Her: did I do something wrong?

Him: I shouldn’t have to tell you what you did wrong
:beli:

These are the things a woman would say
:heh:

He shoulda just been direct with it and nipped it in the bud and got on with the rest of the evening. Prolly woulda got some head as a result


Nah remember he already addressed it in a straight forward manner when they sat down with Pastor Cal. He told her what it was and that she needs to work on her communication skills cause its lacking

Then after when the champagne fell she talks slick again. IMO she knew what she was doing

She's an Engineer, she ain't stupid :heh:
 

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Nah remember he already addressed it in a straight forward manner when they sat down with Pastor Cal. He told her what it was and that she needs to work on her communication skills cause its lacking

Then after when the champagne fell she talks slick again. IMO she knew what she was doing

She's an Engineer, she ain't stupid :heh:
I mean even if she did. The passive aggressive approach wasn’t the move IMO.
 

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They both just different. They may not be a good match. Me and my girl crack on each other playfully all the time. But if that's not your personality, I can see it being grating.

She should be able to pick up on that, but he also needed to be more clear instead of being mopey.

Tell her in the moment exactly what you dont like. If she doesnt acknowledge it - that's on her
 

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Nah remember he already addressed it in a straight forward manner when they sat down with Pastor Cal. He told her what it was and that she needs to work on her communication skills cause its lacking

Then after when the champagne fell she talks slick again. IMO she knew what she was doing

She's an Engineer, she ain't stupid :heh:
My thing is she prolly always been like that so it was addressed but it’s gonna take time for her to change that behavior. But it ain’t like she’s not willing. You gotta have patience in a marriage. I can understand exactly why he was upset but the way he reacted shows he has some deep rooted issues imo. He’s gonna have to keep checking her until she gets it but the way he acted was like how a woman acts in those situations

What’s he gonna do when they get into a real argument? Throw her little ass down a flight of steps?
:russ:
 

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They both just different. They may not be a good match. Me and my girl crack on each other playfully all the time. But if that's not your personality, I can see it being grating.

She should be able to pick up on that, but he also needed to be more clear instead of being mopey.

Tell her in the moment exactly what you dont like. If she doesnt acknowledge it - that's on her
Yup. If he didn’t like what she said than check her in the moment or crack a joke back at her. The way he handled it was bytch made

You the man of the house and you bouncing from the house for the night becuz she cracked on you?
:heh:
 

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Yup. If he didn’t like what she said than check her in the moment or crack a joke back at her. The way he handled it was bytch made

You the man of the house and you bouncing from the house for the night becuz she cracked on you?
:heh:
He's too sensitive tho. When they went back to his place she was joking on his TV , obviously just being playful in return from when he said hers was crooked.

He got super defensive over it and could even take that joke. He's too uptight
 

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They both just different. They may not be a good match. Me and my girl crack on each other playfully all the time. But if that's not your personality, I can see it being grating.

She should be able to pick up on that, but he also needed to be more clear instead of being mopey.

Tell her in the moment exactly what you dont like. If she doesnt acknowledge it - that's on her
Me n my girl watch this show together. We called it episodes ago that he seems like he can't be himself around her n he's trying not to say the wrong thing around her

Basically he a bytch
 

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Nah them comments she was making was the tip of the iceberg on her personality

Only a soft ass man let anyone get off with them jabs

She was talking like she known dude for years and he is a known clumsy dude and she been dealing with his fuxkups all that time


Dude handle that shyt exactly right

Let that bytch know u don't play that shyt

And respect is the only option

I'll check my own gawt damm parents for shyt like that


That's why my parents and my girl and any one in my life know I don't play that shyt


I be seeing some parents literally embarrass the fukk out they adult kids talking down on them like it's jokws


And I seen wives constantly make jokes talking down on they husbands


Can't be me tho

I'll push a bytch teeth to her feet
The problem is he didnt address that shyt immediately. He was supposed to let her know right then like "wait, what did you say?"
But he didn't, and even when asked what the problem was, he kept dancing around the issue. You can't be wishy washy with women, especially.
 

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The problem is he didnt address that shyt immediately. He was supposed to let her know right then like "wait, what did you say?"
But he didn't, and even when asked what the problem was, he kept dancing around the issue. You can't be wishy washy with women, especially.
Nah

When u fukk up
U know wtf u did

And u wanna play stupid, like u don't


Cool

Think on that shyt then bytch
As I bounce and line up my exit strategy
 

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Paige is clearly desperate and has low self-esteem. She went from saying she needed to see STI paperwork in the 1st episode to raw dogging homeboy basically the whole show. Chris picked up on that and figured he could do as he pleases. I have no doubt she would've kept the baby if she wound up pregnant on some "its God's will" bullshyt:lawd:. Either her submissive side really showing or this shyt gotta be fake lol. Can't fathom what she gotta talk about with his baby mom either. The age gap between Jennifer Aniston and Jake is really showing. He's dorky but communicates really well while she resorted to typical female deflection by making it about her("I've had anxiety, haven't eaten, etc"):comeon:Just tell ole boy u not feeling him. Not sure what type of shyt Ryan on when it comes to Jay Leno. She has a bit of a chin but she ain't ugly and got a nice shape. U could tell she's given it up on 1st dates yet homeboy prolly good with handjobs. I'd keep my dikk in her mouth to keep her from talking so much.:takedat: The lush really giving off those red flags talking about she's used to crashing on her guy "friends" couches. It's all good if u wanna slide off but stay single. Primo acted like a whole bytch in the end with Briana. Clearly she's annoying but he could've checked her without the passive-aggressive BS and would've prolly had her calling him Papi by the end of the night. Instead he just sulked off like a little kid.
 
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