Married and Divorced twice before 30.

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link to more of his stories? this was a classic man wow :wow:. I'm 22 myself fukking with some girl who's 24 single with kids but nowhere near as shot out like the bytch in this thread :hhh:
 

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This is greatest and also saddest thing I've ever read:mjcry:

I see why so many brehs are #GMB. I can't even judge them anymore.:wow:

I also understand why military nikkas are how they are. If I went through this type of shyt:merchant:.
 

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Was finally able to finish this. I came in expecting to be like :russ::lolbron::mjlol::gladbron::pachaha::bryan::mjgrin: but now I'm like :mjcry:.

If I was in your situation with the first wife I probably would caught a case. I'm not a violent person and I'm really laid back but I would have put hands on her. Then again I wouldn't have married her in the first place. :manny: I was in the Marines for only a year and a half and everyone told me to not get married and any woman you meet at the club/bar you smash with a condom and move on. Unfortunately a lot of guys I served with didn't follow that advice. One of them paid with his life but I'm not trying to hijack your thread.

Second wife story had me like View media item 13706. I was really expecting her to be revealed to be a former prostitute or some neighborhood slut but shyt was tragic. I'm a extreme homebody myself but at the same time don't have a problem going to the movies, concerts, road trips, etc once in awhile. Chick sounded like a good woman but not good for YOU which is not a bad thing. There are good people out there but not everyone is compatible. It sucks but that's life.

Your stories are amazing and I can't front I feel kinda of envious (not hating) because you've lived an incredible life. You seriously need to get in touch with someone in the entertainment industry to have your life events made into a tv show.


Again with "Janet" I'm like View media item 13706
 

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I learned plenty from both marriages. .

#1. Warning signs!! Not saying all single moms are like that. . I have dated some since. . .But the old adage. . Meet a chick in a bar. . . Also she taught me to be more cold. I was all in with her soon as we met. And she was with it. . But any time we had to be apart she did her thing. :yeshrug: And I was the sucker for love. .


#2. Speak my mind! Listen to my own self. I knew I was unhappy but ate that shyt until I was literally sick. Also. . She was a wonderful woman. . But I never should have married her. :mjcry: I should have trusted my own instincts.



I still make hella missteps. . But I am so much more aware. . Sad it took me this long. But it is ok. :ehh: . I follow my brehs in GMB cause I DID Get Married Brehs. Twice. . .

And I am just being honest. . I do not see the true benefit in getting married anymore. :wow:. . . . And my parents are still going strong. .Which I realize is rare as fukkkkk. They both got married at 18. And they are now 59. And I love what they have. My personal thinking is with social media the way it is. .And society.. . . It is not impossible. . But it is damn tough to have a healthy marriage that will last till the end. :mjcry:

Great storytelling breh:salute:
 

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I keeps it real for the Coli brehs:yeshrug:


I went thru these L’’s so hopefully y’all would not have too:mjcry:
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I've never been there but I feel you.:wow:


I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum living that single life but that ain't all it's cracked up to be either. When reality hits you.:mjtf:

I never felt marriage was key to a successful relationship coz it always looked like a business transaction instead of something natural.

I think you should hold off on marriage until you've lived with someone for x amount of years before you commit.



:hubie::to::salute:
 

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I've never been there but I feel you.:wow:


I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum living that single life but that ain't all it's cracked up to be either. When reality hits you.:mjtf:

I never felt marriage was key to a successful relationship coz it always looked like a business transaction instead of something natural.

I think you should hold off on marriage until you've lived with someone for x amount of years before you commit.



:hubie::to::salute:
Wise words breh. It is just that. A business transaction. I was lucky. No alimony. No kids. So I did not get fleeced. We all know brehs who are paying the price. Literally . After a divorce. That chick who loved you and licking your balls will take you for everything you got and be on the Gram talking about she is living her best life


While the breh is at home eating ramen and contemplating life :unimpressed:
 

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Wise words breh. It is just that. A business transaction. I was lucky. No alimony. No kids. So I did not get fleeced. We all know brehs who are paying the price. Literally . After a divorce. That chick who loved you and licking your balls will take you for everything you got and be on the Gram talking about she is living her best life


While the breh is at home eating ramen and contemplating life :unimpressed:
Having kids whilst being married with someone you've only lived with in a house together a few months after getting serious irregardless of how long you've been in a relationship for has got to be the biggest mindfukk.
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I'm glad u made it thru. If I had a kid without being sure of the mother I think I would've caved in like those CACs and killed her parents plus the pet dog too.:francis::mjlol: (joking but I would def cave in.:mjcry:)
 

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:lawd: you understand. When I think of it.... I grew up in a fantasy land. Loving parents. No stress. Just played with gi joes watched wrestling and got into kids type fukkery. But I was a good natured kid. I like you have to make myself say no to people. I just am a pleaser and love to help. Sadly I learned the hard way you can't help most people. They will just take and take .:demonic:
All facts I'm the same way
 
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