*after Clark saves a bunch of kids on a school bus from drowning / he's obviously been chastised by his father*
Clark: What was I supposed to do? Let them die?
Pa Kent: ....Maybe.
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Clark: My father said that the world would never accept me.
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Yes, I'm going by the trailers, but all signs strongly point to Pa telling Clark that he should keep his gifts on the down low. Pa Kent is supposed to inspire hope in Clark that he can do good with his powers and he was brought here for a reason. Not tell him to hide his powers and conceal them from the world. You can change Jimmy's gender, but you can't change that. Jor-El tells Kal-El that humans have the capacity for good and the Kents show Clark this and inspire him to do good.
If it aint broke don't fix it.
Also, you're telling me that kryptonite has been used to much yet you're okay with the villains? Out of the vast array of Superman villains who have not been used in live action film yet (Darkseid, Brainiac, Doomsday, Parasite, Metallo, Toyman, etc.) they're bringing back General Zod and
AGAIN?!?!?
Nolan had next to nothing to do with this movie once the screenwriting process/filming got underway. The only things that we know for sure that did he was pitch Goyer's very basic story outline/idea to WB and he helped hire a director. That's all that he did. Warner Bros basically just wanted to put "FROM PRODUCER CHRISTOPHER NOLAN (DIRECTOR OF TDK TRILOGY)" on the trailers so it would catch people's interest because Supe's stock is low after that disappointing Superman Returns movie.