As black men, many of us were in high school and had several girls from 15-17 off limits because they had college boyfriends.
Imagine being a sophomore in HS and you competing with them 18-23 year olds who have cars and can trick on them young girls.
The only thing I can offer is my time. I just wanted some head while I’m playing my Dreamcast.
We all have our stories of sexuality. I went to Belize every summer for years and the West Indies are on some 60’s shyt.
Because we are American, we put an age limit on men and girls. 75% of the world doesn’t.
Raise and protect your daughters Coli Brehs. I have a 5 and 2 year old. They will understand sexuality, grown men, not to put themselves in situations where they feel pressured, their body is their body, try not to let their friends influence their actions etc…
It’s a cold world and 13-18 year olds needs tools to navigate it. Lord knows our parents did help us figure it out at all.