Lust or falling in love?

beck

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ok, i'm in a pickle brehs...i have this girl i've been kicking with since february not something official just casual sex, night outs with my friends and her friends etc...she knows i had other girls, and i think she was getting down as well....but since june, things have started to narrow down: me, less to no girls, except her; her as well (at least i hope i'm not sharing)

now here is the pickle: it really was a care free, easy going relation with her, no calls, just texts etc... but mid july i took a vacation, and went out of country to some friends of mine; all of a sudden she starts calling me, asking me stuff about hows life, family and all that other shyt....and between calls all i can think of is how i cant wait to come back to ravage her inner sugar walls...and all this while i am with my friends going out, drinking, having fun, and kicking it with 2 other girls as well...., but it was like i was on autopilot....my friends noticed and started questioning me...

now mind you, i've never been in a serious relationship, or in love and all that shyt, so help me out : is it just lust, me wanting to fukk the shyt out of this chick (the fukking is some of the greatest i've ever had) or am i starting to fall for this chick? no homo to all this shyt btw
 

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If you like her looking past the sex, she has a chance. She digs you, but seems you need to look at her seriously as someone to be with. I'd say just let it play out if you dig her like that and see potential. Don't make snap decisions.

You can only gain, unless she turns crazy. She's on the gas, you pump the breaks.
 

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Seems you like her...get to know her tho outside of sex....you may figure out you may not dig her...
 

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It's lust you proved it when you said that you couldn't wait to feel her walls... you said nothing about missing her

Pretty much. You made it obvious it was lust dude..

OP Is she fine though? What does she look like?
 

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Whenever you have to ask yourself this question, jack off and immediately afterwards ask yourself how bad you actually wanna see her, then you'll see how much you actually give a fukk about her
This is real shyt, post nut clarity will keep you from fukking your life up
 

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Whenever you have to ask yourself this question, jack off and immediately afterwards ask yourself how bad you actually wanna see her, then you'll see how much you actually give a fukk about her
OP need to read this and ingrain this into his brain, and follow this advice after every important life decision and female decision
 

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Whenever you have to ask yourself this question, jack off and immediately afterwards ask yourself how bad you actually wanna see her, then you'll see how much you actually give a fukk about her

Truer words have never been spoken. So many regrets and clear thoughts pour into your head.
 

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Fall in love with her man, don't try to stop natural feelings.
 
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