Dear Journal,
Lisa Raye is the gorgeous woman you take on a date and realize how lucky you are to find a single, black gorgeous woman. Hell she will be receptive of the courting process and all. Then 3 months down the line you fall in love and ask for a relationship and then she drops the hammer. The entire 3 months you was spending cash and time giving a fukk about her, she was not into you. She will then say the only reason she was dating you was cause you are a nice guy who treated her nice. But you coming on too strong.
Then she will critique you...
-Too short
-Not enough wealth
-You cook too much ethnic food
-You call her too much
-You aren't that successful in your career field that she feels you should be
Meanwhile the signs were there...you did all the calling...you did all the texting...you did all the courting...you did it all. You never paid attention to her symptoms of a woman that wasn't interested cause she still let you take her out.
I'm not projecting brehs and brehettes...I too dated a Lisa Raye when I was young and dumb...
Don't be like Kamala...be better ya'll....