Male perspective needed

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Would you ever bring up another girl if chatting to a girl you're interested in?

So would you say a "friend of mine who is a smart young lady...that I'll be meeting up with soon". It's for an opportunity that he thinks I might be interested in and he is offering to introduce us but I'm not sure how to take it. Is this a polite brush off or am I reading too much into it?

It's a sensitive situation and neither of us has come out and said anything. I'm curious about him. He just said he wants to introduce me to his smart, young female friend that he's meeting up with.... what's up with that

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I think your reading too much into this.. Maybe he sees it as an opportunity for yall to build together

Or maybe he's trying to get that 3some popping

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Would you prefer he hide the fact that you arent the only woman he interacts with (where it seems platonic) or would rather catch on later and proceed to stress/snoop/act a fool about nothing?

Read too much into things, brehette

 

[the artist known az]

It's probably one of those pyramid type things like Amway or Avon. I've had 2-3 people try to talk me into something like that & they use words like that

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

So I'm reading too much....okay. It would be unreasonable to expect that he doesn't have any female friends. Makes sense I guess as long as it's not weird guy code that I'm not picking up on

It's probably one of those pyramid type things like Amway or Avon. I've had 2-3 people try to talk me into something like that & they use words like that

No not at all. I know what the opportunity is and quite cool. I think I might even like this girl just from the kind of work

 

[the artist known az]

So I'm reading too much....okay. It would be unreasonable to expect that he doesn't have any female friends. Makes sense I guess as long as it's not weird guy code that I'm not picking up on



No not at all. I know what the opportunity is and quite cool. I think I might even like this girl just from the kind of work

Well you're looking too much into it

 

[2CT]

nikka just tryna arrange a little ménage a trois

 

[Dr. Narcisse]

 

[The Mad Titan]

If your not an official couple, your reading way to much into this.....even if you were you'd still be reading way to much into this.


So yeah.... your reading way to much into this

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I don't know if a girl would naturally bring up another guy when talking to someone she might be in to which is why I ask I guess.

I suppose if he were politely trying to end the possibility he could have referred to her as the girl he's seeing or maybe he's showing me his options or maybe he's trying to create a followup item that we could catchup on without it seeming weird considering our sensitive situation.

Or maybe he just had a light bulb moment during our conversation and wasn't thinking beyond that. But it's hard to accept a human being doing something for no other reason than to be helpful. So maybe that's it? He's showing he is connected and is a nice guy


Ps guys welcome to the female brain

Ladies have I give too far this is embarrassing. I'm too grown up to obsess over hidden meaning. My psychology hat has to come off

 

[Taadow]

Would you ever bring up another girl if chatting to a girl you're interested in?

Yeah...if it had something to do with what I was talkin' about.

I don't know if a girl would naturally bring up another guy when talking to someone she might be in to which is why I ask I guess.

lol, sure they would...

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

what? u think too much

 

[The ADD]

I don't know if a girl would naturally bring up another guy when talking to someone she might be in to which is why I ask I guess.

I suppose if he were politely trying to end the possibility he could have referred to her as the girl he's seeing or maybe he's showing me his options or maybe he's trying to create a followup item that we could catchup on without it seeming weird considering our sensitive situation.

Or maybe he just had a light bulb moment during our conversation and wasn't thinking beyond that. But it's hard to accept a human being doing something for no other reason than to be helpful. So maybe that's it? He's showing he is connected and is a nice guy


Ps guys welcome to the female brain

Ladies have I give too far this is embarrassing. I'm too grown up to obsess over hidden meaning. My psychology hat has to come off

If you aren't officially together it really doesn't matter. It could be a number of things but if you and him aren't together it gives him air space to say what he said.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Ask him directly, that's how you'll get the quickest answer whether he tells the truth or not.

And as for your question, no I would not bring up other women to a chick I'm feeling in an attempt to make her jealous, let her know I have other options etc.

Ain't about playing games outchea.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I don't know if a girl would naturally bring up another guy when talking to someone she might be in to which is why I ask I guess.

I suppose if he were politely trying to end the possibility he could have referred to her as the girl he's seeing or maybe he's showing me his options or maybe he's trying to create a followup item that we could catchup on without it seeming weird considering our sensitive situation.

Or maybe he just had a light bulb moment during our conversation and wasn't thinking beyond that. But it's hard to accept a human being doing something for no other reason than to be helpful. So maybe that's it? He's showing he is connected and is a nice guy


Ps guys welcome to the female brain

Ladies have I give too far this is embarrassing. I'm too grown up to obsess over hidden meaning. My psychology hat has to come off

I use to date a guy who would get his panties in a bunch if I mentioned other guys. shyt was stupid. Don't be that kinda partner.