Man puts hands and feet on his daughter’s boyfriend for being in her room in the bed with her. Drama ensues. Right or wrong?

Scustin Bieburr

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I need more context.

Did the son force himself on his daughter? If so, then yes i completely understand him getting violent.

But what should have happened afterwards is a call to the police and his parents.

Were they having CONSENSUAL relations? Then he should have called the parents and told them he's not welcome in his house anymore.

Hitting someone's son doesn't erase the fact that he gave his daughter such little fatherly guidance that she sought attention from boys and felt bold enough to get sexual with a male in his house while he's home.

If he'd seriously harmed or killed the boy, then what? He puts his family in financial jeopardy paying for a lawyer and potentially gets a criminal record, loses his job and possibly his freedom?

Who will his daughter then go to when she needs comfort from the shytshow that his violence led to? EXACTLY.

You need to really, TRULY know yourself before you have children. You need to know how you react under pressure, how easy or hard it is for your emotions to take over in a situation. You need to know how your spouse would react in certain situations too so well that you can seem to be a mind reader. You both need to have the time and patience to recognize the behaviors you have that your children may have inherited.

The same impulsive nature that had him immediately start swinging on this teenager is the same impulsive nature his daughter inherited that allowed her to just say "fukk it" and let her emotions take over when in the same room as her boyfriend. If you aren't a calm, logical person, for the love of yourself and society, use a condom, get your girl an IUD and do not reproduce. Find your fulfilment by giving back to charity, volunteering at a spiritual organization or going into local politics. Don't have children. This isn't like going to Venice on some "I wanna experience it before it's too late" parenthood is a 24/7 job that requires you to be your best self damn near all the time. If you can't do that, step back and let those who can cook.

There are too many jails. There are too many victims of the "justice" system. There are too many crashouts of all ages. It needs to stop. Not everyone is built to raise an adult and that is OKAY. There's no shame in making your money and minding your business. You won't die if you don't go raw until a woman is pregnant.

Like look at this shyt right here suggested right after I made this post:



ENOUGH.
 

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Boundaries are set. Young man overstepped the boundary. Consequences ensued.
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Today's children are shielded from consequences. If he were my child, a discussion with Dad would happen. I would verify, my son was told not to go in the room. I would verify the daughter understood the boundary as well. If all parties are on the same page, my son learned a lesson. He and I would discuss what happened and how to move forward.
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The daughter's father and I would have a discussion off to the side. He will not put hands on my child ever again. I am the person to dispense punishment. He calls me first and I reprimand my child. Don't do it again.
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This is the logical solution. This is how MEN would handle it. And since we'd be dealing with a YOUNG MAN. It's important that he see MEN handle shyt in such a manner.
 

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I'm late to the thread, but it's his daughter's responsibility to respect the rules to the house
 

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He should have slapped her too, you already see the boy soft he aint gonna do nothing. Ol little “thats him over there” type nikka

Facts.

She’s trying to get it in at the expense of her dad’s rules and he was well within his rights to TKO both of them.

The son is a bītch for getting his momma involved and the momma can’t be at someone’s house raising her voice and putting hands in anyone’s face. For that alone she should’ve gotten laid out.
 

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Young dude crossed a clear boundary and got handled.

He didn’t get punched out ,shot at or kicked .,,just removed .

If yall don’t get outta here with this soft shyt yall on.

This coddling of young men is why we got so much bullshyt going on out here now .. you either learn how to respect boundaries as a kid or you get punished for not respecting them as a man ..

Dude got taught a lesson that hopefully he learns from.

Mom crazy as hell.

You nikkas that don’t deal with kids/teens say some of the goofiest shyt. This isn’t an episode of Step by Step.
 

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You don't put your hands on other people's kids, period!
fukk that, my Uncle beat the fukk out of his daughters boyfriend after he gave her a black eye, busted lip, and bruised ribs from kicking.

And the boyfriends dad didn't do shyt cuz he would have gotten buried
 

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Breh better be lucky he didn’t get killed…


The daughter wanted some dikk being a hussy and Dad wasn’t going for it.

Homeboy better leave and cut ties with her, not before calling Dad and getting his cousins up there. You ain’t hitting my child.


Dad should have called the guys Dad up there if it was a issue
 

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How did that lil ass man beat bruh up? When i that kid's age, i would have body slammed that old man
 

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SHE invited him there. U dumb nikkas gonna catch a case and she gonna be out there fukkin the nikka next week. Smh.
Would u nikkas be cool with the mother of a son beating the shyt out of or killing an underage girl he invited into their house?
You sound dumb as fukk, basically calling your daughter a whore and doing nothing about it.

And yes, if my child was doing something wrong then they’re wrong. Doesn’t matter where or who invited who. Wrong is wrong.

You sound like a coward frankly. Talking bout catching cases for protecting my daughter. I’d gladly do that to protect my child.
 

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Anybody can get touched. Anybody can get caught slipping. Never said I'm fighting fair. All I'm saying is that in that scenario, he would end up in the hospital. Understand what you want from that.

Oh so you're just gonna wound him with your pistol or a brick then calmly walk back to your car and go home to prepare for dinner.. because your son got caught in his house trying to smash his little girl...

Again, respectfully you're an idiot
 

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Oh so you're just gonna wound him with your pistol or a brick then calmly walk back to your car and go home to prepare for dinner.. because your son got caught in his house trying to smash his little girl...

Again, respectfully you're an idiot
I'm not saying what i would or wouldn't do.

Also, it's not because my son tried to smash his teenage daughter. It's because he assaulted my teenage son after he did something consensual with his teenage daughter.
 
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