LMAO! Older women bitter bcuz the younger women are out attention-whoring them!!! :flabbynsick:

[aXiom]

I wouldn't say girls don't like older guys, but you are fooling yourself if you think that the average 22 year old is trying to date someone 10 years older. Your freshman/upperclass example is EXACTLY the point that I was making earlier: women date older but typically guys who are still in their age range.

When I was 22, I liked 24-25 year old men. When I was 25, I like 26-30. Now that I'm 28, I go for 28-32 year old guys. My preference was older, but this is still within my age range.

Some of you guys act like we haven't been 21 or 22 before. Most of us were not checking for cat daddies 10 years our senior. When I decided to date one guy way older than me (I was 23 he was 32), all my friends were like

People like to talk in extremes on the coli. Generally speaking women date within a 2-4 year age range. Then you have outliers who love men 10/20 years their senior. Let's not pretend that this isn't true.

The game changed, you didn't. Age is less of a factor than it was a decade ago. If you're in shape good looking and got shyt going for you, you'll attract females regardless of age. 10 years is also from from extreme today. I mean we're living in an age where cougars are a thing and you mofos are stuck on age.

Now you nikkas don't get it twisted, my post was not meant to give you hope, if you're 35-40 stuck in a dead end minimum wage job, it means you fukked up somewhere along the line and you kept fukking up. You need not apply.

 

[Gifted one]

Whether we responded or not, people were going to say we are angry. People are naturally going to refute posts that make generalizations about a group they belong to. That goes for man or woman. Anyone who comes in any thread to counter generalizations is going to be accused of being angry. It happens everyday on the coli.

Think about it, you would probably consider my above response to you as angry simply because I am a woman. Are women not allowed in a discussion about them?

I can understand dropping your 2 cents and going on, but multiple posts through this thread means something isn't adding up, its 6 pages(50 ppp) of women feeling a certain way if they say it doesn't pertain to them. You won't see me arguing with multiple posters about a topic that has no relation to me, I may drop my 2 cents and be out of there and that's it. You won't see me arguing over an issue going on in Australia since it doesn't have nothing to do with me. So like I said, if you are an older woman and feel the need to not be bitter, then why contribute multiple posts? Something doesn't seem right and there may be bitterness

 

[KenyaDoll]

Internet womenz, breh. ALWAYS the exception

Can you answer the question I posed. Is dating someone 10+ years herr senior the norm or is that the exception?

Women dating someone within a 2-4 year age range, is that the norm or the exception?

That's all I want to know. Someone please answer me.

 

[KenyaDoll]

The game changed, you didn't. Age is less of a factor than it was a decade ago. If you're in shape good looking and got shyt going for you, you'll attract females regardless of age. 10 years is also from from extreme today. I mean we're living in an age where cougars are a thing and you mofos are stuck on age.

Now you nikkas don't get it twisted, my post was not meant to give you hope, if you're 35-40 stuck in a dead end minimum wage job, it means you fukked up somewhere along the line and you kept fukking up. You need not apply.

I guess we can agree to disagree because in my experience (having been a woman that age) and as someone who currently teaches undergrads, people generally date within their age range. Maybe something different happens in the real world (non college environments); however, dating someone 10+ years older has (in my experience) always been the exception, not the norm.

 

[KenyaDoll]

I can understand dropping your 2 cents and going on, but multiple posts through this thread means something isn't adding up, its 6 pages(50 ppp) of women feeling a certain way if they say it doesn't pertain to them. You won't see me arguing with multiple posters about a topic that has no relation to me, I may drop my 2 cents and be out of there and that's it. You won't see me arguing over an issue going on in Australia since it doesn't have nothing to do with me. So like I said, if you are an older woman and feel the need to not be bitter, then why contribute multiple posts? Something doesn't seem right and there may be bitterness

I have a question about that. If you were really reading, you would notice that women generally came in to drop their 2 cents (it's a forum so that should be allowed), but then they get quoted. Sometimes they are quoted to clarify or continue the discussion in a civil way and some times they are quoted to be attacked (like recinar did to someone). If you're quoted, should you not respond? So responding more than once or twice is anger on the part of the women?

Are the men who are personally attacking the women in this thread angry?

 

[aXiom]

I guess we can agree to disagree because in my experience (having been a woman that age) and as someone who currently teaches undergrads, people generally date within their age range. Maybe something different happens in the real world (non college environments); however, dating someone 10+ years older has (in my experience) always been the exception, not the norm.

Don't get me wrong, i'm not saying it's the norm, far from. People are gonna date within their circles which would mostly contain people that are of the same age group and/or share similar interests. I'm just saying that right now age[to an extent] in basically a non factor in the dating game.

 

[Gifted one]

I have a question about that. If you were really reading, you would notice that women generally came in to drop their 2 cents (it's a forum so that should be allowed), but then they get quoted. Sometimes they are quoted to clarify or continue the discussion and some times they are quoted to be attacked (like recinar did to someone). If you're quoted, should you not respond? So responding more than once or twice is anger on the part of the women?

Are the men who are personally attacking the women in this thread angry?

I think you're missing my point and that it's going over your head, I never said you or any woman are not allowed in the thread, you can feel free to enter the thread all you want, who am I to stop you, just saying to you and the older women who feel as if you're all the exception to the rule, why waste your energy going to war over something that doesn't bother you. Like stated before, you won't see me in a thread arguing over and over about something going on in Australia because it has no relation to me. Either way, you and everyone else will continue to argue and bicker back and forth, go ahead and cook brehette

 

[KenyaDoll]

Don't get me wrong, i'm not saying it's the norm, far from. People are gonna date within their circles which would mostly contain people that are of the same age group and/or share similar interests. I'm just saying that right now age[to an extent] in basically a non factor in the dating game.

And that was my only point...to discuss the norm versus the exception. The whole premise of this thread is that women over a certain age can't compete with women 5-10 years their junior when in reality those women aren't generally competing for the same men (which means there is no competition).

I know I'll come across as bitter or lying for saying this, but the college students (18-22) that I teach (generally) aren't attracting or interested in the same guys (nor are the same guys interested in us). My only point was to highlight a flaw in logic that is perpetuated in this thread.

 

[Kings County]

the one in the white dress on the left
and the one with the white bow on her head could get the pipe

 

[KenyaDoll]

I think you're missing my point and that it's going over your head, I never said you or any woman are not allowed in the thread, you can feel free to enter the thread all you want, who am I to stop you, just saying to you and the older women who feel as if you're all the exception to the rule, why waste your energy going to war over something that doesn't bother you. Like stated before, you won't see me in a thread arguing over and over about something going on in Australia because it has no relation to me. Either way, you and everyone else will continue to argue and bicker back and forth, go ahead and cook brehette

You didn't say anything profound enough to go over my head so idk why you said that.

In regard to the bolded, you and I are different types of people (I talk about things whether they pertain to me, my community, or my culture). I come to message board to talk about multiple topics (but hey we call come for different things). People can find me in multiple thread on multiple threads correcting generalizations (whether they be about black women, age, hair, education, men, and etc.). I personally and professionally (as an academic researcher) think unfounded generalizations are kind of stupid so I come in to correct them. It's my thing...it's just not yours

 

[aXiom]

And that was my only point...to discuss the norm versus the exception. The whole premise of this thread is that women over a certain age can't compete with women 5-10 years their junior when in reality those women aren't generally competing for the same men (which means there is no competition).

I know I'll come across as bitter or lying for saying this, but the college students (18-22) that I teach (generally) aren't attracting or interested in the same guys (nor are the same guys interested in us). My only point was to highlight a flaw in logic that is perpetuated in this thread.

This thread is basically saying that a 30y/o dude can go out a pull/snatch up 20-22y/o females without issue. The only downside is that their heads may not be screwed on as tight, but when you do find one with her shyt together there's no reason to mess with chicks your age. And be honest, females do get in their feelings when dudes that could be potential mates go after younger chicks without giving them a second look, but understand that p*ssy ages like bread, not wine.

 

[Dman414]

I messed around with a 19 year old chick a few weeks ago.

Did I lose?

I smashed a 21 one year old last week and I'm in my 30s. They say I look 23 so I not sure if that helps or not

 

[StickStickly]

And that was my only point...to discuss the norm versus the exception. The whole premise of this thread is that women over a certain age can't compete with women 5-10 years their junior when in reality those women aren't generally competing for the same men (which means there is no competition).

I know I'll come across as bitter or lying for saying this, but the college students (18-22) that I teach (generally) aren't attracting or interested in the same guys (nor are the same guys interested in us). My only point was to highlight a flaw in logic that is perpetuated in this thread.

There it is .


I don't think any if us really care. We've been 21 before, let them have their fun .


The weird thing is men think women are angry or bitter or are using it to women and it all seems a little vindictive, catty and desperate in the men's part. I think I'm more surprised at how catty and like "women" men are

 

[BedRoomI'z]

I love how yall praise and look up to the smallest stuff

 

[Dman414]

So girls don't like older guys now?

Remember, we grew up with yall We saw all the old nikkas yall stay messing with. "I'm too mature for these little boys"...that's what yall said back then right?