Males With High Bodycounts Are More Likely To Cheat &/Or Have Failed Monog Relationships

[Giselle]

Also women not gone read this but...

If y'all want men with low body counts stop judging men on their size and ability when it comes to sex......

Y'all say one thing yet y'all actions dictate another....

Size has nothing to do with being promiscuous and it doesn't take hundreds of women to learn how to please. You can learn by trying multiple times with 1 person, especially if they are more experienced/older than you.

Such a skewed perspective, were you cheated on before? No one is perfect and you'll need to compromise at some point.

You don't have to be perfect to CHOSE to be respectful and have self control. You don't have to be perfect to not cheat.

If you want a chaste and upright breh, go to a Bible Study, otherwise any decent dude that can game/court you can easily finesse other ladies too.

There are non super religious males who don't cheat. Just bc you are beneath them doesn't mean that they don't exist. It doesn't matter if he can get other women, if he agreed to be monogamous, he should honor his word and make the choice not to get with them.

"All cheaters are bad" is flawed logic and monogamy isn't natural anyway, it is just an artificial and societal construct used to demonize men....

I hope you feel this same way when it comes to women cheating on you and other males. You sound mentally/emotionally ill. How was your childhood? How was your parent's relationship? Maybe you should speak with a therapist.

Please, if Tank, Chris Brown, or Drake, pulled up on her the cervix is there for the taking....

You must have listed those males because they are desirable to you.None of those males you listed are desirable to ME. Chris Brown is an abusive drug addict, Tank is old and ugly, and Drake is ugly, corny and a disgusting slore. I don't want any of them.I guess you don't know what is desirable to women or you ignorantly assume that all women like/want the same thing, which is why my opinion is so shocking to you.

 

[Eddie_1100]

I think the statement in the OP is unnecessarily redundant.

 

[Giselle]

I think the statement in the OP is unnecessarily redundant.

How when not all monogamous relationships fail bc of cheating? Sometimes people dump others without cheating bc they want to sleep around again or for whatever other reason.

 

[Afro]

Lmao @ the title change


Lol nah it was a really emotional conversation where she was like "I feel like I should tell you that I've been with a few guys."

And I was like fukk She finna tell me she fukked all my breaux

And she said "4 different guys" and we was both but then I was like wait Four???



shyt I been with 5 you good baby girl

Well damn, you need to keep that one.

 

[Afro]

@InquisitiveHeaux

Livin up to her name

I have a low body count so

But the females I've met with high double digits were usually the untrustworthy ones so take that as you will.

If you do some digging you'll find some research that suggests (in Women's cases) that the more partners a female has, the harder it is for her to bond with someone.

In terms of Men, It'll usually comes down to a lack of self-control/empathy towards their mate from what I've seen. Some argue that is biological but I dunno. I like just dealing with one woman at a time myself.

My two cents

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I agree. I feel the same about women too.

At a certain point it becomes less about a clean, clear cut pursuit of physical pleasure and more about exorcising some serious demons thru the act.

A lot of people outchea ain't fukking just for pleasure. Men are trying to degrade women out of frustration. Women trying to act like they "using" men. People fukking to see if they can get it in. Trying to fukk away pain, loneliness, hopelessness. They fukkin for attention. Money. Revenge. A sense of belonging.

Bodies add to ur baggage and if u gotta lot by the time u get to someone u actually want...it can be a problem.

And even worse if u fukking and feel absolutely nothing. U got zombie dikk or zombie p*ssy. It makes it hard to transition to actually genuinely caring about someone in a long-term relationship.

 

[NinoBrown]

You don't have to be perfect to CHOSE to be respectful and have self control. You don't have to be perfect to not cheat.

There are non super religious males who don't cheat. Just bc you are beneath them doesn't mean that they don't exist. It doesn't matter if he can get other women, if he agreed to be monogamous, he should honor his word and make the choice not to get with them.

I hope you feel this same way when it comes to women cheating on you and other males. You sound mentally/emotionally ill. How was your childhood? How was your parent's relationship? Maybe you should speak with a therapist.

You must have listed those males because they are desirable to you.None of those males you listed are desirable to ME. Chris Brown is an abusive drug addict, Tank is old and ugly, and Drake is ugly, corny and a disgusting slore. I don't want any of them.I guess you don't know what is desirable to women or you ignorantly assume that all women like/want the same thing, which is why my opinion is so shocking to you.

Wow, you have the nerve to call me mentally ill? Your perspective on relationships and the human condition is so unbelievably sheltered, I feel pity for you OR your troll game is 1000%...

A relationship is a risk and unless you hook dude up to a polygraph and ask him about his body count, he may never be honest.

It's very clear someone dogged you out and you are taking it out on men. Don't get to neurotic about this or you'll be 30+ with no man or kids.....

 

[RoGethoes]

Anyone with a high body count ain't long-term relationship/marriage material,male or female.If a dude has 168 bodies before he met you...you think he going to stop at 169 with you?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Well, I am a woman and I care. I think more women should care about a male's sexual history/present too. A person's bodycount can be very telling.



I expect men to lie higher and women to lie lower.

Kinda sounds like you did it for your own feelings though, not hers.

It's good to hear you're not a hoe though.

finally a woman with some sense....

most just argue that it shouldnt matter....

trust me....it does matter...a lot

 

[Eddie_1100]

How when not all monogamous relationships fail bc of cheating? Sometimes people dump others without cheating bc they want to sleep around again or for whatever other reason.

I interpret the OP as " guys that are able to get a lot of ass (for whatever reason), get a lot of ass. Wether they're in a monogamous relationship or not" it's not complicated.

 

[MarcMan]

My guess would be that a higher 'body count' would positively correlate with rates of infidelity.

But, and this is important, an absolute number of sexual partners doesn't tell you much about whether a man is a 'hoe' so to speak like it does a woman. Please just humor me with a brief thought experiment.

Let's say we have two men, Guy A and Guy B, who are identical in virtually every way. Looks, car, height, sexual aggression, etc. all the same. The sole difference being that B is significantly funnier than A. Now let's further assume that up until the age of 30, they both have the exact same encounters with women, go out to the exact same places at the exact same time, so on and so forth. Now when they reach the age of 30, person A has had sex with 10 partners while Person B has had sex with 40 people. Now remember, they have the exact same sexual tendencies, but in this case, Guy B's disarming comicality has led him to be more sexually successful. Is Guy B more of a hoe than guy A? We know that Guy A would have done what guy B did given the opportunity. If they're both hoes equally, then how can we say number of partners alone gives us the information we need to determine how much of a hoe he is?

The fact that there are 2 limiting variables for men, desire and opportunity, with the latter being largely out of the male's control, we can't conclude how much of a hoe a man is with a body count alone.

Now we may be tempted to flip our thought experiment around and say, "well, shouldn't that same nuance be applicable for women?". That may seem intuitive but if we use the same standard of sexual success (number of partners) we get much different results. Putting aside the truly grotesque, women can have as many novel partners about as often as they are physically able. We can control for humor, money, looks for 99% of women and the results would be the same. We can safely disregard the variable of opportunity and what's left is the woman's desire to have sex. Essentially, her body count is much more likely to be indicative of how high a bar she sets to have sex with a new person.

 

[Greenhornet]

Usually its just men and women with little to no value fukking eachother up

poisoning the water ... then they settle down after they destroyed everything around us

Then you're left with all of these trashy broken down over used people who are resentful, judgmental and not worth shyt anymore

 

[Eddie_1100]

Usually its just men and women with little to no value fukking eachother up

poisoning the water ... then they settle down after they destroyed everything around us

Then you're left with all of these trashy broken down over used people who are resentful, judgmental and not worth shyt anymore

Look at you so young and full of life

 

[skeetsinternal]

What do you think about the statement in op? Do you agree/disagree? Why/whynot?


Background questions: What is your real body count and what is your age?Are you/were you a cheater?
Has a woman ever asked you about your body count?Were you honest about it? why/why not?
If you lied, did you lie higher or lower than the actual number? Why?

>1000+ body count I stopped counting years ago after losing my excel spreadsheet . Thinks the statements are judgemental. I'm a cheater/was a cheater/cheated. At the time I was forthcoming and told my true body count which was around 400+, big mistake because the person grew insecure and did not have confidence in her p*ssy or sexual skills. I later lied when asked in another relationship but even a low number brought out insecurities. I never ask a woman because they are prone to lie. It's dudes with full blown hoes but will never know. A chic I know got an engagement ring from her man new year's eve, this same chic I fukked new years day. She just happen to have been someone I been fukking since she was 18 and now 27-28. She been put on backpage for duration of her college years and had multiple dikks but only I know this but her fiance don't know. At the end of the day it takes a special type of person to handle any information on body counts. Women may be able to deal with high body counts better than men

#gyalfibreed

 

[Greenhornet]

Look at you so young and full of life

What's your angle informative one
I've never seen body count actually be a good thing that would matter
I agree somewhat with that it makes women look worse and works more towards men

But what nobody brings up is, I wouldnt want to be with an indecisive man or someone that insecure if I were a woman
opposite of the same coin, I wouldnt want to be with a woman who could have given life to numerous amounts of aint shyt men either

I knew earlier on but it didn't hit me until way later because things never change
That most people are extremely primal and average. Even with what we can learn and accomplish
most of the population is extremely predictable and basic. We have everything we need and people still fight
like its survival of the fittest, which they are given credit for. When, from a realistic standpoint, the people
who are trying their hardest to survive are always the weakest.