:Thisnikka:
A cap? You're damaging your scalp with that nonsense, your skin needs to breathe what you think happens when you have a damn cap on your head 24/7 with no ventilation and sweat build up
You think that isn't in some way damaging the scalp, if you put a tarp on some soil you'll damage it, same shyt happens to your head. But hey, the natural elements that your body has evolved to handle are apparently too much, therefore caps & gluing shyt to your head like you're a science project are a much better alternative
I love black women, I have never dated or fukked with a chick that wasn't either Latina or Black. And the Latinas were almost all Afro-latinas at that, my ex who I actually loved despite her hair hat used all of these same excuses you're trying to run on me. And the end it's really because she's self conscious about her hair, which is why I only saw her with her hair down maybe twice. She turned into a master spy and vanished when it was time to take the braids or weave out and rocked a scarf like she was battling cancer.
I will NEVER be with a woman again that wears weave or braids, I'll just assume you're insecure about what you're born with
AND ALL KINDS OF shyt BE IN BEACH/RESORT WATER
when any chick I fukk with has a cap, I'll know I'm in my 80s. And therein lies the problem, you're defending something you don't even do. You're defending shytty practices just because you think it's an attack on black women, when it's more of an attack on insecurity and the silly mindset of gluing shyt onto your head, attaching streamers to your head, or weaving in hair that isn't your own. It's frustrating as hell to be with a woman that refuses to give up on that. 
