80k. Ok, Kool.
She can desire to have whatever she wants, the question comes into play, why hasn't she gotten it and kept it. She's not an ugly lady.
What money do you think she was/is hiding? I'm not making any excuses for breh, but we are not going to paint Virginia out to be some innocent angel in this situation. She can pay for some meals, she can also cook. Not a fan of "all" but her ass can pay and contribute.
No harm with what you want. Most women make less than 50k or if they do make 50k, their credit score needs improving or most of all, their debt to income ratio is not good. Their debt is way up to their eyeballs. Consumer debt and school debt be the biggest setbacks. Virginia looks like she has debt up to her eyeballs and I could be wrong.
I just think when women, men too, can be too picky. You want what you want but can you get it and keep it is the biggest thing that nobody likes to say out loud to themselves.
Also you have to remember virginia is 34 and devin is 29. She's had 5 more years to pay off student loan debt or get a better job etc.
That's why the whole comparison thing between them to me is stupid. Virginia a old woman entering mid life (35) Heck I'm turning 40 this year and my wife is turning 32.
a 35 year old virginia will even be there in 10-15 years from now for devin