One man's fat is another man's thick.
Many Asian men think someone like Meg the stallion is fat because they like their women shapeless and childlike
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when they see a woman built like Bryce Dallas Howard or Christina Hendricks while others hit the
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Obesity is something that is generally disliked, especially if the woman is shapeless AND big like lizzo or Adele in 2014.
Men simply have to have the same energy towards husky women that women do towards men. I had a homeboy who struggled with women until he started getting into basketball. He lost weight and as though a switch was flipped, the same women that would curve him with zero hesitation were ready to do whatever whenever.
They have more stringent standards because they understand that single men are a dime a dozen. Men are more lax because the pressure on dating is pretty much all on men, so if you've suffered 20 rejections and one yes, you'll shrug it off and take what you can get because women don't need game, they don't need a good mouthpiece, they can just sit there and a dude will approach.
Can you imagine men complaining about street harassment? Imagine getting so much attention from the opposite sex that it actually becomes a PROBLEM