this is some sad stuff but once again....it all boils down to the class of women you deal with, honesty and attraction thats all you need for a functional relationship but sooooo many people in general aren't honest cuz of what people will think of them or cuz they want to be accepted. The other thing is that a lot of people (mostly women) are in love with being in love and hurt people only hurt people. When me and the wife went our separate ways I hurt 2 chicks cuz I wasn't honest about what I wanted I just strung them along til I couldn't take it anymore. I still feel bad for it cuz all I had to do was be honest but now they will never trust a dude again cuz of me and will end up doing a dude wrong and then he'll end up hating women and dogging them out when she put her all into him then she gets her heart broke and will never be the same....its acycle. Everyone wants it RIGHT NOW and isn't willing to put in the work for a good relationship. If people just kept 100...100% of the time we wouldn't be reading horror stories like this. And the other thing is you have to be attracted to that person....I've had bad chicks who I got bored with and almost had to force myself to have sex with and chicks who were average or below that I couldn't get enough of.....you can't settle when it comes to attraction or you'll get bored quick...hence these marriage and relationship confessions but there's no reason to bash women in general because clearly these women are in a class of their own