How is a woman gonna be spiritually bonded with a man these days after fukking 10+ men?
Marriage rates are collapsing for lower income and middle income families
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Great and honest article and not just GMB hype:
Field Marshall Bradley
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Legit question.... but I think he is implying cuffing a chick before that happens.... hence spiritually yoked...... but I feel ya.... and this is borderline fact..... once a chick gets double digit bodies on her...... her spirit is tainted to a degree and it will be hard to build with her through the ups and downs
According to this, all hope is loss once you hit 25 in a major city.
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Chrishaune
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Honestly a lot of women aren't going to tell you a lot of things about their past. So even though you might think you know, you don't know what she has done in her past. The only way you can tell if a woman is ready is by the day to day, week to week, year to year, time that you spend with her and see what her character is all about. If you're trying to rush it, you're going to mess up.
Again, we're all sinners. So saying that you're not going to marry another person because they had sin in their past doesn't make sense.
If they clearly don't care about what they did in the past and don't regret it, then that's a person you shouldn't be trying to hang around anyway.
Ezekiel 25:17
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Incentive for men to date/marry is a request that falls willfully deaf ears because then everybody continues asking "why aren't people getting married anymore" when the reasons being cited have been more than apparent in rhetoric and factual research.
I know dating and marriage isn't a cakewalk for women regarding safety, but they do get the registries designed in their favor, ceremonies, tradition of not having to pay, apps designed around their dating interests, court leverage, free drinks after 11 in clubs on singles night, you name it, various things to at least pique their interests.
Men ask for dating/marriage incentive and you get:
"immature" "manchild" "what do you mean incentive?" "you're suppose to want to marry" "if you don't want to get married just say it" "you're clearly not ready to be married"
I'm like
And with that you treat them accordingly, to that of a kid. Men gotta stand up and enforce things because a lot of women don't know what they want or will take advantage of you
I was listening to Zo Williams Mansions podcast & he had Djehuty Ma’at Ra on saying the same exact things your describing. Being equally yoked is important as hell.
These women thotting it up harder in the sticks breh
It happens all the time.how you gonna be spiritually bonded to a man that lies to you and cheats on you?
Ezekiel 25:17
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I'm gonna have to disagree, it has nothing to do with being spiritually yoked or finances.
It's more along the lines of Divorce Court and losing half your shyt. Dudes are realizing this and checking out the game. Hell it's women that realize they can lose their house and savings.
Field Marshall Bradley
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Only if you believe every sista has a dozen bodies under her belt by then,,,,, Is that what you're implying?
Chrishaune
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That's a selfish way of thinking breh.
The most important part of the relationship is the spiritual part.
If you're worried about losing what you have to the woman YOU chose to marry then you weren't listening to the Lord.
You're going to make it more difficult on yourself if you don't come to terms with you have to listen to God and go the way that He says go.....Nobody is guaranteed that the person they marry is going to be perfect and that relationship won't end at some point.
Your relationship with God is more important. Otherwise, you're more than likely going to go from relationship to relationship trying to find something you only find in God. Getting deeper and deeper in debt and depression.
Software
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All this ho shaming shyt got these chicks finding Jesus and tryna reawaken themselves spiritually. Through sexual abstinence until marriage and changing themselves to seem like God fearing non promiscuous women.
