List some ways that online dating is UN-natural

[Desirous]

It's not unnatural if you take it off the net. It kind of doesn't matter where you meet the person. The point of online dating sites, for example, is just to create another avenue for people to meet, but you need to take it off the net - phone, in person and then decide whether a relationship is for you guys...at least that's how I see it.

 

[Remote]

So you out here getting catfished in the real world?
Communication is mostly non-verbal so you getting non-verbal cues over IM's?
What if her breath smells like shyt and U.O.E.N.O.?
Can people deceive you with pics of them 50 pounds ago in real life?

1. No. But that's a form of dishonesty. People have always kept secrets out of fear of acceptance. Touche tho.
2. Communication online can be tricky. People who date but mainly communicate online (due to distance) also talk on the phone and in person. And often clarify via text any misunderstandings.
3. That can be fixed?
4. No. But they can with heels and push up bras and weaves and makeup

 

[MikelArteta]

Old should only be like 10 percent of your game.

 

[The ADD]

It's not unnatural if you take it off the net. It kind of doesn't matter where you meet the person. The point of online dating sites, for example, is just to create another avenue for people to meet, but you need to take it off the net - phone, in person and then decide whether a relationship is for you guys...at least that's how I see it.

/thread

 

[PhonZhi]

i used to fukks with the online but like OP said they fielding msgs from 50 other guys. then i actually went outside and got women by approaching in real life and got numbers with a fraction of the hassle. plus one on one interaction will NEVER be substituted by a cpu

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

as long as both of y'all are actually meeting its cool it only becomes unnatural when the relationship is kept online

 

[daboywonder2002]

online is way better and easier. think of it like this. in person, you got 3 minutes to sell yourself. that's not easy for most dudes. plus your looks gotta be on point. unless your game is that tight where u can have an off day (wolfing, bummy shoes, etc). i dont know about yall. but sometimes i make that late night trip to target or the grocery store in my pajamas. plus there's strength in numbers. how many people do you actually meet in person per week? probably 1 or 2. online- you can get 10 numbers of higher per week.

 

[daboywonder2002]

They be having long ass paragraph conversations online but when they meet in person can't even talk to each other.

because everything that needs to be said is done online. when u meet in person, it's not about talking. its time to get down to business

 

[Desirous]

because everything that needs to be said is done online. when u meet in person, it's not about talking. its time to get down to business

nahhh...I gotta get to know someone offline in addition to online before all that. People aren't always the way they appear online.

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

the idea there is a better picking around the corner is unnatural

many choices, few pickings

 

[He Who Posts Well]

They be having long ass paragraph conversations online but when they meet in person can't even talk to each other.

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