Long post: So I really like this woman a lot but

[DJSmooth]

Mf fell in love with a whore

I stopped reading blah blah blah.

Please treat a hoe like a hoe that's what her ex did. That's why she was with him.

I understand hoes are fun to hang out with but that's the furthest it should go.

 

[Blown Moon]

What Eiffel towered

Look at the Eddiel tower and think about, breh.

If a woman not named your wife allows you to record her you should walk away from that relationship now.

It's 2024, breh. I'd bet that the majority of women have sex tapes with boyfriends and many have tapes with casual dudes.

This nïgga actually takin her seriously

I'm old and tired of the field, she's pretty, smart, and honest. Our personalities fit well. Maybe I'm on some sucka shyt for considering this but that's where I'm at in life. In two years I'll be 40 and she'll be 30 and we're both trying to have a family and do lame shyt like family camping trips and shyt.

 

[Jasonmask]

Do you say “fukk no” because of the gangbangs in particular or the sex tapes and why?

I have smashed a lot of women so I’ve been with similar women in the past so I’ll try to make this post as short as possible. Had an Indian white hybrid girl when I was 21 that was into 3somes and we had one but she wasn’t a faithful partner. I was doing my own thing too but she was damn there doing freak offs behind my back it was long distance relationship and I was dogging tf out her so it is what it is. She said she stayed with me long enough because of how good I am at sex. Fast forward to last year I had a Pawg ass ho pull up on me and this was during my coke and hookers phase but as soon as I got locked in on smashing she immediately wanted me to videotape it but I don’t need to do all that. How that pertains to you is if you smashing right you can do whatever the hell you want in the relationship dikkmatizing is a real thing I’ve done it a lot of times so you might not be hitting it like the prior guys were so you don’t get the VIP treatment. Also a lot of girls who just have a high body count are less capable of caring for you. Yeah they’re fun and less judgmental but I’m sure there’s better options if we as men shop around. Just my two cents

 

[Sir Richard Spirit]

It's 2024, breh. I'd bet that the majority of women have sex tapes with boyfriends and many have tapes with casual dudes.

I bet the majority don’t.

 

[Duke Dixon]

Date a broad that got a featured page on Shesfreaky dot com



If that joke bothers you then don't do it. If you end up taking her seriously you need to be prepared for someone you know showing you, and the rest for your circle her history. You need to be prepared for friends sharing videos on their group chat.

You also have to be prepared for her to cheat on you in the future. It probably will just be physical.
If you're into the same lifestyle as her and don't mind more power to you

 

[NoMorePie]

This sounds like a really complex situation, and it’s understandable why you’d feel so conflicted. It’s a lot to process when someone shares such a detailed and intense past, especially when it’s so different from what you might have expected or experienced yourself. Let’s break down a few key points that might help you gain more clarity.

1. Her Honesty and Transparency
You’re right to value her honesty. That’s a big thing, and it’s rare. Her willingness to be upfront shows she respects you enough to give you the choice and doesn’t want to build a relationship on secrets. Trust and honesty are some of the most important foundations in a relationship, so you’re already starting with something meaningful.


2. The Mask Issue and Her Boundaries
Her insistence on using a mask while filming unless you’re married seems tied to her professional and personal security. She clearly fears potential exposure, especially with the unique circumstances of her job. While it may feel like a slight that she’s limiting this level of intimacy with you, it's worth considering how strongly her career and reputation might weigh on her mind. Her setting this boundary isn’t about you but rather about protecting herself from another long-term consequence, which seems reasonable given her past experiences.


3. Differences in Options Between You and Her Ex
It’s understandable that you’d be concerned about the fact that some things she did with her ex aren’t on the table with you. There’s no denying it can feel off to know that certain experiences are closed for you, even if they’re ones you wouldn’t necessarily pursue. You’re right to think deeply about whether this feels fair and fulfilling to you in the long run.


4. Boundaries Around Threesomes and Fidelity
She’s offering some openness here—threesomes, and even escort visits under specific conditions. But she has strong feelings around where those boundaries lie. These rules may seem complex, but they’re likely there to protect the relationship and her comfort level.


5. Her Past vs. Your Relationship's Future
Ultimately, her past might only become an issue if it doesn’t align with what you’re looking for in a partner. Her honesty, openness to exploration with you, and care for her boundaries all point to a mature approach. Still, if her past makes you uncomfortable or you feel you need certain assurances that she can’t offer, that’s okay too. Relationships only work when both people are comfortable, respected, and willing to make sacrifices that feel fair on both sides.


6. Listening to Your Gut
Think about how this relationship makes you feel at its core. Her past is part of her, but it’s not all of her. Does she make you feel respected, safe, and cared for in other ways? Is her commitment something that feels steady, or are these complexities unsettling to the point where they affect your peace? It’s okay if this is a lot to take in and decide on—big relationships sometimes involve tough calls.



If you choose to move forward, it’ll likely require some compromise and openness on both sides. If you decide that it’s just not something you’re ready for, be honest with yourself and her, knowing you did your best to weigh things fairly. Either way, remember that any decision should prioritize your well-being and what you both tru
ly want in a relationship.

 

[skyrunner1]

She think you a shade tree breh, are you a rest haven for hoes?

 

[Blown Moon]

Is she white? What race is her estranged husband?

She's half white. She looks like a slightly older version of this girl.



Who she found because of all the facial recognition searches she does.

And no need to search, she doesn't follow her nor does any of her shyt pop up online on any of the face scan sites.

How you gonna look at her knowing she been smutted out????



​

I look at her the same as other women. There are no virginal saintly women walking around in 2024. She let her ex slut her out on cam but he wasn't a random. Outside of the ex’s friend she's says she only had 2 other random hook up. One on a girls trip to Paris and once in Miami. I actually believe her because of how honest she's been about everything else. 3 randoms 1 fukk buddy and 4 boyfriends are respectable numbers for a 28 year old these days. I promise you most women have more than 8 bodies older and younger than her.

 

[Bathing Ape]

I think you could find better Breh but honestly it don’t sound like you trying to

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

I'm old and tired of the field, she's pretty, smart, and honest. Our personalities fit well. Maybe I'm on some sucka shyt for considering this but that's where I'm at in life. In two years I'll be 40 and she'll be 30 and we're both trying to have a family and do lame shyt like family camping trips and shyt.

I guess bra. I just feel like this:

-She been around the block, visciously.

-I can give a pass on getting around a lil. But she been doin wild ass shít.

-the fact that she cut you off on that “I don’t that anymore, nonsense” is bull. I’m not tryna hear she “learned her lesson”. She knew what she was doin from jump. She just sid it w/ goofies who messed it up for everyone.

-it’s one thing for someone to have footage out there, but the way you described it is like ppl could possibly find her shït, and you don’t want that

-correct me if I’m wrong…but did you say you watched the vids?

 

[The Wolf Among You]

He cheated on her and instead of calling it quits she ran to hop on dikk. That’s a preview of her morals.

 

[Detroit Wave]

Op a weak ass nikka fr negged and ignored

 

[Blown Moon]

I stopped reading blah blah blah.

Please treat a hoe like a hoe that's what her ex did. That's why she was with him.

I understand hoes are fun to hang out with but that's the furthest it should go.

I know the rules but I don't think she's a hoe.

I have smashed a lot of women so I’ve been with similar women in the past so I’ll try to make this post as short as possible. Had an Indian white hybrid girl when I was 21 that was into 3somes and we had one but she wasn’t a faithful partner. I was doing my own thing too but she was damn there doing freak offs behind my back it was long distance relationship and I was dogging tf out her so it is what it is. She said she stayed with me long enough because of how good I am at sex. Fast forward to last year I had a Pawg ass ho pull up on me and this was during my coke and hookers phase but as soon as I got locked in on smashing she immediately wanted me to videotape it but I don’t need to do all that. How that pertains to you is if you smashing right you can do whatever the hell you want in the relationship dikkmatizing is a real thing I’ve done it a lot of times so you might not be hitting it like the prior guys were so you don’t get the VIP treatment. Also a lot of girls who just have a high body count are less capable of caring for you. Yeah they’re fun and less judgmental but I’m sure there’s better options if we as men shop around. Just my two cents

Lol, ok. Thanks for letting me know you think my dikk game is trash.

Date a broad that got a featured page on Shesfreaky dot com



If that joke bothers you then don't do it. If you end up taking her seriously you need to be prepared for someone you know showing you, and the rest for your circle her history. You need to be prepared for friends sharing videos on their group chat.

You also have to be prepared for her to cheat on you in the future. It probably will just be physical.
If you're into the same lifestyle as her and don't mind more power to you

I've had that happen already. I’m prepared.

This sounds like a really complex situation, and it’s understandable why you’d feel so conflicted. It’s a lot to process when someone shares such a detailed and intense past, especially when it’s so different from what you might have expected or experienced yourself. Let’s break down a few key points that might help you gain more clarity.

1. Her Honesty and Transparency
You’re right to value her honesty. That’s a big thing, and it’s rare. Her willingness to be upfront shows she respects you enough to give you the choice and doesn’t want to build a relationship on secrets. Trust and honesty are some of the most important foundations in a relationship, so you’re already starting with something meaningful.


2. The Mask Issue and Her Boundaries
Her insistence on using a mask while filming unless you’re married seems tied to her professional and personal security. She clearly fears potential exposure, especially with the unique circumstances of her job. While it may feel like a slight that she’s limiting this level of intimacy with you, it's worth considering how strongly her career and reputation might weigh on her mind. Her setting this boundary isn’t about you but rather about protecting herself from another long-term consequence, which seems reasonable given her past experiences.


3. Differences in Options Between You and Her Ex
It’s understandable that you’d be concerned about the fact that some things she did with her ex aren’t on the table with you. There’s no denying it can feel off to know that certain experiences are closed for you, even if they’re ones you wouldn’t necessarily pursue. You’re right to think deeply about whether this feels fair and fulfilling to you in the long run.


4. Boundaries Around Threesomes and Fidelity
She’s offering some openness here—threesomes, and even escort visits under specific conditions. But she has strong feelings around where those boundaries lie. These rules may seem complex, but they’re likely there to protect the relationship and her comfort level.


5. Her Past vs. Your Relationship's Future
Ultimately, her past might only become an issue if it doesn’t align with what you’re looking for in a partner. Her honesty, openness to exploration with you, and care for her boundaries all point to a mature approach. Still, if her past makes you uncomfortable or you feel you need certain assurances that she can’t offer, that’s okay too. Relationships only work when both people are comfortable, respected, and willing to make sacrifices that feel fair on both sides.


6. Listening to Your Gut
Think about how this relationship makes you feel at its core. Her past is part of her, but it’s not all of her. Does she make you feel respected, safe, and cared for in other ways? Is her commitment something that feels steady, or are these complexities unsettling to the point where they affect your peace? It’s okay if this is a lot to take in and decide on—big relationships sometimes involve tough calls.



If you choose to move forward, it’ll likely require some compromise and openness on both sides. If you decide that it’s just not something you’re ready for, be honest with yourself and her, knowing you did your best to weigh things fairly. Either way, remember that any decision should prioritize your well-being and what you both tru
ly want in a relationship.

ChatGPT be spittin!

She think you a shade tree breh, are you a rest haven for hoes?

She's not a hoe in my book with 8 bodies.

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

Sounds like she'd be fun for a while, but for life? Don't know about all of that.

 

[Cool DOC]

I wish my friends would seriously entertain me if I came to them with some foolishness like this.