Lisa Ray says she don’t want a broke ass nikka because she doesn’t wanna stress him out.
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I’m still unloading a massive nut in her
never saw eddie munsters appeal ...but each is own.. always liked shawntae
She ain’t dating no man that isn’t wealthy.
Good for her.
She is severely limiting many of her viable dating options, because men with money ain’t wifing up no washed up industry hoe.
They’ll fukk her and take her out because she’s still a very attractive woman, but that’s the ceiling of her worth to them.
She’ll still have her money and month long vacations with family and friends that she’ll still have to pay for though. Once you hitting a 7 figure tax bracket or even healthy 6 figures the number of others making that type of money is sparse.
Good for her.
She is severely limiting many of her viable dating options, because men with money ain’t wifing up no washed up industry hoe.
They’ll fukk her and take her out because she’s still a very attractive woman, but that’s the ceiling of her worth to them.
She’ll still have her money and month long vacations with family and friends that she’ll still have to pay for though. Once you hitting a 7 figure tax bracket or even healthy 6 figures the number of others making that type of money is sparse.
her box probably got an attitude
The ladies have it rough.Men can price themselves into puzzy galore.When women become too successful, they price themselves right out the game
Hell no lol
They literally have leverage in this world based off something they didn't earn. They just was born with.
There is no pricing herself out the game.
She's aging herself out.
That's why she's in a bad position because she isn't attractive enough for the type nikkaz she wants now
Apprentice
RIP Doughboy Roc
Breh pulling out peer reviewed articles bout a 60 year old thottieY'all just be saying anything...
Black Women Are More Likely to Be Breadwinners. That’s Not a Bad Thing
Access to higher education has helped married Black women become breadwinners. Experts say it can help uplift the Black family.
by Bria Overs
April 28, 2023
Married Black women are more likely than other ethnic groups to be the breadwinner
In 1972, men were the primary or sole breadwinners in 85% of opposite-sex marriages. 50 years later, things have changed — drastically.
Today, according to new research from the Pew Research Center, husbands are the sole or primary breadwinners in 55% of marriages.
The change over several decades can be attributed to a variety of factors. For example, women are pursuing higher education at higher rates and choosing to have fewer children or none at all.
On the other hand, Pew found 29% of all marriages today are egalitarian. Meaning a couple’s earnings are more equal. Each person makes between 40% to 60% of the joint income.
And 16% of marriages have wives as the main source of income.
These numbers are not the same for married Black women.
Pew found one-in-four Black wives out-earn their husbands. And, according to Pew’s survey and analysis of existing government data, Black women are more likely than any other ethnic group to be in marriages where they’re the breadwinner or in an egalitarian marriage.
Of marriages where the wife is Black, the husband is the main source of income 40% of the time. The wife is the main source in 26% of marriages. And, 34% are egalitarian.
Education Propels Black Women Into Making More Money
Richard Fry, senior economist at Pew Research Center and researcher for the report, attributes these findings to education. Fry told Word In Black that Black wives are often better educated than their husbands.
In the 2020-2021 academic year, of all 206,527 Black college graduates earning bachelor’s degrees, Black women earned 134,435 — about 65%. Black men earned 72,092, about 35%, according to the National Center for Education Statistics.
The trend continues for master’s and doctorate degrees.
Antonius Skipper, assistant professor of gerontology at Georgia State University, says this data is not surprising. If anything, it makes sense.
Skipper’s research focuses on African American marriages. He regularly interviews couples with enduring unions and works to find out how they built their relationship and how they cope with common stressors.
“If you look around pretty much any college campus, a large percentage of African American students there are women,” he says.
In addition to this, Black men are disproportionately represented in the criminal justice system. This has long-term effects on Black men’s mental health and income.
Dianne M. Stewart, professor of religion and African American studies at Emory University, agrees. Stewart is the author of “Black Women, Black Love: America’s War on African American Marriage.”
“The numbers are not matching up for Black women to have partners within their social and economic range,” she says.
Skipper and Stewart also pointed to the transatlantic slave trade and centuries of institutional discrimination as reasons for these arrangements in marriages.
“Black women making more money and being in spaces that historically they may not have been able to be in, that helps strengthen the Black family and closes the racial wealth gap,” Skipper says.
Being the Breadwinner Only Matters if You Make it Matter
In Skipper’s perspective, despite the financial role women play, marriage can be financially beneficial for the Black community. It’s a tool for getting out of poverty, he says, more than education or changing neighborhoods.
A study on reasons for divorce named financial problems as one of the top contributors to marital issues and divorce. And patriarchal structures within unions can contribute to this as well if a couple embraces the ideals that come with it, Stewart says.
“If this is what they’re embracing, they will notice the dissonance between the ideal and what can be pragmatically worked out,” Stewart says. “I would think this has to cause some sort of conflict, difficulty, or stress.”
One thing Skipper noticed in his research on Black marriages is their varying financial situations. He found that what matters for married couples is how money is managed in a relationship, not how much each person makes.
“I don’t think there really should be an issue here,” Skipper says. “Let’s remove those stereotypical role expectations and really view this as a partnership.”
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MooseMouthMthafuga
Veteran
The cats she want would have to be above her financial bracket, tho.Sounds to me like she wants to be able to look up to her man(financially speaking).Even if she was 23 , that would still eliminate most men from her dating pool.
That is what she wants. And it's understandable.
But Eliminating dudes from ur dating pool as a 23yr old badd bytch is different than doing it as whatever old age bytch she is.
That 23yr old chick and her are playing in different leagues no matter what the have in their bank accounts
O³ (O cubed)
No more PAWGs, PLEASE??!!!??
She's right. But didn't she stress out her rich breh ex too?
Striving For Greatness
Get Certs or Die Tryin
Stop selling yourself shortNgga that’s Lisa RayeYou think your mailman supposed to get a shot? Tf we supposed to do with this
Think like k fed
The way she speaks and holds her mouth when she speaks always bothered me. 
Nothing wrong with what she said imo. She is talking about her financial level and I can respect that
Ol’Otis
The Picasso of the Ghetto
I just watched itFunky Dineva went in on her last night. He basically said everything y’all said
Everything he said was facts
She’s not rare or one of a kind
She has no personality really
And tbh I don’t think she’s rich at all